Angel_Of_Faith said: Sayako said: Angel_Of_Faith said: Yeah, me too. I was pretty sure of what I wanted to be for a while, but then I actually thought about it, and realized that it wasn't a very good choice. So now, I just don't know...Because I worry too much about what will happen to me... And now I don't know what I'm going to be when I grow up!!! I wanted to be an author, but my parents didn't want me to become an author, so.... I think I'll be a nurse... They have good pay... I'll probably feel bad about telling you to disobey your parents, but don't let anyone tell you what to do with your life, they don't own you. They can cut you off, but you can survive. I hate how parents want to force their children to grow up to make MONEY, "Hey *daughter or son* we want you to be a *well payed profession here*" If it's for happiness, Money DOES NOT = Happiness. If it's just for the money then I don't think I'll be disagreed with when I say that's just shitty. |
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WorldWide said: Angel_Of_Faith said: Sayako said: Angel_Of_Faith said: Yeah, me too. I was pretty sure of what I wanted to be for a while, but then I actually thought about it, and realized that it wasn't a very good choice. So now, I just don't know...Because I worry too much about what will happen to me... And now I don't know what I'm going to be when I grow up!!! I wanted to be an author, but my parents didn't want me to become an author, so.... I think I'll be a nurse... They have good pay... I'll probably feel bad about telling you to disobey your parents, but don't let anyone tell you what to do with your life, they don't own you. They can cut you off, but you can survive. I hate how parents want to force their children to grow up to make MONEY, "Hey *daughter or son* we want you to be a *well payed profession here*" If it's for happiness, Money DOES NOT = Happiness. If it's just for the money then I don't think I'll be disagreed with when I say that's just shitty. I'll still stick to being a nurse, because my mom has crazy events happening in her life.... I'll just write stories as a hobby! |
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Angel_Of_Faith said: WorldWide said: Angel_Of_Faith said: Sayako said: Angel_Of_Faith said: Yeah, me too. I was pretty sure of what I wanted to be for a while, but then I actually thought about it, and realized that it wasn't a very good choice. So now, I just don't know...Because I worry too much about what will happen to me... And now I don't know what I'm going to be when I grow up!!! I wanted to be an author, but my parents didn't want me to become an author, so.... I think I'll be a nurse... They have good pay... I'll probably feel bad about telling you to disobey your parents, but don't let anyone tell you what to do with your life, they don't own you. They can cut you off, but you can survive. I hate how parents want to force their children to grow up to make MONEY, "Hey *daughter or son* we want you to be a *well payed profession here*" If it's for happiness, Money DOES NOT = Happiness. If it's just for the money then I don't think I'll be disagreed with when I say that's just shitty. I'll still stick to being a nurse, because my mom has crazy events happening in her life.... I'll just write stories as a hobby! Well if my mom wanted me to be this just because, and she was having "crazy events happening in her life" it would depend on the events even though that's vague. But if it was the events that I was thinking of, they would either end BEFORE I find my calling or if it was even more serious then probably once I'm already out of college, but my mom wants me to pursue my interests so T__T ouch on that one |
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Angel_Of_Faith said: I'll still stick to being a nurse, because my mom has crazy events happening in her life.... I'll just write stories as a hobby! Wow I remember when I wanted to be an author =) But now I'm stuck studying to be a nurse. |
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silentdreamer said: Angel_Of_Faith said: I'll still stick to being a nurse, because my mom has crazy events happening in her life.... I'll just write stories as a hobby! Wow I remember when I wanted to be an author =) But now I'm stuck studying to be a nurse. I'll probably be a nurse, science sometimes interests me.... Though, I'll be okay with this anyway........ |
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| WooTS! Akatsuki got it right! Without sounding offensive! I didn't want to sound like "SCREW YOUR MOM!" but I couldn't find a way to get the entire thing across without sounding like that so.... I guess it's just that simple ^o^ |
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| Mmmm. I need another job. Quick. Like now. And I need $1000 by March 1. x.x |
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| Sorry to intrude on your club, but I would like some advice. There's this girl that I've been friends with ever since I can remember, literally. I've developed feelings for her in the last year, but I'm really hesitant about it because I don't want to make things awkward between us. Any advise you can give would be great. |
| He that will not reason is a bigot; he that cannot reason is a fool; he that dares not reason is a slave. |
divinecow said: How do you clean soap? And how does one obtain 'dirty' soap!? I must learn the secrets of dirty soap... Like when you pick it up and theres hair on it from a prvious user *yeck* and you have to pick it off etc. -TD-Fuzz said: Sorry to intrude on your club, but I would like some advice. There's this girl that I've been friends with ever since I can remember, literally. I've developed feelings for her in the last year, but I'm really hesitant about it because I don't want to make things awkward between us. Any advise you can give would be great. No advise man sorry :( you gotta do what your heart tells you even if its hard or just get on with your life. |
