What is your biggest turn off??

Feb 17, 2020 7:35 AM

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dont really care. i just needed to fill the word count for the dumptruck

so basically you were just trying to make a bad joke.... seems legit

Feb 17, 2020 10:25 AM

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Ryulightorb said:
I mean technically low testosterone can be controlled......i say that as someone who needs to take a lot of it because their body produces like zilch

Depends TRT is usually illegal unless you have prescription for doctor or go to a proper place for testosterone therapy, but playing with your hormones is never a good idea everyone I know that's had TRT ended up going bald. So it's a price to pay if you want more testosterone you may just loose all that hair on your head lol. But I say maybe a person has good medical reasons why they don't have much testosterone or can't produce it anymore, an example being testicular cancer and after surgery that's usually a result. Often having more testosterone can lead to swelling of the breasts causing gynecomastia, however gynecomastia can be caused from too much estrogen too if the balance of estrogen and testosterone aren't normal then you can get gynecomastia. Sometimes it's better to just leave your hormones alone, testosterone therapy raises mens risk of blood clot and stroke so I think stay far away from that if you have the choice. Not to mention acne is a common side effect of TRT as well... you're just trading 1 problem for like 5 other problems

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Feb 17, 2020 10:28 AM

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AnimeDownUnder said:

Ryulightorb said:
I mean technically low testosterone can be controlled......i say that as someone who needs to take a lot of it because their body produces like zilch

Depends TRT is usually illegal unless you have prescription for doctor or go to a proper place for testosterone therapy, but playing with your hormones is never a good idea everyone I know that's had TRT ended up going bald. So it's a price to pay if you want more testosterone you may just loose all that hair on your head lol. But I say maybe a person has good medical reasons why they don't have much testosterone or can't produce it anymore, an example being testicular cancer and after surgery that's usually a result. Often having more testosterone can lead to swelling of the breasts causing gynecomastia, however gynecomastia can be caused from too much estrogen too if the balance of estrogen and testosterone aren't normal then you can get gynecomastia. Sometimes it's better to just leave your hormones alone, testosterone therapy raises mens risk of blood clot and stroke so I think stay far away from that if you have the choice. Not to mention acne is a common side effect of TRT as well... you're just trading 1 problem for like 5 other problems

True but still if a doctor prescribes it it's good.

Never heard of people losing their hair infact since i started taking testosterone i have grown hair faster than ever hahaha then again for me it's not TRT it's doctor perscribed and measured strictly.

Feb 17, 2020 10:30 AM

#104

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genuinely stupid people. they'd likely have a whole slew of smaller traits that would be a turn off. also people with superiority complexes

Feb 17, 2020 10:41 AM

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entitled hoes who think they are queens. when really they are a pump & dump at best 👌

Feb 19, 2020 1:20 AM

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AnimeDownUnder said:

shirakawa_megumi said:

> be into low testosterone soyboys
> complain that they soyboy

Just change your class to full time lesbian, there is no point for you to trouble with males.

Sad to see people will judge based off things you can't control, hormone levels can't be controlled. Height and disabilities (like social anxiety) can't be controlled...if you judge people based off those things you're just a bad person.

That's not judging that person as somene inferior or anything tho, it's judging the situation, if I realistically could lead a relationship with someone like that (aka heavy social anxiety and refusing therapy), or if I don't feel attracted at all to a person, because the guy looks way to masculine in my eyes.

Although you can't control the social anxiety in certain moments, you don't have to live with them your whole life.
I have a huge package of stuff and didn't / don't plan to live with it either and I know what's like to be around people, who wallow themselves in their problems but actively refuse anything to get better over years or decades.

Feb 19, 2020 1:36 AM

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Maneki-Mew said:

AnimeDownUnder said:

Sad to see people will judge based off things you can't control, hormone levels can't be controlled. Height and disabilities (like social anxiety) can't be controlled...if you judge people based off those things you're just a bad person.

That's not judging that person as somene inferior or anything tho, it's judging the situation, if I realistically could lead a relationship with someone like that (aka heavy social anxiety and refusing therapy), or if I don't feel attracted at all to a person, because the guy looks way to masculine in my eyes.

