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Well as the title says I am having difficulty finding a good romance anime.. To be more specific I'm looking more for a action/fantasy/romance anime.. but those seem to be the hardest to find for me.. I guess it doesn't really have to have romance tag on the anime. Just like to have my anime with romance going on between the main characters. Doesn't really have to be heavy.. But I'm also okay with just romance anime suggestions too. Would love to watch a really deep emotional one to watch. Like ef a tale of memories. I bawled like a baby lol.. Yeah I am man enough to admit it. And side note: I'm pretty sure I'm in the minority when I say this but Renji and Chihiro's story was so much better ha.. But anyways would love help in my search. Also I know this is an inconvenience but just now got back onto the site again for awhile so my list is not up to date at the moment.

Full Metal Panic! Especially Fumoffu (the best one of the series even though its a parady). It got action, fantasy, and, romance. Oh, its not the best but it is certainly decent.

Busou Renking, Fate Stay/Zero, Kaze no Stigma, Sankarea, Utawararemono (though is kind of harem), Berserk, Inuyasha, Kannagi, Senjou No Valkyria: Gallian Chronicles, Shingetsuhan Tsukihime...

Those are all high quality action fantasy romance for me (less kannagi, that is a normal one)

See my list and you'll find everything you're looking for because we kind of share the same taste: http://myanimelist.net/animelist/kentick

Tsubasa Chronicle
Escaflowne (tv series)
Romeo x Juliet
Macross Frontier (okay, sci-fi, but...)
Earth Maiden Arjuna

Just romance:
vicotrian Romance Emma
Millennium Actress (has some fantasy as well)
The Girl Who Leapt Through Time (sci-fi/romance, but quite good)

watch otome youkai zakuro its under appreciated but it has a good romance story. the art is good too :D i have a trailer linked her if youre keen http://teenmediareviews.com/2012/05/otome-youkai-zakuro/

Not a definitave list, but a good one.
a= action
f= fantasy
r= romance (significantly varying levels of romance)
list in spoiler

Action/ Adventure + Romance:

FMA brotherhood
Yu Yu Hakusho
Guilty Crown
Rurouni Kenshin
Basilisk
Mirai Nikki
Fushigi Yuugi
Higashi no Eden
Saikano
Steins; Gate

Just Romance:

Itazura na Kiss
Kare Kano
Nodame Cantabile
Honey and Clover
Hanbun no Tsuki ga Nobuto Sora
B gata H Kei
Aishiteruze Baby
Bokura ga Ita
Nana
Kaichou wa Maid sama
Lovely Complex

Hope you can at least enjoy some of them (:

Toradora

I second:
Castle in the Sky (Movie)
Kiki's Delivery Service (Movie)
Prétear (Complete 13 Episodes)
Kaichou wa Maid-sama! (Complete 26 Episodes)
Princess Tutu (Complete 38 Episodes)

I also Recommend:
Howl's Moving Castle (Movie)
Mamotte! Lollipop (Complete 13 Episodes)
Kiniro no Corda: Primo Passo (Complete 25 Episodes)
Gakuen Alice (Complete 26 Episodes)
Groove Adventure Rave (Complete 51 Episodes)
Hana yori Dango (Complete 51 Episodes)
Sugar Sugar Rune (Complete 51 Episodes)

Record of Lodoss War, both the OVA and the TV series, are the classic fantasy romance series. It's suble and well done, but definitely there and very good (particularly in the OVA.) Make sure you watch the OVA before the TV.

http://myanimelist.net/anime/207/Record_of_Lodoss_War OVA
http://myanimelist.net/anime/206/Record_of_Lodoss_War:_Chronicles_of_the_Heroic_Knight TV

I also highly recommend Utawarerumono. VERY good fantasy romance series.
http://myanimelist.net/anime/856/Utawarerumono

Both of these do have action and both are about wars and fun stuff.