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I'm still pure😏.
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Dec 28, 2019 6:29 AM

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Still intact. I would be lying if I said I never was interested, but the idea of it isn't particularly pleasing atleast in theory. That and I don't usually interact with alot of people anyway, I'm not socially awkward but I don't really look very stunning either. Nowadays I have more things to think about than a useless label.
Dec 28, 2019 6:34 AM
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You guys know I'm from a conservative country right? Not only can I not lose it until I get married, I'm also almost past "marriageable age". Serves me right for being picky about potential mates.
Dec 28, 2019 6:37 AM

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Still have not. Probably gonna lose mine from a ballistic gel
Dec 28, 2019 6:45 AM
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MySweetLucifer said:
@operationvalkyri You could've lost your virginity whenever you would've want to. As long as nobody knows.
True. Though I'd be too scared of someone finding out to take the risk. My society is not particularly nice to those who do take it, and I'm high 90s on Cautiousness on that 5-point personality meter. Maybe if I'm travelling or something...

Edit: You deleted your post tempting me to the dark side.
Dec 28, 2019 6:46 AM

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FlowersInTheRain said:

I actually agree with you on many of your posts.


Well now they're all gone with the wind. I don't miss them. They were just plain and stupid.
Dec 28, 2019 6:48 AM

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Almost lost mine at 8 to my cousin who told me to bend over and pull down my panties for her while she was visitng.


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"JUST KILL ME."
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Dec 28, 2019 6:49 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
You guys know I'm from a conservative country right? Not only can I not lose it until I get married, I'm also almost past "marriageable age". Serves me right for being picky about potential mates.


that sucks if you got the money get out of there lol

Konradikon said:
Still have not. Probably gonna lose mine from a ballistic gel


dude you are already 24 the same age when i lost mine, you might become a wizard
Dec 28, 2019 6:55 AM
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deg said:
operationvalkyri said:
You guys know I'm from a conservative country right? Not only can I not lose it until I get married, I'm also almost past "marriageable age". Serves me right for being picky about potential mates.


that sucks if you got the money get out of there lol
Sigh. Everybody keeps telling me that. I've got the resources and the skills to get out. More than half of my family left. I kinda pledged myself to the development sector here. Contributing to the increasing levels of brain drain here would be horrible. Someone's got to stay and help fix the mess.
Dec 28, 2019 6:57 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
deg said:


that sucks if you got the money get out of there lol
Sigh. Everybody keeps telling me that. I've got the resources and the skills to get out. More than half of my family left. I kinda pledged myself to the development sector here. Contributing to the increasing levels of brain drain here would be horrible. Someone's got to stay and help fix the mess.


oh ok a true patriot i can agree with that
Dec 28, 2019 7:01 AM

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<12 being an option is the reason so many dumb cunts turn into sluts and why society is filled with low self-esteem idiots. top kek
Dec 28, 2019 7:02 AM
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deg said:
operationvalkyri said:
Sigh. Everybody keeps telling me that. I've got the resources and the skills to get out. More than half of my family left. I kinda pledged myself to the development sector here. Contributing to the increasing levels of brain drain here would be horrible. Someone's got to stay and help fix the mess.


oh ok a true patriot i can agree with that
Funnily enough I don't consider myself a patriot. I don't like the idea of allegiance to a government or country.
Dec 28, 2019 7:07 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
deg said:


oh ok a true patriot i can agree with that
Funnily enough I don't consider myself a patriot. I don't like the idea of allegiance to a government or country.


but you love your countrymen right? so close enough lol
Dec 28, 2019 7:11 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
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Edit: You deleted your post tempting me to the dark side.


No. I just changed my mind because discussing something like this seems pretty stupid/useless to me.
Dec 28, 2019 7:14 AM
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deg said:
operationvalkyri said:
Funnily enough I don't consider myself a patriot. I don't like the idea of allegiance to a government or country.


but you love your countrymen right? so close enough lol
Yikes, no. I don't think I'm that altruistic. To be really honest with myself, I'm likely doing this to get some validation for my existence, you know? Gives me the satisfaction of contributing where I'm needed. I think it stems from liking the feeling of being needed. Pretty selfish, really. None of us are 'saviours'. It isn't human nature to be. We're all driven by self-interest. It just manifests differently for different people.