Although you can't control the social anxiety in certain moments, you don't have to live with them your whole life.
I have a huge package of stuff and didn't / don't plan to live with it either and I know what's like to be around people, who wallow themselves in their problems but actively refuse anything to get better over years or decades.

That's exactly why I think it's unfair of you to say that... refusing therapy? there is no therapy for anxiety, it's a disorder just like every other physical disorder. As a person who suffers from anxiety, medication does not help. No you don't have to date those kind of people but if something like that puts you off that's really bad, you're only looking at the negatives not the positives. You can't expect people to be perfect and anxiety is not something people can control. It's very much discrimination against disabled people, considering as anxiety is a real disability. But sure you don't have to date those people, just know it's still a form of discrimination. Everyone has things which puts them off though, even I have things I dislike although I have dated people with all the qualities I hate I always gave everyone a chance. You should look at the good things not the bad

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Feb 19, 2020 3:05 AM

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AnimeDownUnder said:

Maneki-Mew said:

That's not judging that person as somene inferior or anything tho, it's judging the situation, if I realistically could lead a relationship with someone like that (aka heavy social anxiety and refusing therapy), or if I don't feel attracted at all to a person, because the guy looks way to masculine in my eyes.

Although you can't control the social anxiety in certain moments, you don't have to live with them your whole life.
I have a huge package of stuff and didn't / don't plan to live with it either and I know what's like to be around people, who wallow themselves in their problems but actively refuse anything to get better over years or decades.

That's exactly why I think it's unfair of you to say that... refusing therapy? there is no therapy for anxiety, it's a disorder just like every other physical disorder. As a person who suffers from anxiety, medication does not help. No you don't have to date those kind of people but if something like that puts you off that's really bad, you're only looking at the negatives not the positives. You can't expect people to be perfect and anxiety is not something people can control. It's very much discrimination against disabled people, considering as anxiety is a real disability. But sure you don't have to date those people, just know it's still a form of discrimination. Everyone has things which puts them off though, even I have things I dislike although I have dated people with all the qualities I hate I always gave everyone a chance. You should look at the good things not the bad

... often with psychological reasons behind them and therefore I know that, you could believe me that I have enough of psychological knowledge.
You know, you have to live with that person for years, or in best case scenario your whole life long. I never wanted to date people, so it was only close friends to me I came together with, so I already knew them.
Who said that people should be perfect? It's just like that you can imagine being with someone or you couldn't and I have not really good experiences in friendships and family with people, who were telling me they don't see a need to change something about them that is clearly unhealthy or outrightly toxic ever.
I can't see myself being with a person, who won't change unhealthy traits or doesn't do self-reflection on themselves or what their problems are, because they NEVER have one - of course. Or they do and then don't bother to change that.
I know this from other people like close family enough, so that's just a rational thought of: "I didn't want to have this in my partner, because I didn't want to live like this."
It's not like I have to worry to look for a partner now.

Feb 19, 2020 5:27 AM

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Feb 19, 2020 7:58 AM

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So do you think it would be better to judge a person as an individual rather than by their anxiety? rather than saying you wouldn't date someone with anxiety, maybe you could look at the person as an individual. There is not always a psychological reasons behind anxiety, once you have anxiety you can just get it for no reason any time and any place. Anxiety is not an unhealthy trait that can be changed, it's a disability and disorder. It's okay to judge someone based on their choices, what they do, how they act, what kind of person they are, things they can change. However I don't think it's fair to judge a person based off disabilities, height and things they can't change. Everyone with anxiety is different and that's why i say assess each person as an individual not by generalizing them based off their disabilities. In the end of the day it's your choice you decide what you like and dislike nobody can change your opinion

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Feb 19, 2020 2:09 PM

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AnimeDownUnder said:

So do you think it would be better to judge a person as an individual rather than by their anxiety? rather than saying you wouldn't date someone with anxiety, maybe you could look at the person as an individual. There is not always a psychological reasons behind anxiety, once you have anxiety you can just get it for no reason any time and any place. Anxiety is not an unhealthy trait that can be changed, it's a disability and disorder. It's okay to judge someone based on their choices, what they do, how they act, what kind of person they are, things they can change. However I don't think it's fair to judge a person based off disabilities, height and things they can't change. Everyone with anxiety is different and that's why i say assess each person as an individual not by generalizing them based off their disabilities. In the end of the day it's your choice you decide what you like and dislike nobody can change your opinion

