Anime romantic comedies are a dime a dozen and they have been for over forty years now. The moment some savvy producer looked at the seminal Urusei Yatsura in the late 70’s and was like “We could totally milk the shit out of this,” it was basically all over from there. This reached critical mass in the 2000’s when some iteration of “random douchebag attracts a bunch of socially unstable weirdos and they run around for 13-25 episodes" or "random airheaded bimbo finds some hot piece of bishounen ass to abuse her for 13-25 episodes” became a disproportionate amount of the anime industry’s output. while
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there’s still the occasional harem manga adaptation, these types of stories have largely been subsumed into the now derided Isekai light novel power fantasy whose continued prevalence in the industry still baffles me, I’m pretty sure these things don’t make that much money. And Traditional Shoujo manga adaptations are ostensibly nonexistent these days. It’s a genre that’s morphed into either adaptations of web manga that aren’t explicitly marketed for teenage girls, but still largely cater to female audiences. And, wouldn’t you know it? Isekai light novel adaptations. They’re just in a dating sim this time, you see? ;)
In the maelstrom of all these industry changes, you get a new type of rom-com, the Reiwa Era Comedy. These types of romance stories, usually aimed at adult men though they feature mostly teenagers, have a meta-textual understanding of its own genre trappings, and thus seek to find ways to retool its own formula and keep this gravy train going. Because, despite the fact that Japanese people are far too overworked, and far too fed up with their own gender roles to actually manifest their own fulfilling relationships in real life, they'll gladly read dozens of manga about (usually) kids tailspinning around their own gimmick for 100 chapters until they finally grow the fuck up and get together. The titles of these works are so cliche they can basically be madlibbed at this point: [anime girl name] is [adjective] etc. etc. To be a bit more charitable, these titles are comparatively more flexible than their harem manga predecessors in terms of what kinds of relationships we’re allowed to see. They can be romantic associates with a single cogent goal like in Komi-san, they can be basically dating in everything but name like in My Dress Up Darling, or they can be straight-up dating from the start like in Shikimori. As similar as these works tend to be, they all have at least one specific trait that sets them apart from the others, on top of whatever wish fulfillment they’re trying to convey to their audience.
After spending two paragraphs getting to the fucking point, Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu is a pretty good example of this type of romance story. The fantasy this time is, what if you were some socially maladjusted chuuni who also so happens to have attracted the hottest girl in class, and she’s autistic! In all seriousness, what made me interested in Bokuyaba from the outset is the neurotic angle the series takes toward its male and female leads. The only reason the story is even possible is BECAUSE the characters are as neurotic/neurodivergent as they are.
If I had to describe what the author was trying to do with Bokuyaba, it would be: redeeming the parts of Shoujo manga that made it appealing, cutting out the cringe(y fetishes), and conveying that exact appeal to an intended male audience. Don’t get me wrong, Bokuyaba is just as fetishistic as those girl’s manga tend to be, it’s just more so in its design sensibilities than in the scenario writing itself. Like, when I was taking glances at the manga to look for any interesting comparisons for the sake of this review, all I could think was, “Wow, this mangaka really wants her audience to fuck this 12 year old girl.” Sure, there’s a character who’s a literal fat fetishist, but he’s not the focus, nor is the story trying to forgive him for being such. There’s no attempt to legitimize middle schoolers trying to pound their 25 year old teachers, or their cousins, or their 25 year old cousins, in the same way as the supposedly wholesome main couple of a Shoujo manga story. In fact, I think Bokuyaba’s romanticism coupled with its acknowledgement of its character’s sexualities is one of the work’s strengths. There’s this adult-like attitude where yeah, these kids could totally have sex at some point in the future, and that doesn’t ruin anything about the story or the power fantasy. It’s not why you’re watching per se, but it makes the story feel more “real". I won't lie, when Kyoutarou in episode 12 stops then—in a flash—anxiously checks his trashcan to make sure his "tissues" were tossed out while Anna was IN HIS ROOM like two feet away, I was fucking howling. I genuinely wonder if the author has a younger sibling and they told her of a similar humorous story (though, given the subtle siscon stuff in this show, for the love of god I hope not).
