| Because I prefer looking at female characters in anime. GL = girls x 2 BL = girls x 0 girls x 2 > girls x 0 => GL > BL :) |
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| its the exact opposite for me. BL > GL |
| I actually dont like both but If I had to pick one, Of course I would pick GL and not BL. Isn't it obvious. Its because I am a guy who is attracted to girls. Seeing boys make out with boys is disgusting to me. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time.  |
Sotara said: Yes, they can. I like BL genre, but not like GL. But I am neutral to people who like GL genre, it is their own decision, same as mine. SAME BESTIEEE... for some reason GL doesn't sit right w me and feels weird but thats my problem overall i like BL more (but not like super lovers shit) |
soniyay said: Sotara said: Yes, they can. I like BL genre, but not like GL. But I am neutral to people who like GL genre, it is their own decision, same as mine. SAME BESTIEEE... for some reason GL doesn't sit right w me and feels weird but thats my problem overall i like BL more (but not like super lovers shit) Me too. Maybe because you are a girl and like to watch and read about BL. |
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| I don't know why people still ask this question. |
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FZREMAKE said: I actually dont like both but If I had to pick one, Of course I would pick GL and not BL. Isn't it obvious. Its because I am a guy who is attracted to girls. Seeing boys make out with boys is disgusting to me. As someone who's attracted to girls as well, no I don't find it obvious. I don't find it disgusting seeing boys make out. I'm not into boys but I am into nice romances and there's some heartwarming male romances that I've thoroughly enjoyed and would totally watch again. :) Not attacking you or anything, nobody chooses how they feel about certain things of course, just saying that it might not be that obvious. ^^ |
Pit93 said: FZREMAKE said: I actually dont like both but If I had to pick one, Of course I would pick GL and not BL. Isn't it obvious. Its because I am a guy who is attracted to girls. Seeing boys make out with boys is disgusting to me. As someone who's attracted to girls as well, no I don't find it obvious. I don't find it disgusting seeing boys make out. I'm not into boys but I am into nice romances and there's some heartwarming male romances that I've thoroughly enjoyed and would totally watch again. :) Not attacking you or anything, nobody chooses how they feel about certain things of course, just saying that it might not be that obvious. ^^ Well it is obvious for 99% of the population on earth and I was talking about them :) |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time. |
FZREMAKE said: Pit93 said: As someone who's attracted to girls as well, no I don't find it obvious. I don't find it disgusting seeing boys make out. I'm not into boys but I am into nice romances and there's some heartwarming male romances that I've thoroughly enjoyed and would totally watch again. :) Not attacking you or anything, nobody chooses how they feel about certain things of course, just saying that it might not be that obvious. ^^ Well it is obvious for 99% of the population on earth and I was talking about them :) Most people I know are not "disgusted", when they see people of the same sex exchanging intimacies with each other. It's just "whatever". No strong feelings in either direction, it's just normal. So those "99%" seem pretty far-fetched to me. :P |
Pit93 said: FZREMAKE said: Well it is obvious for 99% of the population on earth and I was talking about them :) Most people I know are not "disgusted", when they see people of the same sex exchanging intimacies with each other. It's just "whatever". No strong feelings in either direction, it's just normal. So those "99%" seem pretty far-fetched to me. :P Hmmm. Almost everyone I know feels disgusted by man to man intimacy. They dont find it normal either. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time. |
FZREMAKE said: Pit93 said: Most people I know are not "disgusted", when they see people of the same sex exchanging intimacies with each other. It's just "whatever". No strong feelings in either direction, it's just normal. So those "99%" seem pretty far-fetched to me. :P Hmmm. Almost everyone I know feels disgusted by man to man intimacy. They dont find it normal either. Well, then maybe don't project from your surroundings on 99% of the population. ;) |
| Because GL is superior to BL and that is a fact 👌👌 |
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| I find GL to be rather err dull. In terms of plot at least. It's basically two girls together. Not much of a leap from how girls as friends are usually portrayed in anime. So likely already appeals to those who like cute girls in anime anyway. (Plus males will still probably still enjoy it more too as it's not a threat to their masculinity :P ) Personally I prefer BL but then again I prefer male characters in anime. Plus I like the potential conflict. |
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| It's just a matter of feeling. For me I don't feel as happy as watching GL when I look into BL pictures and works. Some people like watching boy and girl interacting in particular, and they shouldn't also be judged to be traditional or even homophobic. Preferring any one of them should not be judged or questioned, unless someone has much hate on other genres and attacks other's interest. |
Pit93 said: FZREMAKE said: Hmmm. Almost everyone I know feels disgusted by man to man intimacy. They dont find it normal either. Well, then maybe don't project from your surroundings on 99% of the population. ;) Nah I would still say that the majority of the people dont like BL as much as you do. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time. |
| I will say something which I don't know if it is true or not, but what I have heard of. BL anime relationships are more toxic and borderline abuse at some points. I don't know if that is accurate but I have heard of such shows like Killing Stalking which is not a healthy relationship. While Girl Love tends to be more cutesy and wholesome, even pure if you will. Of course I can't say there aren't any wholesome BL shows. There is Sasaki and Miyano which is kinda cute But I have seen clips of different BL anime or movies where the relationship is toxic and very one sides. One is the dominating side while one is the submissive one. Like not in a good way but in a violent one, maybe even manipulative one. Feel free to correct me |
| Go check out my latest review: https://myanimelist.net/profile/YeeYeeAss/reviews |
FZREMAKE said: Nah I would still say that the majority of the people dont like BL as much as you do. That was never what I claimed and also not what you said initially, but oh well. |
| I dislike both GL and BL so I guess I'm fine |
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| I like both. But GL turns me on while BL turns me off. It's pretty straightforward to me. I still do enjoy BL stories tho. It's just that GL has a little something more to me. |