Again: it's not about judging. If you know you can't live with it, it's better to know it before getting in a relationship. It's just unrealistic for me to live like that.
Imagine this situation: i'm a person, who needs a lot contact with people and I like to take my partner with me most times to share our close friends, but they just can't go to a party or just chilling at home with them etc., we miss a lot of shared experiences and memories etc.
If the anxiety is this strong, and I know people having it like that, and people don't want to work on it, which is possible for many / some, it's not realistic to lead a relationship like this. I didn't say I judge them or they are a bad person or I don't want to know them or anything.
Being more introverted is absolutely okay and being somewhat shy as well, but not being together with someone, who rarely can go anywhere with you.

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Feb 19, 2020 3:40 PM

#112

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If she has a popcorn stuck between her teeth

Feb 20, 2020 12:34 PM

#113

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Usagi said:
- Small penis.

damn bruh, i’m feeling really hurt rn ;___;

Feb 20, 2020 2:06 PM

#114

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shotz said:
the big 3 red flags:

1. asshole to their mother
2. dislikes dogs
3. knife collecton

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If you had a mother like mine, you'd hate her too.

There's nothing wrong with hating your mother.

Feb 20, 2020 2:40 PM

#115

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shotz said:

Seiya said:

If you had a mother like mine, you'd hate her too.

There's nothing wrong with hating your mother.

im not talking about ppl who are afflicted w scumbag parents. i know plenty of them and feel bad for anyone that has to deal w that.

im talking about the other way around.

Oh, I see.

Thanks for clearing that up.

Feb 21, 2020 10:00 PM

#116

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shotz said:
also lmfao at the butthurt dog haters. dogs are basically little happiness machines in a world full of shit and we dont even deserve them. i dont know what to tell u if ur too uptight to get past them having basic bodily functions like we do.

I mean dogs are ok but they are mostly just annoying and bark 24/7 whilst you want to sleep because your neighbours don't train them to shut up.

Having a cat is in every way better unless you properly train the dog......which most people do not.

Now cats are little happiness machines
full of purring and sunshine.

Feb 22, 2020 4:08 PM

#117

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Poor hygiene and If they have a superiority complex. Hard pass.

Feb 22, 2020 4:19 PM

#118

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good hygiene and being a proud normie.

Feb 22, 2020 6:22 PM

#119

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shotz said:

Ryulightorb said:

I mean dogs are ok but they are mostly just annoying and bark 24/7 whilst you want to sleep because your neighbours don't train them to shut up.

Having a cat is in every way better unless you properly train the dog......which most people do not.

Now cats are little happiness machines
full of purring and sunshine.

i love cats too but at the end of the day u have to remember if they werent so small they would not hesitate to eat u lol

theres something really remarkable about the unconditional love and loyalty that dogs have, which unfortunately lot of ppl abuse. like ive heard so many stories of dogs running into burning buildings to save their owners or protecting their owners little kids from attackers. once in a while u will hear about a cat doing something like that but if were gonna be honest cats are not pack animals so theyre usually not wired to do that kind of shit

Depends if cats like a human they won't eat them E.G lions but you aren't wrong i just find the unconditional love of a dog as offputting personally a cat is more close to how i am personality wise.

But yeah dogs are loyal AF

Feb 22, 2020 6:30 PM

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-having a myanimelist
-liking anime
-having a body pillow
-wears hentai shirts

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Feb 22, 2020 6:32 PM

#121

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Mayuka said:
-having a myanimelist
-liking anime
-having a body pillow
-wears hentai shirts

I get the last two but why would you not want a SO to share a hobby :thonk:

Feb 22, 2020 6:34 PM

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Ryulightorb said:

Mayuka said:
-having a myanimelist
-liking anime
-having a body pillow
-wears hentai shirts

I get the last two but why would you not want a SO to share a hobby :thonk:

i was memeing

i dont really mind if they're into anime but hmm, they usually have some creepy hobbies along with liking anime such as fetishizing lolis or being into imouto troupe which doesn't sit well with me.

tbh i honestly would prefer dating a guy who didn't watch anime at all, but was open minded to watching anime with me. i'd pick anime that would suit his interests (based on what netflix shows he normally watches). cus honestly, i find most anime fans kind of corrupted by the weeb culture stuff like hentai LOL

again, not saying anime is BAD but i prefer my s.o. to stay away from weeb culture and weeb memes.