And what’s more impressive is that it doesn’t annoy me that the characters aren’t immediately getting together. A defining characteristic about good anime romantic comedies is seeing how the two main leads develop, both because of and independently of each other. Despite how Anna is very obviously DTF for much of this story, the main reason they’re not is because the main character is a horrifically insecure and anxious kid. Kyoutarou HAS to change in order for their relationship to even be possible, because where he is at the beginning of the story is far too emotionally fragile for there to be anything healthy. He has to accept who he is, and accept the possibility that people CAN like that. While I wasn’t completely relating to the main character in every situation (the kid is more of a well-dressed edgelord than I’ll ever be), there were moments where Kyotarou would misinterpret an event in an overly negative light, and I would go “Bro, that’s literally me when I was his age.” It’s kind of unsettling after a certain point, but it makes me appreciate what the author was trying to do with her main character.
While there’s less to say about Anna Yamada, she’s pretty good too. She’s not impotent or powerless, she’s actually quite proactive in her feelings, but also quite considerate. She tries to be subtle sometimes, but she's also very clumsy and awkward—she isn’t tongue-in-cheek in the way a lot of “quirky” anime girls try to be. Anna is a child so much of her attempts at romance boil down to a combination of internet research, media portrayals, and guesstimations. Much of Anna's mindset towards her relationship in this story is having her special fru fru Shoujo manga romance based off of a series she likes, it's another reason why the relationship progresses more slowly. I joked about her being autistic earlier, but when Anna in like episode 2 straight up tells another character that they’re “practicing their jokes” implying they don’t entirely understand what makes a joke funny on an intuitive level, I’mma think a certain way. I still can't get over how right after the scene of Anna doing the little happy dance in the park because she recieved a keychain as gift from her (not)-boyfriend—I got a text from an IRL friend of mine, who's also on the spectrum, of TikTok of a dancing flamingo telling me how it was literally them (my friend will, in fact, dance when happy if you let them), it fucking kills me. Anna is still a normie, and in fact, the show goes out of its way to note this multiple times. But, she’s a weird normie, one who’s survived due her exceptional upbringing and good looks
In relation to Anna, another thing I’ll praise about the show is its subtle character writing, masked through the subjective lens that the story filters itself through. Early on, there’s a bit where Anna asks Kyoutarou to borrow his paper fan and mentions how good the fan smells. Kyoutarou explicitly mentions that he didn’t buy a scented a fan when walking over to Anna to vet her point. And while Kyoutarou was too distracted by how beautiful Anna was to figure it out, the only scent the fan could have was FROM Kyoutarou because he was holding it all fucking day. When I realized this, I was like, “Nah, she did NOT just try that shit.” And while it didn’t work, that’s when I realized the mangaka really did care when crafting her scenarios and that I should be paying attention when Anna does things. I love stuff like that, and Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu is full of it. Some people have questioned why the show takes place in middle school, and I would chalk it up to the point I made earlier about "redeeming the tropes" or whatever. The world Bokuyaba takes place in is grounded enough that if these kids we're any older it wouldn't be believable. Hell, characters IN universe hardly can and they're like, thirteen. And since chuunibyo is a key element of the text early on, middle school jives well with the story's overall atmosphere and themes of adolescent self-acceptance.
To talk about the more technical aspects of Bokuyaba for a little bit, the show overall looks pretty solid. While the storyboards and character design work are (usually) nothing to write home about, Bokuyaba is animated fairly competently and the show looks its best when the digital compositing puts in the hard work to make its scenes really pop. Kensuke Ushio of all people did the soundtrack, and while I think it’s weaker when compared to his work on Chainsaw Man or A Silent Voice, there’s a few tracks on the Bokuyaba ost that just hit to such a satisfying extent and really captures what makes those scenes significant to the main character.
