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Dec 24, 2020 4:39 AM
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Hymenoplasty, also known as hymenorrhaphy, is the cosmetic repair, restoration, or construction of a woman's hymen. Restoration of the hymen is also referred to as revirginization. Such procedures are not generally regarded as part of mainstream gynecology, but are available from some plastic surgery centers, particularly in the United States, Middle East, South Korea and Western Europe, generally as outpatient surgery. The normal aim is to cause bleeding during post-nuptial intercourse, which in some cultures is considered proof of virginity.

In the United States of America, hymen restoration is available in private clinics and becoming more common.

In France, some of the cost is reimbursed by the state in cases of rape or trauma.

The operation is popular in Middle Eastern countries, in particular, in Iran, where women are expected to keep virginity until the wedding night. Grand Ayatollah Sayyid Sadeq Rohani has issued a fatwa which permits hymenorrhaphy and considers a woman after the operation to be virgin.


Heard about this while watching a talk show, apparently it's becoming very popular around the world.


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Dec 24, 2020 4:49 AM
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Can't women lose their virginity without breaking their hymen?
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Dec 24, 2020 4:51 AM
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meh im sure they just want the pleasure of breaking the hymen of a woman

if they have the money then its their choice
Dec 24, 2020 4:54 AM
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That's a crapload of bullshit and I aint buying it.
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Dec 24, 2020 4:55 AM
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That seems like a selfish thing that men came up with. Why should women put their bodies at risk for something like that? It is not very practical anyway. You cannot afford to have surgery each time you have penetrative sex with somebody, and having surgeries solely due to social pressure is plainly stupid and wrong.
Dec 24, 2020 5:18 AM
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I remember hearing about this first time in the movie Tehran taboo, the character who wanted that I mean I get her reasons for it, but I can't understand why virginity would be important in the first place. Do what ever you want to your body and all that, but I have a hunch there's pressure by someone else/others to get that surgery.
Dec 24, 2020 5:33 AM
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Um, virginity is a mental thing, not a physical one. Many women can be virgins and have a broken hymen, such as from horse riding.
I don't see the point at all in physically pretending that you're a virgin when you're not.
Dec 24, 2020 5:40 AM
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Atlos said:
Can't women lose their virginity without breaking their hymen?


In short no, and apparently this type of surgery is very popular in India and china
Dec 24, 2020 5:43 AM
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I have never cared about virginity, sure, the idea of giving your first time to your beloved sounds nice, but even if my partner could've given me her first time, I could not care much. Different people care about different things I guess.

Although, in a way it might be good for rape victims. I was always concerned about rape victims, virginity doesn't matter but it might be good for those who care. But if the women doesn't want to do it, then they shouldn't be forced to. After all it all boils down to choices.




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Dec 24, 2020 7:31 AM
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If the goal is to have intercourse with someone so harshly that it causes bleeding then maybe one shouldn't try out relationships or marriage for a while.... my sympathy goes out to everyone who got forced into that for someone else's pleasure
Dec 24, 2020 7:32 AM

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What's even the point? It is like doing anal to keep your virginity. Sure, your vagina is still virgin but are YOU virgin?

Also, why would you want to have painfull, blood full sex?
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Dec 24, 2020 8:13 AM
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What benefit does this give you? Other than being able to hook-up with tradcon guys who have brain rot I mean. That's not much a benefit, if at all.
Dec 24, 2020 8:22 AM
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Yet another opportunity for people to lie to their partners. Not surprised it's becoming popular. Nowadays you can't even be sure if a woman really is woman. Compared to that, faking virginity is nothing.

As for what I feel? Every day people stray further from what's considered proper and moral. I am just numb.
Dec 24, 2020 9:42 AM

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So where's the surgery to restore a man's virginity, huh?

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Dec 24, 2020 9:45 AM

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I think this makes the concept even more questionable in terms of cheating and affairs. I plan to remain a virgin for life so I am unaffected by thots either way.
Dec 24, 2020 10:35 AM

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*points gun at your head* get in the Embryo!

Hah, it seems like a pretty stupid thing to do, unless you were trying to trick your next husbando.
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Dec 24, 2020 3:54 PM

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MadHobbit2 said:
So where's the surgery to restore a man's virginity, huh?

I yearn for true gender equality.


Unfortunately when men loose their virginity they loose their ability to become wizards. Medical science is unable to restore such things.
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Dec 24, 2020 4:20 PM

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Uhh... that seems like a lot of effort to become a “virgin” again. I mean, surgery or no, once you have sex once you’re no longer a virgin imo; it’s not a physical thing, it’s an experience thing.
Dec 24, 2020 4:48 PM

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Some people are saying virginity is a social construct.