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Feb 22, 2020 6:48 PM

#123

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Mayuka said:

Ryulightorb said:

I get the last two but why would you not want a SO to share a hobby :thonk:

i was memeing

i dont really mind if they're into anime but hmm, they usually have some creepy hobbies along with liking anime such as fetishizing lolis or being into imouto troupe which doesn't sit well with me.

tbh i honestly would prefer dating a guy who didn't watch anime at all, but was open minded to watching anime with me. i'd pick anime that would suit his interests (based on what netflix shows he normally watches). cus honestly, i find most anime fans kind of corrupted by the weeb culture stuff like hentai LOL

again, not saying anime is BAD but i prefer my s.o. to stay away from weeb culture and weeb memes.

Very fair call and a good one tbh there are a lot of weirdos in the weeb community XD

Feb 24, 2020 10:29 AM

#124

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People who don't wash their hands after using the restroom, before cooking, etc.

Mar 5, 2020 9:30 PM

#125

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Maneki-Mew said:

shirakawa_megumi said:

> be into low testosterone soyboys
> complain that they soyboy

Just change your class to full time lesbian, there is no point for you to trouble with males.

I'd love to explain it for immature people in more detail:
The first statement was about appearance. Appearance describes the facial & body shapes and their style.
The second statement is about confidence and maturity.
If you think very hard about it, you might will find differences in these statements and that people don't need a masculine appearance to have some levels of confidence and being emotionally and mentally more mature. Maybe it makes sense for you then.

No really, I don't really answer for that person, who got a hateboner on me.
I just wanted to state that there is really nothing wrong with looking like that, but it's just not attractive to me. Happens.

Oh, Ms Lesbian Princess of Kingdom of Having Very Big Ego.

If you would stop reading your fantasy biology books written by pedophiles leftist who like to look at naked boys in drags (Desmond is Amazing is your favorite show of course), then you would know that hormones have big influence on people's behavior and personality traits. And that testosterone is hormone which make people more confident and prone to action. HAVING TOO LOW TESTOSTERONE IS LITERALLY MEDICAL CONDITION FOR MALES, and yet you promote it because of your twisted fetishes. You won't find anything like that in your propaganda books which literally tells, that males are the biggest problem which you have to destroy to make world better.

You and rest of your team only dream about destroying any trait of masculinity on this doomed planet. If you only could, you would feed all prepubescent males puberty blockers, estrogens and chop off their dicks. Your vile disgusting propaganda to make you more transgender soldiers by fucking up young males.

Now, please go to where your mirror is, and look at your face and in your typical narcissistic way think how your are the better than anyone else and that your believes are the best in the world.

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Mar 7, 2020 12:56 AM

#126

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inauthentic
lack principles
lack integrity
insincere
superficial
support death penalty
racist
close-minded

i guess some of those are the same thing but yeah, you get the point.

btw
^ some nice interactions that i'd expected from MAL. i don't want to get involved but it's a pleasant read.

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Mar 7, 2020 6:12 AM

#127

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If they don't like Gundam, it's over.

Mar 7, 2020 6:58 AM

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Aside from being overweight/slob/smelly (it's a given already):
- Being judgmental - ex.: LGBTQ community, people with disabilities, single mother, etc. (I'm an INFP so yeah)
- Those who still actively communicates with their previous partners. I am in no way controlling, but I believe that once you broke up, it must be over.
- Not being street-smart
- Also a given, but I just want to add: violent, may it be in words or in a physical manner.

Mar 8, 2020 4:52 PM

#129

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my biggest turn off:
- unwilling to keep an open mind for learning (willful ignorance)
- not mature enough to settle disagreements in civil manner (communication)
- incompassionate or lacks empathy (moral / ethics perspective)
- lack of integrity, character, is untrustworthy, or not honest (morals / ethics)
- brags too much or has superiority complex (personality)

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