Bokuyaba is, for the most part, fairly simple outside of what I described. It’s not completely vapid, but it’s also not peak anime kino either, though it's not trying to be. Bokuyaba is trying to do something distinct and special in an increasingly over-saturated rom-com scene where a new quirky couple pops up every other week. And as someone who had been loosely interested in the property for some time, I can say I was pretty satisfied with the product I got. Good things are made sometimes and I don’t need to be all cynical about it. It helps that my life has been legit hell recently and I’ve had some of the worst weeks of my life just occur, Bokuyaba was a nice respite in the midst that. And I’m sure if any of the creators of either the show or the manga read what I just wrote, they'd feel just that little bit more confident in what they made, frankly, they should.
Have a nice day.
Alternative Titles
Synonyms: Bokuyaba
Japanese: 僕の心のヤバイやつ
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Type:
TV
Episodes:
12
Status:
Finished Airing
Aired:
Apr 2, 2023 to Jun 18, 2023
Premiered:
Spring 2023
Broadcast:
Sundays at 01:30 (JST)
Producers:
Dentsu, TV Asahi, Movic, Magic Capsule, Avex Pictures, Akita Shoten, BS Asahi, TV Asahi Music
Licensors:
Sentai Filmworks
Studios:
Shin-Ei Animation
Source:
Manga
Theme:
School
Demographic:
Shounen
Duration:
23 min. per ep.
Rating:
PG-13 - Teens 13 or older
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Your Feelings Categories Jun 17, 2023
Anime romantic comedies are a dime a dozen and they have been for over forty years now. The moment some savvy producer looked at the seminal Urusei Yatsura in the late 70’s and was like “We could totally milk the shit out of this,” it was basically all over from there. This reached critical mass in the 2000’s when some iteration of “random douchebag attracts a bunch of socially unstable weirdos and they run around for 13-25 episodes" or "random airheaded bimbo finds some hot piece of bishounen ass to abuse her for 13-25 episodes” became a disproportionate amount of the anime industry’s output. while
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Jun 17, 2023
The Dangers in My Heart has had quite an interesting run, from a full on cringefest to an incredibly wholesome ride filled with great character growth, and moments that really dangered my heart indeed. Granted, I liked the show from the beginning even with how cringe some of it was, but fast forward to about nine weeks in, and this became one of the shows I looked forward to the most every week in the spring anime season. From being lukewarm on the protagonist, I definitely came around on him, and he became one of my favourite male characters of the season. If you want
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Jun 17, 2023
This show, like the title did say was quite ~yabai~ in the first few episodes but trust me it does develop fairly well in the later episodes.
I thought this was just gonna be a chunni freak show with weird fanservice which it manages to fit in quite a good amount of, the boisterous and ultra well endowed little giant of girl yamada anna , (who we are somehow supposed to believe) is a middle school student and a model is alarmingly unaware of her antics of overeating and accidental fanservicing which are fueled by the chunni and Perverted delusions of our main lead ichikawa who ... Jun 17, 2023
The Dangers in My Heart is… uncomfortable, not due to its subject matter, but because of its effective satirization of the inherent creepiness often found in male-led romance anime. It cleverly critiques the recent wave of school rom-coms featuring generic boys who mystically attract conventionally attractive girls through exaggerated narratives and voyeuristic direction. Kyoutarou Ichikawa, the average male protagonist, embodies the creepiness to the extreme with his lurking, antisocial behavior, and disturbing thoughts. However, the series takes an unexpected turn by juxtaposing his unsettling tendencies with moments of genuine kindness.
These anime tend to follow men who narrate about their love interests while staring at ... Apr 15, 2023
This anime has been one of the most refreshing romance stories in anime in a while. I watched Tomo-chan, Kaguya, all the big ones. Even though I have read the manga, I am surprised seeing the subtle growth of Ichi and his seemingly impossible social problems he has to get over.