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-TD-Fuzz said: Sorry to intrude on your club, but I would like some advice. There's this girl that I've been friends with ever since I can remember, literally. I've developed feelings for her in the last year, but I'm really hesitant about it because I don't want to make things awkward between us. Any advise you can give would be great. Couple things, if you really care for her and promise to be with her then go for it. Just take it slowly, and don't random shove your affection onto her in the beginning. She'd probable get overwhelmed and reject you. As long as you ask her after you think she won't reject you or get the feeling that she wants to be with you. Either way just stick with her a lot and don't bother her too much, and she'll warm up really well to you. My advice works only well with girls you've know for awhile... Yeah... I know it might not work, but whatever -_- A little rejection in life always is good! Just like failure!  Yeah I'm a weird person I know. |
-TD-Fuzz said: Sorry to intrude on your club, but I would like some advice. There's this girl that I've been friends with ever since I can remember, literally. I've developed feelings for her in the last year, but I'm really hesitant about it because I don't want to make things awkward between us. Any advise you can give would be great. i think you have to go for it ore you will regret it. I had the same problem as you a cuple of years ago. The boy i liked was one of my best friends, and i just culdn't tell him how i feelt about him, and i still think back on it and regret i so mutch. yes she might reject you but at least you won't look back on it regreting that you didn't tell her. so tell her how you feel :) |
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| Thank you very much, everyone. Also divinecow, thanks for being funny as hell, I needed that. |
| He that will not reason is a bigot; he that cannot reason is a fool; he that dares not reason is a slave. |
| Hmm...I currently have no big problems except for Mid Terms but my dad is helping me out with writing outlines for ten possible essay questions which I would of shut down and probably of failed if not for him. :D YAY for Fathers!! |
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| hey everyone I got a problem and I would be realy grateful for som advice. my best friend that i live with has developed anorexi, and i don't realy know what to do or what to say to help her |
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| Force her to get help. Even if you have to tell someone or her parents. Seriously. She can hate you at as much as she wants, but it is much better that she'll be alive and healthy. Its better to be hated than having massive regret for not someone's death or misfortune when you could have helped them. |
theooo said: hey everyone I got a problem and I would be realy grateful for som advice. my best friend that i live with has developed anorexi, and i don't realy know what to do or what to say to help her theres nothing you can do in truth. tell her parents, the rest is up to her. people die every day of this disease. |
LolitaDecay said: I have no idea. It was just a random thought. And now I can't stop reading people's posts with an accent. http://www.startreknewvoyages.com/episodes.html |
| thanx you all I just feel so powerless |
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theooo said: thanx you all I just feel so powerless thats because in this situation you are. its all her, she has to want to get well. good luck |
LolitaDecay said: I have no idea. It was just a random thought. And now I can't stop reading people's posts with an accent. http://www.startreknewvoyages.com/episodes.html |
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divinecow said: I love Rukia's lip mixed with her facial expression and hairz XDNeeded to be done. Sarcasm. Seriously. If you don't laugh, your more cynical than me. And that's a problem. |
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| (Wow no posts since last month.) Well, I'm gonna post about what's been bugging me lately. Ready to vent! Here's the situation: I'm a college freshman in my second semester. I'm currently trying to finish my G.E.'s (general education classes) in order to get into a Registered Nursing program that only accepts the best of the best. I'm not that great of a student to begin with and I'm an otaku. *sigh* The problem: My mother's been pressuring me to do better, and I try and all, but I just loose motivation. To top it off, I'm not totally sure if I want to be a nurse. But every time I try to think of another major, I can't come up with anything =_= Why? Because every time I got into something like drawing (which I dropped) or doing some photoshop editing (which I meagerly do nowadays), they always discourage me and I end up stopping it. Which in turn makes me unsure of what major is right for me. Currently: I'm continuing my studies because I want to do it for me. Because I have to support myself in the future. For my mother, she wants me to do it for her. What I'm feeling is that, I've already given up enough of my interests just for her, so I refuse to make her my motivation to continue studying. It sounds kinda harsh, but it's been bugging me ever since I got into college. Whats more is that she never really cared about how I studied before (and I was fine), so I don't really want her to start caring now =_= Whoo that was a lot. Sorry for posting it here, it's just that I don't have any friends^^" |