This discussion got way derailed. Sorry OP.
Dec 28, 2019 7:16 AM

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operationvalkyri said:
deg said:


but you love your countrymen right? so close enough lol
Yikes, no. I don't think I'm that altruistic. To be really honest with myself, I'm likely doing this to get some validation for my existence, you know? Gives me the satisfaction of contributing where I'm needed. I think it stems from liking the feeling of being needed. Pretty selfish, really. None of us are 'saviours'. It isn't human nature to be. We're all driven by self-interest. It just manifests differently for different people.

This discussion got way derailed. Sorry OP.


ah ok ye hero syndrome is a thing too lol im watching My Hero Academia this season

and yep lets end this here lol its getting too off-topic
Dec 28, 2019 7:18 AM

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deg said:
Konradikon said:
Still have not. Probably gonna lose mine from a ballistic gel


dude you are already 24 the same age when i lost mine, you might become a wizard


I don't plan to become a full wizard, man. Wingardium Leviosa is the spell I only need.
Dec 28, 2019 7:35 AM

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Konradikon said:
deg said:


dude you are already 24 the same age when i lost mine, you might become a wizard


I don't plan to become a full wizard, man. Wingardium Leviosa is the spell I only need.


yep good luck or you can lose it to a nearby brothel there too like i did lol
Dec 28, 2019 8:56 AM

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Im almost 16 and im still a virgin, I havent even been in a solid relationship yet, out of the small group of people ive dated no relationship lasted longer than 5 or so weeks... meanwhile my best friend lost her virginity a month before she turned 13...

I just wanna be with someone TwT
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Dec 28, 2019 9:04 AM

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Bitch please, I’m a winner. And you know what winners do?

they don’t lose.
Dec 28, 2019 9:24 AM

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I'm 22 an I still have it. I know I should probably lose it soon, but I wouldn't want to lose it to just anyone. Losing it to a prostitute seems like just giving up on the idea of it being special at all. I'm not Christian so it's not like I'm waiting for marriage or anything.
Dec 28, 2019 10:54 AM

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17 and a virgin, sorta curious about having sex but I could live without trying it.
currently: doing my best!

Dec 28, 2019 12:42 PM

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@Cynder360 If you can live without trying it, I don't see you as a human made out of flesh and blood.
Dec 28, 2019 1:32 PM

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according to the poll there are more non-virgins than virgins on here.

Clearly there's something wrong
"my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography"

- Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old

MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru.
Dec 28, 2019 1:35 PM

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Railey2 said:
according to the poll there are more non-virgins than virgins on here.

Clearly there's something wrong


the virgin option was just recently added thats why lol
Dec 28, 2019 1:37 PM

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deg said:
Railey2 said:
according to the poll there are more non-virgins than virgins on here.

Clearly there's something wrong


the virgin option was just recently added thats why lol
that makes a lot of sense, thanks deg
"my life at this state could be transposed into a pretty massive biography"

- Cneq, "the guy who was literally using BTC in 2012 to make deals in the first main instance of a digital itemized economy forming naturally in all human history (also the precursor of NFTs) and who had 20k+ total trades.", 23 years old

MAL's most prolific antivaxxer, Noboru.
Dec 28, 2019 1:47 PM

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I was 25, to a girl I was dating at the time. It went pretty well I thought, especially for my first time.
Dec 28, 2019 1:52 PM

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MySweetLucifer said:
@Cynder360 If you can live without trying it, I don't see you as a human made out of flesh and blood.


Sex isn't everything lmao, I've lived this long without it and I can easily see myself going the rest of my life without it
currently: doing my best!

