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May 12, 2017 5:31 PM
#51
EcchiLordMamster said: ssshaha said: EcchiLordMamster said: its NOT weird, creepy or messed up stop assuming theres something wrong with you.. the characters are designed to be perfect, so being highly attracted to them is completely normal YES, we DO have to accept reality, meaning if you want a relationship you have no choice but to find a real person, but you don't have to pretend reality isn't shit or that real people are just as ideal just because you have to accept it I think the main reason of most people watching anime is that it's always much better than reality. The same is with the characters, they are always better than real people, better looking and having ideal personalities. Never afraid of anything and always ready to fight. That is true. We need to accept the reality - the 3D world we're living in. Real people with flaws. Cowards and fake people. And our boring lives. This is what live is about... um... ALWAYS better?... uh... come on bruh... I'd rather live in Tokyo Ghoul or AOT universe fighting side to side with Mikasa and Touka, than having to deal with people. he-he |
May 12, 2017 5:53 PM
#52
Bonyanyanya said: EcchiLordMamster said: ssshaha said: EcchiLordMamster said: its NOT weird, creepy or messed up stop assuming theres something wrong with you.. the characters are designed to be perfect, so being highly attracted to them is completely normal YES, we DO have to accept reality, meaning if you want a relationship you have no choice but to find a real person, but you don't have to pretend reality isn't shit or that real people are just as ideal just because you have to accept it I think the main reason of most people watching anime is that it's always much better than reality. The same is with the characters, they are always better than real people, better looking and having ideal personalities. Never afraid of anything and always ready to fight. That is true. We need to accept the reality - the 3D world we're living in. Real people with flaws. Cowards and fake people. And our boring lives. This is what live is about... um... ALWAYS better?... uh... come on bruh... I'd rather live in Tokyo Ghoul or AOT universe fighting side to side with Mikasa and Touka, than having to deal with people. he-he i don't know how to answer that since you're clearly trolling LOOOLLL however, who doesn't want to be a harem protagonist surrounded by beautiful anime girls? XD |
May 12, 2017 9:12 PM
#53
no! I will never betray my Waifu ~ <3 anyways OP in the same boat with ya. It's perfectly fine to be attracted to an anime guy, as long as you clearly draw a line between what's fake and what's real As stated by other peoples and from a conversation I had earlier, perfection is something some people long for when it comes to romantic/sexual feelings. Alot of people laugh at this kind of situation but in reality it really is something serious that can affect your life rather it be on a small scale or a large one |
May 12, 2017 9:15 PM
#54
DoctorWasabi said: no! I will never betray my Waifu ~ <3 anyways OP in the same boat with ya. It's perfectly fine to be attracted to an anime guy, as long as you clearly draw a line between what's fake and what's real As stated by other peoples and from a conversation I had earlier, perfection is something some people long for when it comes to romantic/sexual feelings. Alot of people laugh at this kind of situation but in reality it really is something serious that can affect your life rather it be on a small scale or a large one :3 .............. You know I understand you hehe.... |
May 12, 2017 9:16 PM
#55
Bonyanyanya said: Well I know this problem sounds pretty weird. And creepy. And messed up. But I feel attraction only towards anime characters (I'm a girl). I'm not a teenager or anything, I'm 20 years old. I had been in a relationship for the longest time, but had to break up, since I felt that humans turn me off (guys, men, anything). It started when I was a kid, I always crushed on cartoon/video game characters, and never liked real people (actors, etc) I won't ask if it's normal, because HELL no, It's messed up. But I'm curious, has anyone else faced this problem? Do you have a crush on anime characters, and how serious is it? P.s I'm being totally serious. I used to feel this way, until I started watching hentai. Now, I feel totally opposite of how you feel. In all honesty, you shouldn't be ashamed. It's normal to have this type of problem, but as far as having a crush on certain characters in anime, I never had this problem. Plus, I don't think it would be that serious because sometimes, from my own episodes, most of the "prettiest" girls in anime have a tendency to do the most ugly things. So you should be okay. |
Aug 20, 2017 2:02 AM
#56
I am the same. I love anime characters and fantasize myself into it. But I'm happy the way I am in fact I wish i could take myself to that kind of a world. |
Aug 20, 2017 2:06 AM
#57
You're an inspiration my fman. If more people would be like you we would never have a population problem. Two thumbs up to anybody rockin' the waifu lifestyle. |
Aug 20, 2017 3:50 AM
#58