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Dec 24, 2020 4:55 PM

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If a surgery with such a name really exists, then that is absolutely disgusting and only people completely insane would accept to go through it.
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Dec 24, 2020 5:35 PM

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On the good side I guess that's better for the women in these countries instead of being shunned by their community or worse.
Dec 24, 2020 5:47 PM

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JoyBoy_316 said:
On the good side I guess that's better for the women in these countries instead of being shunned by their community or worse.


Right. It shouldn't need to be a thing, but if it helps some females from being ostracized or worse than it's an welcomed aid.
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"When you consider the word 'rape', you associate with it, a feeling of powerlessness, and a feeling like something is being taken away from you?"

I have heard that one of the parts of the trauma of rape is that you feel that something was taken away from you. Especially if the rape victim was a virgin.

If someone was a virgin, and then got raped, and then, in the process of recovery, the victim says that this surgery would be therapeutic for her in her recovery (because, say, maybe it helps her to feel like she can retrieve that part of her sexuality back that was taken from her), then in that case I'm all for the surgery. If this surgery can be helpful in the mental state of a rape victim then I support it.

Outside of the rape victims I don't really have comment nor see why anyone would want that surgery. In those Middle Eastern countries that require you to be a virgin until the wedding, they should just do away with that rule, in my opinion.
Dec 24, 2020 6:35 PM

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Not sure what all the fuss about virginity is about. Personally I'd prefer the sexy-yet-slightly-slutty 20 or 30 or 40 something who knows what she's doing.
Dec 24, 2020 6:40 PM
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Atlos said:
Can't women lose their virginity without breaking their hymen?

Yep. Sometimes, it isn't even there. The hymen is a huge myth. It isn't some sheet covering the vagina. It's more like a balloon arch. It can be lost from sex, or from riding a horse. It means nothing if the hymen is there or not. Sometimes, it is not even lost.
Dec 24, 2020 6:41 PM

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If you didn't want to lose your virginity at the first place then why did you do it? If you are not 100% sure you won't regret it later don't do it baby.

Unless, you know . . . you got raped. Exactly like @AndThis said.
Dec 24, 2020 6:42 PM
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Mummykun said:
If a surgery with such a name really exists, then that is absolutely disgusting and only people completely insane would accept to go through it.

Why? There is nothing wrong with it. A previous commenter mentions a rape victim getting it. I think that is a valid reason
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Satoshi-Kon said:
Atlos said:
Can't women lose their virginity without breaking their hymen?


In short no, and apparently this type of surgery is very popular in India and china

What do you mean no? The hymen isn't a sheet. It's more like a balloon arch around the vagina. People can have sex and not break the hymen.
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grumpy_wolf said:
Yet another opportunity for people to lie to their partners. Not surprised it's becoming popular. Nowadays you can't even be sure if a woman really is woman. Compared to that, faking virginity is nothing.

As for what I feel? Every day people stray further from what's considered proper and moral. I am just numb.

.... Buddy, you are aware that what you said is kind of transphobic. I know I will get hate for standing up for transgender, but no one is living for your "Properness". Also, Hymen is not a symbol of virginity. Some women don't have it. Sometimes it doesn't break due to penetration. And it can break from normal physical activity. You can't look at a women's vagina and go "Oh, she ain't a virgin cause her hymen broken".
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Hymen intactness is the dumbest definition of virginity out there. That aside well if someone wants to do that alright. I don't care. I could only really see this being good in countries where a woman's safety is at stake for having no hymen or a non intact hymen. If it's for satisfying someone's kink or fantasy that sure is an expensive indulgence.
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Dec 24, 2020 8:00 PM

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That can't restore shit. Virginity strictly doesn't exist, its a cultural thing. Hymen is useful because it could be a somewhat reliable indicator of virginity but the tissue itself is worth nothing. If you've had sex before then you're clearly not into the abstinent lifestyle why would you larp as you are by doing some surgery
Dec 24, 2020 11:24 PM

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Only virgins think wanting to bang Virgin girls is a good thing.

I know porn and other fantasy mediums have twisted all of our minds to believe certain things, but seriously....the LAST thing you want is to fuck a girl that has zero experience.

ESPECIALLY....when YOU have zero experience too!

This is a recipe for disaster not to mention NOT having a good time.

It is preferable to fuck a girl that has experience, and even to listen to what she tells you when you do something wrong.
Dec 24, 2020 11:45 PM

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tbh for what is that, the girl will continue to have previous experience in sex, that will not make you more innocent. virginity would be of less value to people who like it. women who are desperate to lose their virginity, then this?
Dec 25, 2020 12:38 AM

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My thoughts are that it's dumb. Losing one's virginity is about an experience more than it is about a physical state.
Dec 25, 2020 2:28 AM
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Riiight, and then there's the surgery to restore your childhood. Also can't forget the surgery to watch your favorite shows for the first time again. Well, the surgeons are making bank at least...