Dec 28, 2019 3:06 PM

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Not there yet. It's something I figure I'd like to try but I'm just not confident enough to go for, y'know?
Dec 28, 2019 3:32 PM

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Ever Wet dreams by Cole? thats how it went instead it was her house and 12am . was 16 lol

If you wanna wait till marriage or something you should. Trust me you'll regret it if you don't. For me I love it, even though it gets boring sometimes
Dec 28, 2019 3:53 PM

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Haven't done it; could easily do, but I don't want to for now, because it would feel too empty for me if it were under a paid circumstance, even when escorts could at least convincingly emulate a love life
Will likely become a "wizard", but I don't mind and rather wish to have my first experience with someone who loves me and whom I also love and when we both are ready for it

Railey2 said:
deg said:


the virgin option was just recently added thats why lol
that makes a lot of sense, thanks deg
But I thought, the polls would be reset whenever a new option would be added...
Dec 28, 2019 4:05 PM

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Noboru said:

Railey2 said:
that makes a lot of sense, thanks deg
But I thought, the polls would be reset whenever a new option would be added...


nope dude thats not what happened in my poll threads whenever i added a new poll option at least thats what i remember
Dec 28, 2019 4:37 PM

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I don't know what's worse....that the option 12 is present on the poll, or the fact that FIVE people voted for it

Dec 28, 2019 4:46 PM

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I lost my virginity when I was 18 to my now husband.
Dec 28, 2019 4:48 PM
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23 I guess. Though I think people would be better off not worrying so much about being age x and "still being a virgin". It really isn't a competition. Not to mention doing it solely for the sake of doing it probably won't be the best experience
Dec 28, 2019 7:19 PM

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The polls tell a different story, but looking at the responses is kind of lul. I am absolutely sure all of you anime forum regulars lost your virginity at 13, it's completely believable.

Anyways, I'm a pure lad. Since I don't really put myself on the market and don't really want to concern myself with these things as of now, I see it being that way for the foreseeable future.


Dec 28, 2019 9:24 PM

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Was 16. Drank a lot. Even drank the drink of the girl I lost it too. Got caught doing it by my friends mom. I don't remember much of it or how it felt but I'll never forget the moments where I wasn't blacking out. It was funny.
Dec 28, 2019 10:07 PM

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DoctorWasabi said:
I don't know what's worse....that the option 12 is present on the poll, or the fact that FIVE people voted for it



LOL I was thinking the exact same thing too about the under 12 option. I laughed when I first noticed it but when I voted, I realized that 5 people actually did under 12.

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Dec 28, 2019 10:09 PM

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Railey2 said:
deg said:


the virgin option was just recently added thats why lol
that makes a lot of sense, thanks deg


I'm not that surprised that a majority of people on MAL forums are virgins. No offense to the weebs on the forums.

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Dec 28, 2019 10:33 PM
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Pretty sure I was 15, but man I'm trying to force myself to forget those years lol. Real fuckboy hours back then.
Dec 28, 2019 11:40 PM
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20 years old, and I'm still a virgin. The funny thing is, I probably could've lost my virginity sooner:

When I was in middle school, there was this girl who flirted with me for a period of time. When I say flirt, I don't mean that it was subtle: she would like smile at me from across the table in class, calling out my name in a very seductive voice. While I thought it was hot, I had 0 clue that it meant she might have been interested in me...that or she was just trying to manipulate me. It's weird because I had a crush on her. Yet I never had the courage to ask out any of my crushes.

Recently at work, one of my female friends/co-worker asked me if I wanted to know her social media account. I still think that's a very unique question, but I assume it means she's somewhat interested in me. Because afterwards, she asked for my Instagram account, and then my age. I told her my Instagram account name, but I later realized that I slightly forgot the name of it, so she's probably never going to find me on Instagram, and I probably blew any small chances I had at catching a date. Oh well. I'm still getting to know them as friends, getting to socialize with girls.