Bonyanyanya said: Well I know this problem sounds pretty weird. And creepy. And messed up. But I feel attraction only towards anime characters (I'm a girl). I'm not a teenager or anything, I'm 20 years old. I had been in a relationship for the longest time, but had to break up, since I felt that humans turn me off (guys, men, anything). It started when I was a kid, I always crushed on cartoon/video game characters, and never liked real people (actors, etc) I won't ask if it's normal, because HELL no, It's messed up. But I'm curious, has anyone else faced this problem? Do you have a crush on anime characters, and how serious is it? P.s I'm being totally serious. I somewhat can relate to you. I mean, I do attracted to real people, actors and such. But I never been so obsessed in a way I obsessed over 2D characters. I never do crazy stuff for any real guy, but I did for some 2D character. I'm female 23 years old. Already graduated from univ, but still unemployed. I do some character designing for a side job so even though I'm technically unemployed, I don't rely on my parents anymore for money. My first obsession is with the character Trafalgar Law. But my love for 2D characters is long before that. I'd say Dante from the game Devil May Cry is where my love for 2D characters started going beyond normal. I don't have friends that share the same interest as me, at least not on my level of nerdiness. How serious is it in my case? Let's go back to Trafalgar Law. My obsession make me enrolled in Japanese Literature for my major because I wanted to go to Japan and gets close to the origin of my obsession. And so, I studied hard and got scholarship to live in Japan for one month and a half in 2015. I bought a lot of Trafalgar Law related merchs including clothing, keychains, doujins, and pillows (not dakimakura because I don't know how to explain that to my parents if I bought one lmao) Please note, that I'm poor, at least not rich enough to be able to go overseas, and so I thought if I want to go to Japan, I need to get scholarship. My second chance came this January, 3 months in Saitama. I finally get to visit One Piece Museum in Tokyo Tower where there is LIVE SIZED TRAFALGAR LAW STATUE. I've been wanting to go "meet" Law for ages and I finally did with no little effort. My point is, all motivation in my life at this point come from some 2D character. Even when I'm down, or sad, or upset, one look at some Law fanarts, Law smiling, it's enough to cheer me up. That's how serious my obsession is. But the thing is, I still do feel attraction towards real guy. I'm nearing the ideal age for women to get married in my country, and I dreaded it. Because, all I imagine in my honeymoon is I want to make my future husband to cosplay as Law and what if I screamed Law's name instead of him?!!!!!!!! I'm doomed. Is what I thought right now. I'll feel bad for my future husband. Anyway! It's messed up. Just like what you said. And I don't know about you but I'm expecting myself to "wake up" from this eventually. But I just can't see it yet how will I "wake up" from this. I actually thought, what if I met some guy who is just as messed up as me and ask me to cosplay as his waifu? I'll let him as long as he will cosplay as Law too lol Actually my Law obsession has mellowed out a lot, and now it's replaced by one Bakugou Katsuki. I always thought Law's place is irreplaceable, but now I'm not so sure anymore. During my Law obsession, I branched out quite a bit (Bucky Barnes, Levi, etc). But with Katsuki, the last time I feel this attached towards some character is with Law. TL;DR there you go. I believe there is more cases worse than mine (and yours). Even though how much I love Law, I don't have anything like Law Altar or something like that lmao. But it's probably just because I don't have any privacy at home (I don't have my own room!!!) and I'm broke. So there is that. |
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Aug 20, 2017 3:59 AM
#59
I am attracted to actual people, but I would say I'm just as attracted to animated and video game characters. When someome is COMPLETELTY naked it turns me off. They look... nasty to me. I'm sure this is more weird and less common than your situation. |
Aug 20, 2017 4:42 AM
#60
Damn son, you need to get yourself a real partner soon eh? Nah I kid, there's no way they'll ever be a person in real life that can rival Saki so I could say we're the same in some way- except I'm not actually attracted to only Anime characters, they appeal to me but I ain't gonna go that deep bruh (no worries, you do you) |
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Aug 20, 2017 5:50 AM
#61
Not to be the ass in the situation but... this thread is pathetic. So many people ''relating''. You do know that it's not that ''every real person on earth is annoying''. It's that you can't deal with them, you can't do any decent conversation as long as it doesn't involve your own hobbies and nothing else. I'd be willing to bet all (figuratively, not literally all of you, just saying before a smartass jumps in) of you here are extremely asocial. Assumptions, judgemental, yada yada. Whatever, I am confident it's the truth. Even if the thread itself is bait, to me everyone who can truly relate to this is pathetic. |
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Aug 20, 2017 5:53 AM
#62
I can relate, but i know already that it's my own fault if i feel like this. |
Aug 21, 2017 3:36 AM
#63
