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Here are my recommendations:

1. Free! (swimming anime, story about friendship and drama, nice plot too) - watching this anime feels like I was watching my babies grow up haha. I started watching this during my 1st year in college and until now, I'm still a fan. 1st Season was quite funny but eventually the story gets serious later on.

2. Haikyuu! (volleyball anime, still about friendship and drama haha XD)

3. Uta no Prince-sama (music anime, reverse harm

No your more than welcome to add me.

Pretty much. Sometimes even the most unlikeliest person, may become your ideal partner.

We can tell ourselves no this person is not for me, or I would never marry this person because they are (Poor, Ugly, Fat, Stupid, Dumb, Black, White, Religious). But when we truly meet someone, and get to know them, and we find ourselves compatible, we will find ourselves bored without them.

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Our Ideal Partners are never the ones we have envisioned. Mainly because "Ideal" Is pieced from what everyone finds ideal. In reality what we find ideal in our head is not the same as the Ideal in our hearts.

The same can be said when someone is fixated on another. If you are fixated on one person. you will never noticed the other around you. Because you believe that this is the one. and never allowing yourself to waver. In other words it can become nothing more than feelings that were created and supported from self suggestion.

Thats why when we open our sights and we can see more, the more we realise that we were only restricting our perception because we allowed ourselves to be bound by our own beliefs.

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I see does feel alot more complicated due to the blood ties.
Pretty sure a good percentage of people have fallen for a cousin or a blood relative. though again very few actually go further than a kiss. (And this usually happens when they are still quite young between 5-13.) After that they learn what they are doing is not acceptable to society and usually loss those feelings. Though a few would still have those feelings regardless.

However I can see the dilemma you are having. If you have decided to keep it to yourself, I would not press you.

Like the other replies on the thread, I would recommend you divert your attention and concentration on something else. Some people will choose to focus completely on their careers or on a hobby.

A change in your day to day routine would bring new things to your life, and can even change your perspective. right now I would say your perception is very narrow. Mainly because you have had a crush on your cousin for such a long time, that you probably weren't noticing the people around you.

So I would suggest you look around abit more and assess everything infront of it.

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It really comes down to, are you willing to leave things as they are now. are you happy with just being the same.

The problem is there is two ways to look at this.

First the Confession option has 5 outcomes in my head.

1. You confess and he feels the same, you guys date and it ends well for both of you.

2. you confess and he feels the same, you date, but it ends bad, but you are still friends.

3. You confess and he feels the same, you date, things don't work out and you guys can never be friends again (Either due to cheating or abuse.)

4. You confess and he rejects you, and things get so odd that you can't be the same again

5. You confess, he rejects, you overcome it, and you regain the same ground and become the same friends again.

Those were the confession options.

Secondly is the remain silent and wait options.

1. He over time confesses and you accept and you date. Though it may work out or not.

2. He over time confesses, but you reject cause over time your feelings have changed. Meaning the chance had passed by, things may still change between you because of this.

3. Over time he never confesses, but some other girl confesses to him and he dates her. If this happens you are bound to no longer be able to have the same relationship as the girl would want him to herself and her friends.

4. Over time he develops feelings for another girl and he dates her after confessing. Meaning you lost your chance and outcome after is similar to the one above.

5. Over time he develops feelings for another, is rejected and you come into comfort him and utilise that to your advantage to leave a impression inside of his mind.

Probably isn't sound advice. But basically things will change regardless of you take action.

The problem is will you regret not taking any action and leaving things to chance. Or will you take the chance to take what you want, and never stop till you have gotten it.

After all the only constraint here is time. The more you wait the less time you have and sooner or later you will end up going your separate ways in life.

Basically its all a gamble. No matter what action you take its a gamble. there is no guarantee that things will end up positive, or that the outcome and scenario will play out as you wish.

If you truly want it go for it. And continue to go for it. Otherwise you will only have regret.

Basically sex is a tool that can be used by women, Women can sleep with men to get into power is the general idea. Some women would sleep with their superiors to get more pay, promotions and more power. Some would influence their partner in bed, convincing them to make certain decisions.

Sex can be seen as a basic reproductive act, but it can also be seen as a tool of control. it can be enticing and can be addictive and even lead to some falling in a trance. Similar to the Honey Pot that Intelligence agencies may utilise, to gain information from male targets. Red Light Districts were areas where Information gathering was most common, as people tend to let their guard down when they are naked and having sex. (People are usually most vulnerable when, Sleeping, bathing, Eating, Reproducing and Excreting.)

In regards to your unrequited feelings, have you ever expressed them? some people will either never notice, or they try not to notice. So if you take no action, nothing will change unless your willing to risk it.

I see. Well I won't deny that a majority of relationships don't end up being broken. most people find that they are no longer compatible. Some have cheated. Some just aren't looking for anything serious due to their own life plans.

Your perception is more then valid, after all out of the people that started dating in High school, have all already broken up. However I have seen people who have been in long successful relationships.

I won't agree with your "These women don't have goals and ambition in life." It really depends if you know the individual. After all if History has taught me anything is that sex can be used to get women up the career ladder and to profit."

Though the opposite is also true. Sex can become a vice that can become an addiction that can ruin a person and everything they have build.

May I ask why you are interested in knowing how a guy falls in love?
I mean Lust is pretty much an easy concept. Love is alot more complex (Since everyone is different) And the ability to say "I love you" Varies depending on an individuals treatment of the word.

Can I ask you if that is from personal experience?

I would agree with you that a large percentage just want to fool around. (That I cannot deny.) But not all just want a sexual relationship, or are out hunting for one night stands.

Though in this modern day (Depending on what Country you are born and raised) Women who are more than happy to have casual sex are growing.

I do but I don't go there often but I can if it means we can talk more. Did you get my request?

Yay! Your awesome :)

I sent you a contact request and a hello. Hope to talk to you often as we can.

Your welcome and I'm always here to talk if you need someone. I love making friends and I feel I need more close friends plus you seem like a cool gal. If you have Skype I can add you :3

Well don't kill yourself over it OK? I'd just say focus on finding someone else and maybe if you do it'll usurp those feeling. Also ignore those mocking you over the who incest thing.