GrandFisher1 said: I know this post was made a few years ago but I stumbled upon it and had to respond to it. I'm also a female in my earlier 20s who's attracted to only male anime characters. I'd like to be in a relationship and I'm on online dating sites but I just don't find the men on there attractive. Forcing yourself to seek out a relationship with a 3D whenever it's not what you actually want would only be doing both yourself and whoever you end up with a major disservice. If you're only into anime characters right now, then go all in on that. I suggest finding an outlet to express yourself in this regard, though, if you haven't already. It can be something as simple as fantasizing or writing about whatever banal shit you think would be fun. Just something, because otherwise it can be frustrating and difficult to deal with. From my experience it was more cumulative and I needed to find some kind of outlet later on because it created stress, but some might handle it differently. The point is, the outlet you choose can be a fictional proxy for the relationship you desire. Either way, just bail on 3D for now if you feel this way. Even if you want a relationship relationship, if you're not expressing interest in anybody or finding them attractive then it's not worth trying to force it, 3D carries a lot more baggage than 2D. If it's not working, then it's not working, and you already seem to know why. And, hey, maybe later you'll change your mind and actually feel interested in 3D more naturally and not have this issue. And at that point, there's nothing holding you back from putting yourself out there again. But don't force yourself to seek out 3D if you're only into 2D, 2D-only attraction is entirely something that you can live with healthily and happily if your heart's in on it. |
ManabanDec 22, 2019 7:30 PM
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| anime characters are made to be likeable (majority of them at least) real people however doesn't give a F about your feelings tho get some help |
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GrandFisher1 said: I'm also a female in my earlier 20s who's attracted to only male anime characters. I'd like to be in a relationship and I'm on online dating sites but I just don't find the men on there attractive. To be fair, men are assholes; especially male anime fans because of the lack of social skills. Have you tried dating women? |
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FacelessVixen said: GrandFisher1 said: I'm also a female in my earlier 20s who's attracted to only male anime characters. I'd like to be in a relationship and I'm on online dating sites but I just don't find the men on there attractive. To be fair, men are assholes; especially male anime fans because of the lack of social skills. Have you tried dating women? "Hello, I am obviously indicating that I'm a heterosexual female." "AH YES GUYS ARE ASSHOLES, HAVE YOU TRIED DATING WOMEN?" I mean, I guess you were right about anime fans and a complete and utter lack of social skills. Or at least I can't argue with the proof you're putting directly in front of me. |
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GrandFisher1 said: No I haven't. I don't think I'm attracted to females either. Also vaginas are gross.😂 I guess I'll just be alone forever. Well, nothing wrong with being asexual. If that's the road you wanna take, just live your best life. Manaban said: "Hello, I am obviously indicating that I'm a heterosexual female." "AH YES GUYS ARE ASSHOLES, HAVE YOU TRIED DATING WOMEN?" Some people prefer to assume. Some people prefer to ask. |
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FacelessVixen said: GrandFisher1 said: No I haven't. I don't think I'm attracted to females either. Also vaginas are gross.😂 I guess I'll just be alone forever. Well, nothing wrong with being asexual. If that's the road you wanna take, just live your best life.. They have literally stated they are attracted to men, just exclusively anime characters. The fuck you on about with asexuality? Iunno, there's assuming and there's "Yes I am a woman only attracted to male anime characters and I'm using dating apps and not finding any of the males there attractive." What, do you need them to mention that they're into men a third time? |
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| I'm good either way, I'd say. both 3D and 2D girls can be gorgeous, but... like I end up watching more hentai nowadays for several reasons. I follow some Japanese gravure models on Twitter and I think they are just amazingly beautiful. But 3D girls in porn are often just kind of gross. Hard to explain. Anime girls are drawn with perfect skin, proportions, perfect vaginas with no pubic hair, youthful (there's a rabbit hole lol... although I like my loli hentai, I'm just talking about anime girls in general). Plus one can imagine all kinds of things about a drawing because it's fantasy, but with 3D porn you know you're looking at a real person and it has a wierd feel to it, sometimes. BTW, OP. Don't listen to anyone who tries to put you down for your own preferences, ideals, and ways in which you want to live your life. The ONLY thing you need to ask yourself is whether you're happy, and if you could be happier. And hell, most people won't care either way so when I say you need to ask that of yourself, it's just advice. Do whatever you want, including being unhappy if that's what you want lol. |
YossaRedMageDec 22, 2019 8:39 PM
| “In individuals, insanity is rare; but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule.” -Friedrich Nietzsche Aggregate scoring is bad for the anime fandom |
| Ah it's fine OP, typical problem of degeneracy. Not saying that as an insult, saying that as in being unable to have a family and bear kids. It's difficult to deprive what you're enjoying now, but if you ask me whether is it a problem or not, I'd say yes, very much yes. People in modernity society have mistaken joy can be anything as long as the sole individual is indulging. But no, that is selfish and thoughtless. Don't disregard respectability. |