I was also attracted more into Anime or Videogames characters a long time ago. I'm not that attracted to them anymore. Of course some characters have great personalities or are really good looking. I have some virtual crushs but I don't feel seriously attracted to them. I still do like real persons more because they are real. |
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Aug 21, 2017 3:50 AM
#64
If there 's ever a club in MAL where members usually "isolate myself in my room, watch anime, and play games, and imagine myself having an anime character as girlfriend and living in the anime world"... please let me in. I'll probably join, for the sake of guilty feelings. |
Aug 21, 2017 4:38 AM
#65
KoalaWaize said: When someome is COMPLETELTY naked it turns me off. They look... nasty to me. I'm sure this is more weird and less common than your situation. Sounds problematic. I'm not your psychologist, but I think it's something one can just get used to. Uncensored porn, nudist beaches, nudist beach porn... just spend some time watching the stuff and get used to it. If it doesn't help, consult an actual doctor. SigmaticDoc said: Not to be the ass in the situation but... this thread is pathetic. So many people ''relating''. You do know that it's not that ''every real person on earth is annoying''. It's that you can't deal with them, you can't do any decent conversation as long as it doesn't involve your own hobbies and nothing else. I'd be willing to bet all (figuratively, not literally all of you, just saying before a smartass jumps in) of you here are extremely asocial. Assumptions, judgemental, yada yada. Whatever, I am confident it's the truth. Even if the thread itself is bait, to me everyone who can truly relate to this is pathetic. Well, I am pretty damn asocial. So what, you want to sue me? I am fine being myself, now stop shoving your unreasonable demands on me. |
Aug 21, 2017 8:14 AM
#66
flannan said: KoalaWaize said: When someome is COMPLETELTY naked it turns me off. They look... nasty to me. I'm sure this is more weird and less common than your situation. Sounds problematic. I'm not your psychologist, but I think it's something one can just get used to. Uncensored porn, nudist beaches, nudist beach porn... just spend some time watching the stuff and get used to it. If it doesn't help, consult an actual doctor. SigmaticDoc said: Not to be the ass in the situation but... this thread is pathetic. So many people ''relating''. You do know that it's not that ''every real person on earth is annoying''. It's that you can't deal with them, you can't do any decent conversation as long as it doesn't involve your own hobbies and nothing else. I'd be willing to bet all (figuratively, not literally all of you, just saying before a smartass jumps in) of you here are extremely asocial. Assumptions, judgemental, yada yada. Whatever, I am confident it's the truth. Even if the thread itself is bait, to me everyone who can truly relate to this is pathetic. Well, I am pretty damn asocial. So what, you want to sue me? I am fine being myself, now stop shoving your unreasonable demands on me. Did I demand anything from you? I just said what you are. Now stop getting salty just cause this hit too close to home. |
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Aug 21, 2017 8:16 AM
#67
@SigmaticDoc Did I demand anything from you? I just said what you are. You must be fun at parties lol, I'd say you sound more pathetic than most people here.Now stop getting salty just cause this hit too close to home. |
Aug 21, 2017 8:17 AM
#68
Darek said: @SigmaticDoc Did I demand anything from you? I just said what you are. You must be fun at parties lol, I'd say you sound more pathetic than most people here.Now stop getting salty just cause this hit too close to home. I am fun at parties yes, I doubt the people here are though. (Hell, I doubt most of them even get invited). |
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Aug 21, 2017 9:46 AM
#69
This should be of interest to some. 1. Art is imitation This is a feature of both of Plato's theories. Of course he was not the first or the last person to think that art imitates reality. The idea was still very strong in the Renaissance, when Vasari, in his Lives of the Painters, said that "painting is just the imitation of all the living things of nature with their colors and designs just as they are in nature." It may still be the most commonly held theory. Most people still think that a picture must be a picture of something, and that an artist is someone who can make a picture that "looks just like the real thing". It wasn't until late in the nineteenth century that the idea of art as imitation began to fade from western aesthetics, to be replaced by theories about art as expression, art as communication, art as pure form, art as whatever elicits an "aesthetic" response, and a number of other theories. So art is imitation. But what does it imitate? Here is where Plato's two theories come in. In the Republic, Plato says that art imitates the objects and events of ordinary life. In other words, a work of art is a copy of a copy of a Form. It is even more of an illusion than is ordinary experience. On this theory, works of art are at best entertainment, and at worst a dangerous delusion. A moment's thought will suggest a way of building a more art-friendly theory out of Plato's