The animation, sound, character design are all ok. Not amazing but good. Supporting characters are more memorable than most other romance animes, they stand out with their personalities and designs. This anime shines with the small amount of character progression we see with Ichi. He starts as an edgy, unlikable middle schooler, and in just ... Jun 3, 2023
This anime is different from every single romance anime I've heard of. Most have a kind of character that's very typical-- like a tall guy, a short girl, and there's some element of dominance between them that remains the same each time (the man being the strong protector type or something.) This is of course a generalization.
This anime was great BECAUSE it was unique in a beautiful way. The main characters are deep and you can watch Ichikawa struggle with feelings of insecurity in later episodes, while Yamada has a lot to her (such as moments of bursting into tears, snacking whilst being a model, ... Nov 25, 2023
You know, I don’t really mind when a show divulges (or better yet evolves) from its premise, even if it was character based. Of course as the character grows, motivations change and the circumstance changes with it. Like in Love is War, the whole premise is trying to get the other to confess, but when they get together, that premise is gone, but still because of how the characters were developed, there was still a lot more story to tell. The premise evolved and changed. That is a good series. But I’m sorry, you cannot just forget your premise of, oh yeah, your main character
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May 27, 2023
I'm honestly mad this doesn't have better reviews, lol.
I'm a huge romance junkie - I've read hundreds of manga and watched every good romance anime there is. And this one leaves me wanting more every time. Even though it is a shonen it has some shoujo elements, and I can't help but root for Kyo even though he's wholly unappealing from a female perspective. I understand the dissatisfaction or confusion about the anime beginning with a sort of dark plot line and then dropping that entirely - but I think that sort of ends up being the point. Kyotaro has fed so much into his own ... Jun 2, 2023
I don't actually review anime but here it is. This review is done after i watched ep 9.
'Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu' with great adaptation is absolute banger with refreshing story and animation, tones, lightnings gives the touch to it. The story is refreshing and touches the feelings of the youthful romance. The amount of work they gave making every scenes is fine 10 for me. Love its Ending and Opening, its too sweet to skip every time i watch. I love how the main character is (emo) like struggling to understand his true feelings. And how the relationship slowly builds up with no ... Jun 9, 2023
Do you care for attention to detail? Do you like a bit of a slow burner? Can you handle a little bit of chunni cringe (or does it bring up trauma that you’ve been trying to bury all these years)? These are key questions that will determine whether or not BokuYaba might be for you. For those that answered “yes” to all three, there’s likely something here for you.
Kyoutarou Ichikawa is a middle schooler, and that is no exaggeration. “Bloodthirsty killer.” As if the synopsis wasn’t clear enough, he is chunni to a fault. At its core, Ichikawa’s edgy personality and active imagination are ... Jun 17, 2023
In a season full of good romance titles, Bokuyaba stands at the top for me as the best romance show of Spring 2023 and one of the best overall. A genuinely heartwarming and cute story that features a believable and organic relationship dynamic, loveable characters, a fantastic Ushio Kensuke OST and beautiful direction. This is a must watch.
Bit of a disclaimer. One of the biggest and most unfair criticisms this show got is how edgy the MC is in the first couple episodes and it’s genuinely mind-bogglingly to me that people still don’t understand the concept of character development and growth. If characters started out ... Jan 10, 2024
I'm a simple man with simple tastes - if I see a generic romance/comedy in the season, I'll watch it. Even if it's the same copy and pasted show that I've seen a million times before. I'll watch it. As for why... well that's a whole can of worms. But when I saw this airing I thought "well, guess this another one of those". I read the synopsis, saw a tall girl and a goofy looking edgy MC and thought, "okay, this is gonna be a another gag comedy with only one overused joke and appealing to people with a tall girl fetish."