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| Well cute boys are hard to catch, I mean in my case cute girls are maaaybe hard to catch. I like anime characters but I like it more if they get a happy ending with their lover. |
Preachee said: People in modernity society have mistaken joy can be anything as long as the sole individual is indulging. But no, that is selfish and thoughtless. Don't disregard respectability. Or disregard it entirely and stop trying to adhere to bogus, irrelevant standards of what's acceptable and right at the cost of your own happiness ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ You're not immortal and time only goes faster the older you get. Might as well make the most of what you've got instead of just living according to how other people want you to live. |
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| Well, I think it's quite normal to find anime/animated girls/guys attractive and hot, since they are not real, it's easy to animate them with perfect facial features and body that most people find extremely attractive. That's okay. I'm sure every single anime fan has some characters they are attracted to, who they find outstandingly hot/beautiful. Like here I am, I find Rem from Re:Zero really beautiful, probably the most beautiful from all anime characters I've seen. I mean, there are several other beautiful characters, but she's just somehow special. But this all ends there. I just simply find her gorgeous, but not in a way that would affect my real/social life in a bad way. I still find real girls beautiful and attractive, like a normal person. Being (overly) attracted to nothing but animated characters is not normal at all. |
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GrandFisher1 said: I know this post was made a few years ago but I stumbled upon it and had to respond to it. I'm also a female in my earlier 20s who's attracted to only male anime characters. I'd like to be in a relationship and I'm on online dating sites but I just don't find the men on there attractive. Well to be fair, if the guys on dating sites were generally attractive, I doubt they would had been on dating sites in the first place. |
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| Well to be fair fictional characters (especially anime characters) are a pristine oversimplified and over exaggerated versions of the reality with appalling proportions and facial features. They often are more aesthetically pleasing than the average real form but to say that someone is not attracted to real people.... They are shaped, both physically and pesonality wise and you can't interact with them. This is the perfect form of a platonic relationship Perhaps your way of evaluating men is warped due to your habit of watching anime, playing games etc. or you like beautiful facial strucutre not masculine.... I don't really know mate but it's abnormal/unnatural to feel unaffected by real people. |
midascruzerJan 8, 2020 8:10 PM
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| Being attracted to 2D characters is normal Being ONLY attracted to 2D characters is sad |
| Even if it sounds pathetic and cringy on the surface,i can actually relate to this imo. It's just that my introverted nature makes it hard for me to form real life relationships,so i get attached to fictional characters because they evoke some sort of emotion in me wether it would be of protection,admiration,etc.Real life can be pretty boring and mundane,so some sort of escapism helps to relieve that sense of emptiness. |
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| Alot of ppl here are the same kinda. Slowly converting to Waifu-ism and only liking 2D girls. 2D girls can literally be drawn perfect and however YOU desire them so it would make sense that you'd prefer them. It makes, alot of sense tbh. |
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Peaceful_Critic said: Yikes. That's quite sexist unless you believe the same about women. I don't bet heavily on facetiousness/hyperbole and irony. |
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Peaceful_Critic said: I don't tend to take a joke as sexist, but when you lack the components of it such as tone and set-up, it gets hard to tell. Saying men are trash isn't hyperbolizing enough to give an impression of a joke. I suggest saying something like "men are the worst creatures on earth who cause every problem in the universe". Can I ask you something? Have you ever gotten yourself in a situation where you're bored to the point where you'll acknowledge some silly shit that people are saying to you, but not bored enough to where where you turn the encounter into either a serious discussion like the other person wants to, or just be fully immature and double-down on being an asshole and and deal with harsher repercussions later? I ask because you've put me in that situation right now where, sure; I could explain myself and why I don't get along with other dudes. In fact, I'm 90% sure that someone who takes posting shit on the internet more seriously than I do would give a TL;DR explanation and personal stories of why men are chauvinistic pigs. And I could also double down and find at least ten ways to call you a snowflake and being on a moral high horse for no good reason other than ego. But I'm not that bored to fully go in either direction. I'm just here for shits and giggles. Duces. |
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FacelessVixen said: I ask because you've put me in that situation right now where, sure; I could explain myself and why I don't get along with other dudes. In fact, I'm 90% sure that someone who takes posting shit on the internet more seriously than I do would give a TL;DR explanation and personal stories of why men are chauvinistic pigs. So you weren't just being ironic or facetious, you actually are a misandrist, your belief towards why you're justified in such is entirely anecdotal and you're appealing to the notion that somebody else could potentially show up with a bunch of anecdotes about why your misandry is justified to back you up instead of just doing so yourself. Damn. You are a real winner. |
