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Mar 29, 2014 4:03 PM

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I am normally submissive but I am also stubborn so I stand my ground dominantly when I want.
Mar 29, 2014 7:25 PM

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Kibura_Iburasa said:
I imagine half you guys when roleplaying in the bedroom defiantly fall into a certain role ;)


Is it a role? Or is it a desire? Some people live to conquer, and others conquered.
Mar 29, 2014 7:38 PM

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I'm normally very passive and allow things to happen, but people tell me that I'm naturally a very controlling person. Which is bad. I should fix that.
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Mar 29, 2014 11:19 PM

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cabacc2 said:
-Zeaos said:
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I only get in relationships with people when I can feel equal to them.

So people are better than you?

what do you mean with better?

I meant that I dont like this dominant - submissive game at all. I feel no desire to play a role, like always being the dominant part or the other way round. When I am in a relationship with someone, I want to be equal. Not dominant, not submissive, just equal.


I agree. I don't think you can really love someone who you are looking up to or down on (figuratively speaking). Such relationships are destined to fail.
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Mar 30, 2014 1:10 AM

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Submissively dominant.
I'm more flexible in regards to men but I'd prefer dominance over women.
Mar 30, 2014 1:33 AM

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Unless I don't care or don't feel like being so, I'm dominant in almost every aspect. Because I'm dominant, people call me stubborn, which I can be but in reality I don't want a pushover girl! I like to be challenged a little, but not too much where she tries to be the dominant one.

Weirdly enough though, during sex and stuff, I would rather be totally submissive. I rather be told what to do than take charge. FEMDOM is fucking hott!!!
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Mar 30, 2014 1:56 AM

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I'm inbetween. I like seducing my partner at times. Teasing is pretty funny, pretending you do not know what she wants. Which ends up with her attempting to be dominant. And when the time is right, I'll go on the dominant side, with me on t-

*ahem*

However, it's a long time since I have been in a relationship, 2 years ago. Haven't bothered with women in that way ever since. I'm having diffculties staying untouched by girls nowadays, it's getting on my nerves. Breezer girls aren't really my thing, if I liked you I'd approach you. Kind of an insult, that these godawfull unattractive breezer girls are attempting to pick me up. But I digress.
Mar 30, 2014 2:11 AM

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In relationships I tend to be dominant with a hint of submissiveness.
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Mar 30, 2014 5:02 AM

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I'm quite submissive most of the times, no matter socially or... in other situations. I don't like taking decisions, I Can handle being in lead but I don't like the pressure, and I like being the smaller one (even when it comes to friends I like feeling at least slightly shorter than them). I do have my playfully dominant moments too though, and while I like being seduced I can seduce too, if I feel confident enough.

Although, I have actually said no to all kinds of relationships so far, so no experiences from that one.
Mar 30, 2014 5:06 AM

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Refer to HaXXspeten's sig for the truth.

Eh, really, I don't mind either role, but..I think im more submissive in general.
Mar 30, 2014 5:40 AM

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Sometimes it's fun to play different roles.
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Mar 30, 2014 8:00 AM

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Both, both, both.
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They just don't exist. Sacrifices are necessary.
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Although if you can endure that pain and walk away from it,
you'll find that you now have a heart strong enough to overcome any obstacle.
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Mar 30, 2014 12:25 PM
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Kibura_Iburasa said:
This thread is not as perverted as you first think....probably.

In a relationship or in general are you a submissive person or a dominant one? are you the seductive or seduced? in control or like to be in the comforting and protective arms of another
*stares into perverted daydream* "I love you goshuujin-sama"....

Ahem....


Extremely dominant sexually. Biting, scratching, forceful movement. Being in control arouses me greatly. But in every other aspect, I do not force nor require anything of other people in my life. The few seduction attempts that I've experienced have failed, when directed at me. In retrospect, my one and only seduction attempt succeeded, which resulted in my first sexual experience with another woman.

Overall, I value tight, calculating self control but only in terms of myself. Taking charge of a situation in order to take on responsibilities that others may frown upon or otherwise be unwilling to do is also fine by me. In my mind, the hard decisions are preferable over the easy ones, given that deep down I believe I can handle those choices.
Mar 30, 2014 12:29 PM

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Tend to switch it up depending on the other person. I'm usually the most reliable & mature one, but that doesn't necessarily translate into dominance.
Mar 30, 2014 12:54 PM

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cabacc2 said:
I only get in relationships with people when I can feel equal to them.