philosophy. What if the artist is somehow able to make a truer copy of the Forms than our ordinary experience offers? This theory actually appears in Plato's short early dialogue, the Ion. Socrates is questioning a poet named Ion, who recites Homer's poetry brilliantly but is no good at reciting anything else. Socrates is puzzled by this; it seems to him that if Ion has an art, or skill, of reciting poetry he should be able to apply his skilled knowledge to other poets as well. He concludes that Ion doesn't really possess skilled knowledge. Rather, when he recites Homer, he must be inspired by a god. The Ion drips with sarcasm. Plato didn't take the "art by divine inspiration" theory very seriously. But many ancient, medieval, and modern artists and aestheticians have found it irresistible. After all, aren't artists often inspired? Doesn't their creative genius often produce wonderfully surprising results, about which the artist will say, "I don't know how I did that?" Most important, don't artists show us the essence of things, and reveal truths that we wouldn't otherwise see? The view of the artist as inspired revealer of ideal essences fits well with the spirit of Plato's Symposium, a dialogue full of speeches in praise of Love, in which Socrates gives a compelling picture of the ascent from sexual love, to the aesthetic appreciation of beautiful bodies, to the love of beautiful souls, and finally to the the contemplation of the ideal Form of Beauty itself. The same spirit fills much classic Greek art. Late classical sculpture presents gods and heroes as ideal bodies, built in perfect proportions, and filled with a cool repose, as if they inhabited a perfect and changeless divine world. It concerns Plato's recollection on Art in the context of his Philosophy. Art can be the copy of a copy, or a better copy of the Idea, the Truth of the Universe, than reality could ever be. (Digmion Tri. opening scene references exactly this, the one with the egg-looking thing and the ominous voice.) Source: http://www.rowan.edu/open/philosop/clowney/aesthetics/philos_artists_onart/plato.htm |
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Aug 21, 2017 4:04 PM
#70
I hate men (including myself), think that girls are those things in the anime that go "tootooroo", and have a waifu that is the only person I've ever loved. I don't think this is okay, but I don't know what to do about it. NOTE: If you're thinking of giving advice, I recommend against it. You are not a psychologist, and most likely any normie or simple "solution" I will dismiss out of hand. |
Aug 21, 2017 5:05 PM
#71
SigmaticDoc said: Not to be the ass in the situation but... this thread is pathetic. So many people ''relating''. You do know that it's not that ''every real person on earth is annoying''. It's that you can't deal with them, you can't do any decent conversation as long as it doesn't involve your own hobbies and nothing else. I'd be willing to bet all (figuratively, not literally all of you, just saying before a smartass jumps in) of you here are extremely asocial. Assumptions, judgemental, yada yada. Whatever, I am confident it's the truth. Even if the thread itself is bait, to me everyone who can truly relate to this is pathetic. Please don't use words like "pathetic". It's really hurts me But, you're probably just an asshole and gonna something like, "you're pathetic for getting your feelings hurt on the internet". Which is complete BS, btw. I'm autistic so it's no surprise I have trouble relating and communicating with other people. I can't do it myself and I've never been taught the skill. I always have to observe other people's behavior and try to imitate them. People like me need help with these things. When people like you say things like that, it only hurts and offends people. It's not helping anyone so why are you saying it? |
Aug 21, 2017 5:56 PM
#72
Visit a doctor ASAP. I'm not joking or making fun of you. This isn't normal at all and you should seek medical help. |
Aug 22, 2017 7:05 AM
#73
what do you mean it's messed up? i guess you're still in the denial stage. |
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Aug 22, 2017 9:16 AM
#74
KoalaWaize said: SigmaticDoc said: Not to be the ass in the situation but... this thread is pathetic. So many people ''relating''. You do know that it's not that ''every real person on earth is annoying''. It's that you can't deal with them, you can't do any decent conversation as long as it doesn't involve your own hobbies and nothing else. I'd be willing to bet all (figuratively, not literally all of you, just saying before a smartass jumps in) of you here are extremely asocial. Assumptions, judgemental, yada yada. Whatever, I am confident it's the truth. Even if the thread itself is bait, to me everyone who can truly relate to this is pathetic. Please don't use words like "pathetic". It's really hurts me But, you're probably just an asshole and gonna something like, "you're pathetic for getting your feelings hurt on the internet". Which is complete BS, btw. I'm autistic so it's no surprise I have trouble relating and communicating with other people. I can't do it myself and I've never been taught the skill. I always have to observe other people's behavior and try to imitate them. People like me need help with these things. When people like you say