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Manaban said: FacelessVixen said: I ask because you've put me in that situation right now where, sure; I could explain myself and why I don't get along with other dudes. In fact, I'm 90% sure that someone who takes posting shit on the internet more seriously than I do would give a TL;DR explanation and personal stories of why men are chauvinistic pigs. So you weren't just being ironic or facetious, you actually are a misandrist, your belief towards why you're justified in such is entirely anecdotal and you're appealing to the notion that somebody else could potentially show up with a bunch of anecdotes about why your misandry is justified to back you up instead of just doing so yourself. Damn. You are a real winner. ...Can I ask you something too? Have you ever gotten yourself in a situation where you thought that messing with someone online wasn't going to lead to anything, but it turns out that you picked the wrong person in that the other person gives less of a fuck than you do and is significantly more willing to engage in more petty arguments than you are? Welp, I'm not a chauvinistic pig so I'll admit defeat. This is way more than I bargained for. Kudos to you good sir. |
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Manaban said: Preachee said: People in modernity society have mistaken joy can be anything as long as the sole individual is indulging. But no, that is selfish and thoughtless. Don't disregard respectability. Or disregard it entirely and stop trying to adhere to bogus, irrelevant standards of what's acceptable and right at the cost of your own happiness ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ You're not immortal and time only goes faster the older you get. Might as well make the most of what you've got instead of just living according to how other people want you to live. That's partially true, and it can as well lead to something partially wrong. That is correct, nothing is objectively truth to be adhered. But respectability still exists, as if entirely neglecting it would be the optimal "happiness" for society as a whole. Sometimes, one has to be selfless. |
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| Then you might suffer from "Schediaphilia" which is also known as Toonphilia. So as Michael Jordan once said "Stop it, get some help" |
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Preachee said: That's partially true, and it can as well lead to something partially wrong. That is correct, nothing is objectively truth to be adhered. lmao shut up dude Preachee said: But respectability still exists, as if entirely neglecting it would be the optimal "happiness" for society as a whole. Sometimes, one has to be selfless. There's being selfless and there's sacrificing your own happiness and potentially introducing others to misery as a side effect of that sacrifice - unless, by some absolute fucking miracle, you think that a healthy relationship can form on such a dishonest and insincere foundation - all for some lipservice conformity, or what you're trying to describe as "selfless happiness for society as a whole." Why the fuck is it any of there business, why do they care, and what's going to do their lives whenever you're just biding your time being fucking single? This isn't a matter of being respectable or not. This is just being so worried about how people perceive you that you're being negligent and stupid. |
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Manaban said: Preachee said: That's partially true, and it can as well lead to something partially wrong. That is correct, nothing is objectively truth to be adhered. lmao shut up dude Preachee said: But respectability still exists, as if entirely neglecting it would be the optimal "happiness" for society as a whole. Sometimes, one has to be selfless. There's being selfless and there's sacrificing your own happiness and potentially introducing others to misery as a side effect of that sacrifice - unless, by some absolute fucking miracle, you think that a healthy relationship can form on such a dishonest and insincere foundation - all for some lipservice conformity, or what you're trying to describe as "selfless happiness for society as a whole." Why the fuck is it any of there business, why do they care, and what's going to do their lives whenever you're just biding your time being fucking single? This isn't a matter of being respectable or not. This is just being so worried about how people perceive you that you're being negligent and stupid. Oh shit I'm so fucking sorry my guy. Guess you can't stand some normal debates but to add some stupid comments about my intellect and how superior you are in between. My bad, should not have wasted my time on condescending cucks. |
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Preachee said: Oh shit I'm so fucking sorry my guy. Guess you can't stand some normal debates but to add some stupid comments about my intellect and how superior you are in between. My bad, should not have wasted my time on condescending cucks. I mean, maybe I wouldn't call you a dipshit if you didn't say dipshit things? Like, have you actually thought about what you're saying beyond WELL IT'S NORMAL SO IT MUST BE RIGHT. Because it's so negligible at best, and outright harmful at worst, to encourage the type of thing you're encouraging here. I don't understand why you seem to think that it should even be treated with an iota of respect, because this isn't an opinion that deserves it. |