| I'm attracted to girls, watching GL has that +attraction point that BL can't do. (3) |
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| Bcoz ive seen it in Hentai a number of times. Up to the point that it desensitized me about it. Love your signature OP!!! |
" Kindness can sometimes lead you to trouble. "  |
| People seriously need to stop politicizing BL and GL, while both might have a handful of good shows, at the end of the day BL is created to pander to the fetishes of women and GL for men so it's just a matter of preference. It's a different question if you like one and actively hate on the other though, that's just hypocrisy. |
 「あなたのためなら世界中を敵にしてもかまわない」 "If it was for your sake I wouldn't mind even if I had to turn the whole world into my enemy" |
| i'm down with any romance as long as they're both cute |
| Honestly I don't like either, straight romance is my go to |
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| No better explanation than post #51 :) |
| Because humans think differently from each other and have preferences. I'm sorry, but this is an incredibly closed minded question. No offense, just trying to contribute to the discussion, but- Why do you think that someone who likes GL should have to like BL as well? Or the other way around? You're allowed to have preferences of your own. You don't have to just accept whatever social media tells you as your opinion. Just enjoy the things that you do, as long as you aren't harming anyone, and think critically wherever necessary. Don't worry about what other people like, because it doesn't affect you in any way, shape, or form. |
| I like watching bl. I don't watch gl, but not because I don't like it or because it disgusts me, I'm just less interested in it. However, when I see comments in which people write that they like GL but BL disgusts them, Or vice versa.I feel like this XD Like, is it some half-hearted homophobia or something? lol |
Jollyne7Nov 25, 6:25 PM
Reply to Maruseru93
i dislike bl because just imagining a man sucking another man's cock after he's in his ass and covered in poop thats so disgusting
| @Maruseru93 But you know straight couples have sex like this too. XD Besides, it's weird to imagine it. I don't know what your ideas are about BL or GL, but those are usually series that show normal, cute relationships. There are no erotic scenes unless you watch something more hardcore and mature |
Jollyne7Nov 25, 6:51 PM
| Isn't it the same as asking why a straight man likes girls and not guys? |
| My updated opinion after trying a bunch of BL and GL: As a straight girl I still find GL on average to be better than BL. BL is just way too disgusting, it seems like the author dies within 40 seconds from a heart attack if they don't include some form of sexual assault in their work, toxic relationships are romanticized and often the MC starting as straight gets converted to gay through rape, abuse and/or harassment by a hot gay bishounen. And during these sexual assault scenes they usually play comical music to make light of it or show the victim to be blushing to make it look like he's just in denial and secretly wants it to give the illusion that it's not actually assault/rape. Another thing that pisses me off is the BL often shows its characters to be fujoshis/fudanshis. GL suffers from similar issues too but to a lesser extent. I liked Adachi to Shimamura, TenTen Kamumei, Sasakoi, Oniisama e, Akuma no Riddle when it comes to GL works but the only BL I remember liking was Uraboku. I'm still open to trying both but I don't have any hope for BL at this point. |
「あなたのためなら世界中を敵にしてもかまわない」 "If it was for your sake I wouldn't mind even if I had to turn the whole world into my enemy" |
| This question is silly because it's practically equivalent to asking: How can someone like girls but not boys? |
ZarutakuNov 26, 6:31 AM
No, this isn't my signature~desu. |
| It really shouldn't be surprising, a lot of GL is targeted completely at people who are attracted to girls, and likewise BL to boys. |
| Everyone has their own preferences. |
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| There are a lot of fans like that who keep saying the same reasons for not watching BL. |
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Absurdo_N said: There are a lot of fans like that who keep saying the same reasons for not watching BL. Do you know any reasons for watching it, beside being androsexual? |
No, this isn't my signature~desu. |
| IDK man. Love's love, no matter what the gender pairing is. I enjoy them all. |
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Absurdo_N said:
There are a lot of fans like that who keep saying the same reasons for not watching BL.
There are a lot of fans like that who keep saying the same reasons for not watching BL.
Do you know any reasons for watching it, beside being androsexual?
| @Zarutaku I have no interest in either men or women, in fact, technically speaking I'm obsessed with women and I think I suffer from male gaze sometimes, not in a sexist sense of course. I like to watch different types of content, I like romance and I don't care about the gender of the characters that are giving you the romance. |
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IDK man. Love's love, no matter what the gender pairing is. I enjoy them all.
| @Daviljoe193 I also have that opinion, Daviljoe193. |
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| How can you even assume that if someone likes GL they also like BL? I'm a GL fan, but I would never watch BL. I'm just not interested in BL. If you read the posts in this thread, you'll get the explanation why. |
| If you aren't sexually / romantically attracted to the characters or find them relatable enough it does kind of take something away from enjoyment overall, and if it gets real sexual for some it can make them uncomfortable. Also the storytelling in GL and BL have different vibes to them. I started watching GL and BL and I much prefer GL. |
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| I've only seen Rainbow and Banana Fish for BL shows and they both had male rape and domination fetishes which really puts me off. However, there are sometimes sweet BL romances like Yukito and Touya from CCS, which isn't explicit, but pretty evident and they are so well matched and I found myself really hoping they get together. GL tend to be sweeter and lighter content, eg Yuru Yuri, GochiUsa etc, it's not serious romance just fluff. I've found more variety and interesting GL shows, like Gushing Over Magical Girls, Koihime Musou (ancient Chinese setting and various sorts of GL types, including a rapey type), I'm in Love with the Villainess, Yuri is my Job, or yuri bait like OniMai. But then I haven't really tried any softer BL shows, so maybe I might like them if there wasn't any rape/domination crap, but honestly not too interested in trying them out. |
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