things like that, it only hurts and offends people. It's not helping anyone so why are you saying it? If you're that self aware, then it really should be easy for you. My step-brother is autistic and yet he's extremely social. I am saying it because these kind of people annoy me. Not the lack of communication skills or anything. Those that really have no disability but are incapable of doing absolutely anything related to socializing, and instead of admitting that, they are acting like cowards and blaming the world and how ''terrible real people are''. Pathetic people make pathetic excuses. They just don't have enough social skills to get to the good part of life. As for you, there are few cases like you and I do try to put myself in your position, people like you do need ways to cope better, I am fine if people who can't socialize because a certain condition just really won't allow them to do it properly. In that case, it just can't be helped. But anyways, you do seem rather self aware for an autistic person, I'd say your case of autism isn't that severe. I have a couple of autistic friends, and most of them are able to socialize normally, takes a bit of effort but they take the extra step. And if I say the harsh truth, it might actually struck a cord in someone and make him re-think what he's doing really. (Also, this as a bonus to most of you who make petty excuses that real people are disgusting so you avoid them. If you remain a virgin for the rest of your life, you would be the only one in your whole bloodline that never got laid.) |
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Aug 22, 2017 9:21 AM
#75
Same here. I am a man with 21 years old, and i think that 3D woman are ugly and disgusting. |
Aug 22, 2017 2:55 PM
#76
Cyborg_Icarus29 said: Visit a doctor ASAP. I'm not joking or making fun of you. This isn't normal at all and you should seek medical help. They won't help you with that matter because they don't believe you to begin with. Speaking from experience, they'll just think you make things up / fooling yourself to feel better because you're sad that you don't have a partner. The only "help" you'll get from them is "just go outside and talk to people, go to a picnic". |
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Aug 22, 2017 4:30 PM
#77
@NotLiferSoul trying again won't hurt her. she might find someone who can actually help her. i mean it's their job to help people like her. |
Aug 22, 2017 7:30 PM
#79
You might have too high of standards from too much anime so I recommend not watching anime or reading manga, or even playing video games for two weeks, and only watch live action shows, just binge a few of them. You might get used to humans again and fix everything. I also recommend going to do something social a bit too so you can interact with other people. This could be a serious problem caused by too much social isolation, so what I suggested may help. |
Aug 22, 2017 7:31 PM
#80
Kuzuna said: Well you probably get to know the characters way better than real life people because you know more about the characters and real life people feel shallow.I'm the same. I'm attracted to lots of different characters, but can't seem to feel any of the same emotions for real people. Well, I'm still a teen so I still have a ways to go before giving up on relationships in the 3d world. Maybe I should get a body pillow just to be safe- |
Aug 22, 2017 7:40 PM
#82
JJustinWang said: Real women break your heart, 2D girls don't. This is true. BUT....if you have fuck buddies....no worries. 3D girls are not so bad. |
Aug 22, 2017 7:41 PM
#83
3d grills are nasty and musty 2d is life |
Aug 22, 2017 7:58 PM
#84
Anime girls are better than real girls, but I am still super attracted to real girls lol I just don't know how to handle them very well. I will continue to frolic with with my waifus until I can find a real girl who is genuine and not superficial like most of the cute girls in my city. |
Aug 22, 2017 8:22 PM
#85
Same here, but I don't plan on getting in any sort of relationship, so I don't have to worry about not being attracted to real women. I'm not lonely and I have quite a few friends. That's all I need really. If you really want to be in a relationship, give real people a try again, but there's absolutely nothing wrong if you want to go your own way and be independent. |
Aug 22, 2017 9:36 PM
#86
Seriously tho....no jokes or anything... As a healthy, young, 20-something, red-blooded American....I need to be able to fuck a girl. 2D is great, but I need 3D too. |
Aug 22, 2017 9:37 PM
#87
I am only attracted to emojis jailbreak's so hawt |
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Aug 22, 2017 9:40 PM
#88
If you're looking for real companionship, this is a problem and I'd suggest taking a break from anime. If not, I guess it doesn't really matter. |
Aug 23, 2017 9:49 AM
#89
It isn't messed up. We all got our weird in our sexuality. That's just yours. If you think it's so bad, go to therapy where they get to the root of this cause. It's nothing to be ashamed of, though. |
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Aug 23, 2017 9:53 AM
#90
Stop watching anime for some time and socialize more |
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Aug 23, 2017 10:42 AM
#91