This is how I feel too.

A lot of guys tend to want to date me but try putting me on a pedestal and that's not how relationships work. If they want to try worshiping the ground I walk on, they can do that from far away, not right next to me. Just because I'm a bit nerdier than what people are used to a girl being doesn't mean I'm special or some shit. It just means I enjoy what I'm into. I've ended up in a couple relationships where it was obvious the guy was trying to cater to me and it made me feel awkward and neither of them lasted very long. Yuck.
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Mar 30, 2014 12:56 PM

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Both. I'm more on the controlling/dominant side though.
Mar 30, 2014 1:59 PM

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Aylaine said:
Kibura_Iburasa said:
This thread is not as perverted as you first think....probably.

In a relationship or in general are you a submissive person or a dominant one? are you the seductive or seduced? in control or like to be in the comforting and protective arms of another
*stares into perverted daydream* "I love you goshuujin-sama"....

Ahem....


Extremely dominant sexually. Biting, scratching, forceful movement. Being in control arouses me greatly. But in every other aspect, I do not force nor require anything of other people in my life. The few seduction attempts that I've experienced have failed, when directed at me. In retrospect, my one and only seduction attempt succeeded, which resulted in my first sexual experience with another woman.


Do you choke/strangle as well? There's no better way to say "I love you" than by letting them know you own them physically. Thankfully I'm immune to that as I find strangling very ticklish and you'd get an accidental foot to the face.
Mar 30, 2014 2:02 PM

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LadyRenly said:
foot to the face.


Is that supposed to be a deterrant?~^^



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Mar 30, 2014 2:05 PM

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Maybe, seeing as I can't control what I do when being tickled. It may or may not have happened before. I may have been with two guys who wanted me to drink beer, back when I didn't like the taste of it. They held me down and was trying to forcefully feed it to me, to which I resisted. Then they started torturing me by tickling me. I starting spasming out of control and one dude took a foot to the face.
Mar 30, 2014 2:11 PM
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LadyRenly said:
Maybe, seeing as I can't control what I do when being tickled. It may or may not have happened before. I may have been with two guys who wanted me to drink beer, back when I didn't like the taste of it. They held me down and was trying to forcefully feed it to me, to which I resisted. Then they started torturing me by tickling me. I starting spasming out of control and one dude took a foot to the face.

I try to imagine the situation, but ... how exactly did that happen?
Mar 30, 2014 2:18 PM

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cabacc2 said:
LadyRenly said:
Maybe, seeing as I can't control what I do when being tickled. It may or may not have happened before. I may have been with two guys who wanted me to drink beer, back when I didn't like the taste of it. They held me down and was trying to forcefully feed it to me, to which I resisted. Then they started torturing me by tickling me. I starting spasming out of control and one dude took a foot to the face.

I try to imagine the situation, but ... how exactly did that happen?


I was what...16? Just chilling with two dudes in their bedroom, and then the drinks get busted out. I'm all disgusted out by booze and didn't want any. So they peer pressured me, but that failed. So things got rather physical. I kinda felt bad, but he totally deserved it.
Mar 30, 2014 5:54 PM
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LadyRenly said:
Do you choke/strangle as well? There's no better way to say "I love you" than by letting them know you own them physically. Thankfully I'm immune to that as I find strangling very ticklish and you'd get an accidental foot to the face.
Can't say I've tried that. Maybe too physical for me. I've wrapped my arm around her neck before though so I can push our bodies together more roughly. Rather then choke, I like my hair being pulled more.
Mar 30, 2014 7:26 PM

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I like S&M, but a Loli must always be S!
Mar 30, 2014 7:27 PM

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TheDarkLordOtaku said:
I like S&M, but a Loli must always be S!


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Mar 30, 2014 7:29 PM

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Top or Bottom?

I'd say I'm versatile, most of the time I like to be dominant, though being submissive has its perks.

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with guys I'm totally submissive.
Yes, you are~
Mar 31, 2014 2:59 AM

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*Sees title*

"Baby, I be whatevah' you WHANT.~<3"

*Reads the rest*

"Oh.... ._."