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Dec 25, 2020 7:44 AM
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Rape victims should definitely have the surgery made available to them for obvious reasons. And if a girl has the money and wants the next guy she's with to think she's a virgin I really don't see the harm in it.

It'd be funny if you broke a girl's hymen and she ended up giving you syphilis.
Dec 25, 2020 7:57 AM
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Sounds like something sex traffickers will make use of.
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ESPECIALLY....when YOU have zero experience too!

Why would you say that? It seems like an inexperienced girl is going to have lower expectations and will judge you less than an experienced girl would. It seems like an experienced girl would constantly be comparing you to other guys she's been with, and be disappointed when you fail to measure up.


Guys shouldn't care about being compared to other guys, they should only care about sharing pleasure. As for what Alex mentions, I'd think it's rather related to how painful a woman's first time can be. Personally, mine was very very painful and the guy was experienced. An experienced woman can lead you and tell you what she enjoys and make you discover it and learn.
Dec 25, 2020 9:22 AM

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unfortunately, you can't reverse getting a fat dick in your hole. why would you want to ?

Dec 25, 2020 7:54 PM
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The only to really reverse virginity from being regain again is to simply travel back in time steins gate style but even so its impossible for time travel to really happen.

Dec 25, 2020 10:39 PM
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Yet another opportunity for people to lie to their partners. Not surprised it's becoming popular. Nowadays you can't even be sure if a woman really is woman. Compared to that, faking virginity is nothing.

As for what I feel? Every day people stray further from what's considered proper and moral. I am just numb.

.... Buddy, you are aware that what you said is kind of transphobic. I know I will get hate for standing up for transgender, but no one is living for your "Properness". Also, Hymen is not a symbol of virginity. Some women don't have it. Sometimes it doesn't break due to penetration. And it can break from normal physical activity. You can't look at a women's vagina and go "Oh, she ain't a virgin cause her hymen broken".
don't put words in my mouth. Why would anyone go through this surgery other than to pretend she is a virgin? Don't tell me bs like "for pleasure". They do it so they can pose as virgins, pure girls that never had sex. Because nobody will think when they see the blood that she wasn't a virgin. It's for deception and lies.
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“Nowadays you can’t even be sure if a woman really is a woman”- ALL WOMEN ARE VALID! What you said suggest that women who were born male are not real women. That’s transphobia and denies a trans women their identity. Gender does not equal sex.
Also, you are a man aren’t you? Why do you think women are obsessed with tricking men so they can have sex? A woman can have many reasons why they want to restore their hymen. They might just think it looks nicer. I don’t know too much about it, but damn women are not looking to trick men. And restoring a hymen seem like a pretty shitty method.
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“Nowadays you can’t even be sure if a woman really is a woman”- ALL WOMEN ARE VALID! What you said suggest that women who were born male are not real women. That’s transphobia and denies a trans women their identity. Gender does not equal sex.
Also, you are a man aren’t you? Why do you think women are obsessed with tricking men so they can have sex? A woman can have many reasons why they want to restore their hymen. They might just think it looks nicer. I don’t know too much about it, but damn women are not looking to trick men. And restoring a hymen seem like a pretty shitty method.

In some parts of the world where religion is still important, whether a woman is virgin or not matters. It matters enough that the marriages can be cancelled on the spot. Christians and Muslims put a lot of focus on women and men being pure before marriage.

So yes, the main reason they restore their hymen is to fake virginity for various interests. Unless someone has some weird fetish about hurting and bleeding during sex.
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That's not even how virginity works..... First off the hymen can be broken through other means and it also doesn't always break. Second, you lose your virginity when you have sex for the first time, you cant just reverse it. The whole fetishization of virginity is kind of fucked up tbh.
Dec 26, 2020 8:14 AM

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Unsettling, and probably an abused procedure
Dec 26, 2020 8:51 AM

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Lol. What are they even trying to accomplish? LARP as wholesome virgins to land incels?
Dec 26, 2020 11:24 AM

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Very dumb
You can't "revirginize" yourself
You have sex = you no virgin
I think its silly, and misleading
Dec 26, 2020 2:14 PM

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This is like those who do it anal to remain virgins
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This is like those who do it anal to remain virgins
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I'm asking you because your location in your profile says that you are from Iran and most sources on the internet say that the government of Iran approves of this surgery.

Do the majority Iranian think that this surgery is pointless?
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Lol. What are they even trying to accomplish? LARP as wholesome virgins to land incels?


You can't undo something thats already been done unlike a office document. :P

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