I don't think you should fret too much about it to be honest. It really could be you love the idea that the characters stand for, and those ideas are hard to manifest in real people. I'm sure someone will come along irl that will sweep you off your feet, haha :). I think it's all about just getting out there and finding someone. With so many people in our world it's only natural that like 99.999% of them are incompatible and finding the right person is difficult. |
Aug 23, 2017 11:07 PM
#92
I've had crushes and fantasies about fictional characters more times than I have with people but it never stopped me from liking them. |
Aug 24, 2017 1:05 AM
#93
fictional characters are usually perfection anyway the only thing missing is you cannot have physical contact with them |
Aug 24, 2017 1:20 AM
#94
Real relationships suck. I feel you op. |
Dec 9, 2017 6:08 AM
#95
Same. F*ck real people. All they do is judge you. :/ |
Dec 9, 2017 6:09 AM
#96
EcchiKingMamster said: VR waifus are the future my dude ( Ν‘~ ΝΚ Ν‘°)YES, we DO have to accept reality, meaning if you want a relationship you have no choice but to find a real person, but you don't have to pretend reality isn't shit or that real people are just as ideal just because you have to accept it |
Dec 9, 2017 6:12 AM
#97
OneNaughtyBear said: EcchiKingMamster said: VR waifus are the future my dude ( Ν‘~ ΝΚ Ν‘°)YES, we DO have to accept reality, meaning if you want a relationship you have no choice but to find a real person, but you don't have to pretend reality isn't shit or that real people are just as ideal just because you have to accept it well im really hoping that is the case lol |
Dec 9, 2017 6:31 AM
#98
BonyaNya said: Well I know this problem sounds pretty weird. And creepy. And messed up. But I feel attraction only towards anime characters (I'm a girl). I'm not a teenager or anything, I'm 20 years old. I had been in a relationship for the longest time, but had to break up, since I felt that humans turn me off (guys, men, anything). It started when I was a kid, I always crushed on cartoon/video game characters, and never liked real people (actors, etc) I won't ask if it's normal, because HELL no, It's messed up. But I'm curious, has anyone else faced this problem? Do you have a crush on anime characters, and how serious is it? P.s I'm being totally serious. It is weird, creepy, and messed up. Why don't you go and talk to some anime characters about it then? Don't you feel the controversy between humans 'turning you off' and talking to them about your problems? Is this even a problem for you, though? You seem to be okay with it. Just to stay on topic, yes, I do feel some attraction towards characters, but there's nothing more to it, really. I think there's nothing wrong with that, but this hating humans thing is fcked up. |
Dec 9, 2017 6:36 AM
#99
I am attracted to anime guys because I think anime guys are really hot than the human ones. There are real guys I think are beautiful but I am only attracted to anime guys because they are physically really hot and they also have nice personality. |
Dec 9, 2017 6:39 AM
#100
BonaNya, I don't think there's anything wrong with you or you're a loser or anything. There are all kinds of people in this world, as long as you're not hurting anybody it's all good. If you are happy this way then I don't think anything necessarily needs to change, but you should accept the fact that most people, when told this, are going to have a less than understanding reaction. Unfortunate, but it's how people are. Secondly, I think that it's important to have self-awareness about why you're attracted to anime characters. Is it because you have deep feelings for them and so it's more or less like being in a relationship with someone who simply is "far away" physically (so it's more or less like seeing them as a regular person simply not directly accessible in our dimension), or, do your feelings actually exist because they are away from you, i.e, an otherness, something that cannot be achieved in daily life? In the case of the former, again, nothing's wrong with you unless you end up completely losing grip on reality, BUT, these sorts of feelings are going to cause you a lot of heartache simply due to your loved one being unreachable. In the case of the latter, that is, if you prefer fictional characters BECAUSE they are fictional, I think some more psychological introspection is needed. In this case the preference is likely because more "perfect" traits are projected onto a character, you don't have to face rejection (from them), don't have to deal with daily life with them, communication problems etc...Basically, if you prefer fictional characters because they can't hurt you, I urge you to keep really thinking about this issue, because the truth is, really, truly being in love with a fictional character DOES hurt you. It's a very painful, lonely experience, you can end up losing friends and starting to question your own sanity. If one were at all able to choose one's feelings, I would for sure say romantic involvement with a real person hurts far less comparatively, even if it were to go wrong (talking about on average - not talking about crazy abusive stalker partners here). No judgement here, just some things for you to think about. I hope I was able to make some sense. You can message me if you feel you need to talk. |
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