How I usually play it is with a submissive front and bend them my way with underlying dominance....It's not QUITE as evil or manipulative as it sounds I promise.... 6u6
Mar 31, 2014 3:29 AM

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Lime_ said:

-I enjoy being the little spoon

-Laying my head down on others laps

-Being told everything will be ok






Thats not being submissive. Thats being soft.
Mar 31, 2014 4:52 AM

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I'm being the dominant male I was born to be.
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Mar 31, 2014 4:54 AM

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TheDarkLordOtaku said:
I like S&M, but a Loli must always be S!


Both in size and personality.
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there is a limit to the suspension of disbelief

And it's the fan that did it. Not the smoking porn reading rubik cube genius rape ape with a magic boat.
Mar 31, 2014 5:41 PM

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TBH... No relationship to speak of... lately
Don't you wanna hang out and waste your life with us?
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Mar 31, 2014 11:10 PM
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fr3ddyv3ga said:
TBH... No relationship to speak of... lately

When I was in school, guys would always joke "How was Hangela last night?". Quite funny. Nothing wrong with that though. Are you dominant or submissive with your hand?
Apr 1, 2014 12:25 AM

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Aylaine said:
fr3ddyv3ga said:
TBH... No relationship to speak of... lately

When I was in school, guys would always joke "How was Hangela last night?". Quite funny. Nothing wrong with that though. Are you dominant or submissive with your hand?


^LoL me and my friends call it goin "priest" or "Hand solo"
,and my hand is uber aggressive!!
so I guess I'm submissive XD
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Apr 1, 2014 1:32 AM

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Uh I think I'm both in a way, maybe leaning a bit more towards submissive
Jul 3, 2014 1:13 AM

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Regarding relationships, I'd like to think I'm half and half, but in truth I'm probably just a little more dominant, as I appeared to be in my last one.
Jul 3, 2014 1:13 AM
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penguinperson said:
submissive male here
Same
Jul 3, 2014 1:27 AM

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I have no idea what I am.
Jul 3, 2014 1:28 AM
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Ange892 said:
I have no idea what I am.
a fat guy?
Jul 3, 2014 1:30 AM

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Gekishin said:
Ange892 said:
I have no idea what I am.
a fat guy?


You wish.
Jul 3, 2014 1:33 AM
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Ange892 said:
Gekishin said:
a fat guy?


You wish.
Why would I wish for you to be a fat guy?
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Gekishin said:
Ange892 said:


You wish.
Why would I wish for you to be a fat guy?


To make yourself feel better about being a fat guy yourself. ._.
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Ange892 said:
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Why would I wish for you to be a fat guy?


To make yourself feel better about being a fat guy yourself. ._.
That would only work if I was a fat guy. You have still left it ambiguous as to whether or not you were a fat guy though.
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Gekishin said:
Ange892 said:


To make yourself feel better about being a fat guy yourself. ._.
That would only work if I was a fat guy. You have still left it ambiguous as to whether or not you were a fat guy though.


Baka! Of course I'm not. .-.
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Ange892 said:
Gekishin said:
That would only work if I was a fat guy. You have still left it ambiguous as to whether or not you were a fat guy though.


Baka! Of course I'm not. .-.
pls send dick pics for proof
Jul 3, 2014 3:33 AM

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Men should be dominant while women are submissive. That's the ideal relationship.
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Jul 3, 2014 3:58 AM
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Forgot if I answered already. Too lazy to browse pages.
Always the submissive one for me but not too much! It's nice to have balance in a relationship.
If it's sexual, however, huehue.
Jul 3, 2014 4:24 AM
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GuusWayne said:
Men should be dominant while women are submissive. That's the ideal relationship.


This guy speaks for 90% of MAL confirmed

OT: I'm both.
Jul 3, 2014 5:46 AM

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Ange892 said:
I have no idea what I am.


I will help you find out. ;)
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Jul 3, 2014 6:01 AM

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Submissive
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im gonna take this sexual and say that i am submissive. v sub.
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Rizeberry said:
GuusWayne said:
Men should be dominant while women are submissive. That's the ideal relationship.


This guy speaks for 90% of MAL confirmed

OT: I'm both.


Pretty sure 90% of MAL is submissive dudes. But not even submissive in an attractive way, more like submissive in a despairing, lonely way in which they're incapable of asserting themselves and just want some girl to appear someday and take advantage of them.
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