When I was much younger, that's just the kind of person I was: someone who just didn't "get" social norms. Like at all. I only learned months ago that asking a person of the opposite sex for their number has sexual/romantic implications.
I think if I really put my mind to it, I can get a girlfriend, and lose my virginity. Like, becoming close friends with a girl isn't all that hard: just be yourself, but don't show you're anxious. Once you find just one common interest you and the girl are passionate about, it should be easy to get closer.
However, I'm not romantically interested in anyone right now. So trying to get romantically involved with a girl who I'm not interested in just to have sex, would make me feel terrible.
I also think that directly flirting is absolutely creepy, and I'd feel it goes against who I am as a person: I'm interested in a girl, romantically or just sexually, I'm not going to act weird or flirty: I'm just going to smile, ask her what she does in her spare time: if she says, "I just relax," that's subtext for, "I am not interested in talking to you." Which is perfectly fine: I'll just move on.
I've heard some girls play, "hard to get" and "mind games." I won't deal with that bullshit: I'm not a person who speaks in subtext, because I hate subtext. If a girl appears disinterested in me, regardless of whether she actually is or is not, I'm going to move on.
I'm Turkish: we're more direct than Americans.
Sure, rejection sucks, but hey, there's plenty of people out there.

TuryuriOwO said:

I'm not that surprised that a majority of people on MAL forums are virgins. No offense to the weebs on the forums.


I mean...why do you think waifus exist?: As a coping mechanism for us virgins that reassure us 2D > 3D girls.

Usagi said:
I lost my virginity when I was 18 to my now husband.


I'm surprised there's someone on MAL who has a spouse. I've always known there are people here who have boy/girl friends, but I never thought someone might have a spouse. It's interesting that you mentioned that you have a husband, because I'm going to attend one of my relative's wedding.
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Dec 28, 2019 11:55 PM

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I lost mine January 19 or 20th of 2019. Tbh I thought it was great,but kinda over rated at the same time. Losing your virginity ain’t gonna solve all your problems.
Dec 29, 2019 1:15 AM

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20 years old virgin and proud, Not intending to lose it anytime soon and not planning to lose it before marriage either.
Dec 29, 2019 1:25 AM

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I never lost my virginity because I never lose.


Oh my gosh I can't imagine how hard it was to deflect all those people who wanted to do u dirty

What a hero
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Dec 29, 2019 1:38 AM

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25> and still pure. You have people that say , "need to get a girlfriend" . Not bothered as face to fate will decide

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Dec 29, 2019 3:04 AM

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deg said:
nope dude thats not what happened in my poll threads whenever i added a new poll option at least thats what i remember
I could have sworn that poll-resetting used to be the default, at least whenever I did a poll or when I saw someone else do a huge poll and then add a new option. Could be some newer change, then

Usagi said:
I lost my virginity when I was 18 to my now husband.
Aww, this sounds very romantic
For me, it doesn't have to be after wedding, either, but I would like to gain my first experience with someone I would love that much
Anyway, I'm rooting for you two and cheers :)
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Dec 29, 2019 3:39 AM

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depends on your definition of virginity but im still pure lmao

shout outs to the people who lost it before 12 tho lol
Dec 29, 2019 4:01 AM
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Still a virign because I'm not into hookups and I want to lose it to someone that's special to me (I'm 16)
Dec 29, 2019 4:02 AM

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Cynder360 said:
MySweetLucifer said:
@Cynder360 If you can live without trying it, I don't see you as a human made out of flesh and blood.


Sex isn't everything lmao, I've lived this long without it and I can easily see myself going the rest of my life without it


That was just a joke. A very dumb one actually.
Dec 29, 2019 5:03 AM

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Lolz, another one of these virginity-threads.

*cough* Seriously though, it depends on your definition of 'virginity' - I've seen various interpretations of that term depending on, well, what one has done. Like, for some people only straight penetrative sex counts as loosing your V-card, to others oral and masturbation already do the trick.
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SpectralFox said:
Lolz, another one of these virginity-threads.

*cough* Seriously though, it depends on your definition of 'virginity' - I've seen various interpretations of that term depending on, well, what one has done. Like, for some people only straight penetrative sex counts as loosing your V-card, to others oral and masturbation already do the trick.


isnt the most common definition the genital penetration (sexual intercourse) though
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