I had it all figured out. So I ... Jan 28, 2024
Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu is a show I had low expectations going into. It's a show I thought I would never enjoy, one I thought would be filled with lame tropes and be over the top and stupid, one I thought would be forgettable and pointless but oh BOY how wrong I was. I was absolutely blown away at how everything played out, frankly I was shocked at how good this was, how well written and wholesome it was and just how much I'd become invested in these characters and their story.
Something that stood out to me was the realistic approach this anime ... May 31, 2023
To me, this was incredible—one of the best romance anime I've ever watched.
Are the characters any good? No,your average romance stuff Is the story good? story? What is that? Side character? I don't even remember a single name. Art? average, with a few exceptions here and there. Despite that,I felt a warm feeling during the whole show—just a pure feel-good anime. After every episode, I had a big smile on my face. I wish this was longer. I want a new episode every night after a tiring day. Boku no kokoro, to me, was the equivalent of a hot chocolate on a winter day before going to bed. Give this anime a ... May 22, 2023
If you're an connoisseur of 'feel good' romance (similar to Komi Can't Communicate or Kubo Won't Let Me Be Invisible in particular) this will fit perfectly into your alley.
The 'vibes' are amazing and the characters are vibrant, and mostly unique. The soft piano the plays at the end of each episode always pulls each one into a nice package and makes you feel good when it ends. I'll also add that from reading the manga, this is one worth sticking around for. However, if you're looking for something a bit deeper with a more serious romantic and less tangential storyline, this isn't going to be for you. ... Jun 27, 2023
"Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu" (The Dangers in My Heart) is an anime series that captivates viewers with its compelling storytelling and exploration of complex emotions. With its relatable characters and thought-provoking themes, this anime is a definite recommendation for fans of character-driven narratives.
The series revolves around a young protagonist who finds himself entangled in a web of conflicting emotions and relationships. The portrayal of the main character's inner struggles is nuanced and authentic, allowing viewers to empathize with his journey of self-discovery. Through his experiences, the anime delves into the intricate layers of human emotions, exploring themes such as love, friendship, insecurity, and ... May 17, 2023
After watching the first episode, and not even being able to finish it, I was certain that I would not be watching this. However, a few days later, a friend told me to give it another chance, and so I did.
One problem, if not the ONLY problem I had with this anime at first, was unquestionably the main character. He comes across as this creepy stalker that follows this girl and eavesdrop her conversations whenever he has the chance, more on that later. He's also this super edge lord that likes murders and wish to kill his classmate, the same girl he follows around. She ... Jun 17, 2023
"Murder is born of love, and love attains the greatest intensity in murder." - Octave Mirbeau
You've probably heard this quote about umpteen times already: Love makes the world go round. But have you ever asked yourself how people attain that love that makes them swell into romance with their significant others? I know of some series that specifically render this as part of their woven plot into romance, that are dependent on the people to have mixed feelings and so, carve an identity for themselves as nothing more than just fan fiction. Well, look no more, because courtesy of the creator of Mitsudomoe, mangaka Norio ... Jan 17, 2024
I can't believe I dropped this series back when it aired due to the influx of romance genre being pumped out and being baited by generic or just not for me series.
I might've given it two episodes originally and just gave up, because the first episode is such a poor representation of this show. This really is a hidden gem in the romcom genre in anime. I always thought romcoms in anime had to have characters that goes above and beyond, to be that unachievable best boy/girl status to rise to these heights because I didn't believe anime could actually do romance this well. Yamada ... Apr 15, 2023
While using a thesaurus to sound more intelligent in a review might work to a certain extent, it can quickly fall apart if you forget to punctuate properly moreover the over use of the words "embellish", "proliferate" and "travesty", etc... Doesn't help.
However, in the case of this show, I believe it stands on its own merits as a good series - at least for now. Rather than over-analyzing it with grandiloquent language and excessive repetition, it may be more useful to focus on the strengths of the show and provide a concise review. TL;DR: I would say this is a good show that doesn't need ... |