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| Its fine, to start same thing happend to me but i decided to go with what i was interested in cooking im not great but thats why you go to school. As for your mom my mom is the same wants to live off me once i get a good job, I said no because she had the chance to make her life better long ago, but I will still visit and what not but i dont see why i whould have to support her when i have alot of bills to pay out of collage "she actually use my collage money long ago wasnt even hers ever was grandparents" ANYWAYS yeah go with what you wanna do screw ecvery 1 else cause yeah your life you got to live it the longest =D |
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silentdreamer said: (Wow no posts since last month.) Well, I'm gonna post about what's been bugging me lately. Ready to vent! Here's the situation: I'm a college freshman in my second semester. I'm currently trying to finish my G.E.'s (general education classes) in order to get into a Registered Nursing program that only accepts the best of the best. I'm not that great of a student to begin with and I'm an otaku. *sigh* The problem: My mother's been pressuring me to do better, and I try and all, but I just loose motivation. To top it off, I'm not totally sure if I want to be a nurse. But every time I try to think of another major, I can't come up with anything =_= Why? Because every time I got into something like drawing (which I dropped) or doing some photoshop editing (which I meagerly do nowadays), they always discourage me and I end up stopping it. Which in turn makes me unsure of what major is right for me. Currently: I'm continuing my studies because I want to do it for me. Because I have to support myself in the future. For my mother, she wants me to do it for her. What I'm feeling is that, I've already given up enough of my interests just for her, so I refuse to make her my motivation to continue studying. It sounds kinda harsh, but it's been bugging me ever since I got into college. Whats more is that she never really cared about how I studied before (and I was fine), so I don't really want her to start caring now =_= Whoo that was a lot. Sorry for posting it here, it's just that I don't have any friends^^" I can totally sympathize with you cause I had the same problem with both of my parents actually - not only mom. I'm also college freshman, second semester - it's just that we don't have general major here so you can decide what to do later. No, no you choose your major right after high school and according to that you pick which college to enter. So, when the time came (last year) for me to decide what to do it was either do something that I can get a job for later or do something that I like. And I honestly didn't even think about it - I just went to dining room and told them that I'm applying for journalism, and if they don't like it they can shove it. You say you can't do anything else cause people discourage you - well you need to get over it. The way I see it if no one's gonna be happy with anything I do either way, I may as well do stuff that please me. You see no other person is you and knows how you feel - no matter how close you are. You are you. So when you make decisions like what to do with your life think only about you. No point in making yourself miserable for someone who may disappear out of your life tomorrow. |
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| Thanks guys. You're right, I should just do what I want *nods* ^_^ |
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WorldWide said: divinecow said: I love Rukia's lip mixed with her facial expression and hairz XDNeeded to be done. Sarcasm. Seriously. If you don't laugh, your more cynical than me. And that's a problem. Woah! Divinecow YOU made that?!! Wow, small internet world. I found that pic randomly on photobucket a few days ago and put it on my profile. |
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| O_o lol i think it was already made cause its on a older profile to on ms, n he hasnt logged in in ages xD |
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| I just took the ACT and I couldn't do the riting part. I didn't even HAVE to but who ever signed me up foolishly decied I should take it with the writing test. I fail at essays. |
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| REVIVED REVIVED REVIVED!!!!!! My problems: Emotional/Mental chaos. I love/hate it. I'm waiting until it gets more intense so I can continue with my humanist/realist/socialist/liberal/romantic/passionate thoughts. YES YES YES |
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| Lets list all my physical problems...I have aspergers symdrome which gives me lots of problems, my teeth were growing everywhere so I to full two of them out and had countless orthodontic appliances on for 4 years and counting, my eyes are asian and because of that I have a common problem with asians with my lower eyelashes because they lean onto my eye so I have to pluck them, I have joint hyper mobility syndrome which makes my joints very loose and because of that my kneecaps dislocate easily & etc, that's all i can think of right now. |
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| That's insane... and sucks. |
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ihavaq said: Ritsuka said: Akatsuki_Sora said: I cry for stupid things sometimes. I want to tell you guys about an animated short film I watched about a kiwi bird that made me cry for hours with buckets of tears but I'm on the verge of crying like a pycho just for thinking of it so I won't... T_T I also cry about growing up; I WANT MY MOMMY FOREVER!!!!!!!! I DON'T WANNA LEAVE!!!!! I've seen that kiwi bird thingy too and I cried as well XD it's just sad..;__; What is the kiwi thing called? I want to see if I cry too, lol. Is it this? lol It's so cute it almost made me cry. ^^ |
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