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Manaban said: Preachee said: Oh shit I'm so fucking sorry my guy. Guess you can't stand some normal debates but to add some stupid comments about my intellect and how superior you are in between. My bad, should not have wasted my time on condescending cucks. I mean, maybe I wouldn't call you a dipshit if you didn't say dipshit things? Like, have you actually thought about what you're saying beyond WELL IT'S NORMAL SO IT MUST BE RIGHT. Hmm.. so this is what happens when you're given enough anonymity and total freedom of speech. Such ease in saying words that one can't say in real life without anxiety is truly something MAL users would never refrain from exploiting. Conservative, superior complex, shitfully supercilious and the craving to destroy someone through internet... well not that critical, but I see. You seem to care most about individualism and totally disregard collectivism. I mean, sure who the fuck cares anyway. Fuck this society, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if a large fraction of the youth becomes degenerates. Let's argue what happiness is, do you want to? Or am I too much of a dipship that you obstinate little guy can't take it? |
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Preachee said: Hmm.. so this is what happens when you're given enough anonymity and total freedom of speech. Such ease in saying words that one can't say in real life without anxiety is truly something MAL users would never refrain from exploiting. Oh god, you're one of those YOU WOULDN'T SAY THAT TO ME IRL types. Fun. I mean, if you want to travel to my location or meet up halfway just so I can call you a dipshit to your face, I've got no objections to doing so. Preachee said: Conservative, superior complex, shitfully supercilious and the craving to destroy someone through internet... well not that critical, but I see. Lmao, where the fuck are you getting "conservative" from out of this, and why are you, of all people, using it as a pejorative? Tell me, which one of us the one that's arguing to do things in the traditional way to appease social norms again? Also, it's not a "superior complex" if I'm just capable of recognizing that there's no need to advocate trying to peer pressure people into seeking out a traditional relationship if they don't want to be in one, because that's a horrid and unhealthy foundation to form a relationship on in the first place, and it can negatively impact more people than just them to boot. Pointing out that it's only going to be detrimental for all parties involved in the long run is just pointing out the common sense route that these things will take. Preachee said: You seem to care most about individualism and totally disregard collectivism. I mean, sure who the fuck cares anyway. Fuck this society, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if a large fraction of the youth becomes degenerates. If your definition of degenerate is "somebody who's not forcing themselves into traditional relationships at the cost of their own happiness," then sure. I'd also argue that you have an extremely loose definition of degeneracy, though, to the point where it's not worth placing any value in whatsoever. Maybe when your English isn't so awful. Some of this shit is so bad I can't read it without laughing tbh. Yes, this is a problem, but I could look past it if you didn't advocate disgusting ideas that involve forcing people into miserable situations that are only detrimental to them and those around them just to suit your idea of "respectability." |
ManabanDec 23, 2019 2:42 PM
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Manaban said: Preachee said: Hmm.. so this is what happens when you're given enough anonymity and total freedom of speech. Such ease in saying words that one can't say in real life without anxiety is truly something MAL users would never refrain from exploiting. Oh god, you're one of those YOU WOULDN'T SAY THAT TO ME IRL types. Fun. I mean, if you want to travel to my location or meet up halfway just so I can call you a dipshit to your face, I've got no objections to doing so. Preachee said: Conservative, superior complex, shitfully supercilious and the craving to destroy someone through internet... well not that critical, but I see. Lmao, where the fuck are you getting "conservative" from out of this, and why are you, of all people, using it as a pejorative? Tell me, which one of us the one that's arguing to do things in the traditional way to appease social norms again? Also, it's not a "superior complex" if I'm just capable of recognizing the need to not advocate trying to peer pressure people into seeking out a traditional relationship if they don't want to be in one, because that's a horrid and unhealthy foundation to form a relationship on in the first place, and it can negatively impact more people than just them to boot. Pointing out that it's only going to be detrimental for all parties involved in the long run is just pointing out the common sense route that these things will take. Preachee said: You seem to care most about individualism and totally disregard collectivism. I mean, sure who the fuck cares anyway. Fuck this society, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if a large fraction of the youth becomes degenerates. If your definition of degenerate is "not forcing themselves into a traditional relationship at the cost of their own happiness," then sure. I'd also argue that you have an extremely loose definition of degeneracy, though, to the point where it's not worth placing any value in whatsoever. Maybe when your English isn't so laughable. Some of this shit is so bad I can't read it without laughing tbh. Yes, this is a problem, but I could look past it if you didn't advocate disgusting ideas that involve forcing people into miserable situations that are only detrimental to them and those around them just to suit your idea of "respectability." Ok I've decided you are nothing but un unworthy obstinate guy, how predictable and boring. I'll stop replying for now, there's no use if you are this "conservative" to your own ideas. Good bye my cuck. |
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