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Jun 26, 2016 6:58 PM
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What's your guys' opinions on people dating older or younger than their age? Would you guys' date people younger or older than you?

And if you have dated people who wasn't around your age, post your experiences~

Edit: Well gee golly there was another thread like this.
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Jun 26, 2016 7:00 PM
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In my past relationships I've always dated older, though I might have to go older than that. Even at this age people are still quite immature.
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Jun 26, 2016 7:44 PM
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ive always preferred older by 1-2 years but ive dated younger b4 and #ragrets
Jun 26, 2016 8:04 PM
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I've done both. At this point I would prefer at least my age or a few years younger. Older girls are more interested in marriage and I'm not really about that right now.
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Jun 26, 2016 8:08 PM
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I date someone 4 months younger than me

Am I a pedophile?
Jun 26, 2016 8:25 PM
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I prefer to only date people who are older than me or the same age. I'd say no more than 5 years older than me.
Jun 26, 2016 8:45 PM
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Nico- said:
I date someone 4 months younger than me

Am I a pedophile?


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Jun 26, 2016 9:00 PM
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I haven't dated anyone over 6 months younger or older to me yet it always felt more like babysitting than dating.
Jun 26, 2016 9:02 PM
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Not too fond of dating someone older. Maybe 1 year older max (2 would be pushing it). Wouldn't mind dating someone younger (2 years max). I'm much more interested in people that are at least close to my age. Not a big fan of a big age gap.


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Jun 26, 2016 10:24 PM

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I think since a lot of girls are submissive they usually like older guys. Because older guys are more experienced and better in controlling them.

Even if they aren't submissive most girls prefer at least a guy that is same age or 1-2 years older.

But I think since men are already superior to women it should be still easy for a guy that is a lot younger to dominate a girl - so it should also be okay for guys to be older. (Like 14 years old boy with a 21 years old girl would be okay.)

But most guys don't like it and I can understand it. We also want younger girls because they are sexier. Sexy, fresh and young body.

The only negative side effect: Guys already have lower life expectancy. So they will die earlier and if both stay together for a long time ... at the end the female will still be a lot of years by herself without a guy (too old to get a new guy). I think it is recommended for females to still work (not focusing on getting kids or family) - so they will have a lot of money and can at least be interesting for money if they are old so they can get some callboys.

But that only is my personal opinion. Of course it can be different for others. But there already are feminists and they also want that females focus on work and career - so most should agree to this progressive view I have.
Jun 27, 2016 12:12 AM

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Nico- said:
I date someone 4 months younger than me

Am I a pedophile?

I date someone 2 years younger than me.

Am I a fetusphile?
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Jun 27, 2016 12:16 AM

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My preference would be from -2 years to +5 years age difference.
Jun 27, 2016 12:19 AM

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i don't think i can ever date anyone younger than me, maybe if it's 1-4 months. as for older, the most i can do is 3 or 4 years.
Jun 27, 2016 12:50 AM
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Jun 27, 2016 1:12 AM

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I wouldn't mind dating someone 6 years younger/older than me. Why not give it a try? What's the worst that can happen, another break-up?
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Jun 27, 2016 1:48 AM

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I don't think I would mind a small age gap (be it younger or older) as long as they're mature.
Jun 27, 2016 2:14 AM

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I've only dated people my age lol. I prefer people older than me though, I think.
Jun 27, 2016 2:24 AM

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I prefer someone that is within 2 years of me. But I am willing to accept someone with a 10 year difference if they are just that good. I generally look for older women though, they are more mature.
Jun 27, 2016 2:33 AM

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I've done both, but I prefer younger than me.The current one is 8 years younger, but with the right set of mind(for the most part).The body and mind of a young woman is much more better.If you are a romantic it has it's pros too – they didn't had time to become as cynical as older woman.
Jun 27, 2016 2:39 AM

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Jun 27, 2016 3:06 AM

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Older, can't stand boys that are my age or younger than me.
Jun 27, 2016 3:15 AM

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I dated for a short time a guy who's 4 years older than me, and I dated another one who's 3 years younger than me. I prefer around my age or older, since I find younger guys too immature and annoying (My ex was, that is).
Jun 27, 2016 3:48 AM

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I only date younger/girls the same age as me.

I'll never settle for a women older than me, unless it's a one-night stand
Jun 27, 2016 3:54 AM

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I'd prefer people around my age, since I'm 16 so I don't really want to go too far either way
Jun 27, 2016 4:09 AM
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I think an age difference is okey, I'd look around my own age (which I consider to be 5 years older or younger than me). Otherwise I might feel like we don't have that much in common.

Nico- said:
I date someone 4 months younger than me

Am I a pedophile?

The pedo is strong with this one


Jun 27, 2016 4:15 AM

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Doesn't matter to me, but I'll say that I might prefer older.

But then again I don't mind someone who's younger than me either.
Jun 27, 2016 4:24 AM

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I prefer to date dead and non-existent individuals.
Jun 27, 2016 8:56 AM

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it doesn't matter too much unless there's a huge gap. but even then, it could work out with the right people.
Jun 27, 2016 9:21 AM

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Age doesn't matter all that much once you get out of your teens. As long as it's legal (above 16 here, though I would have reservations about dating someone still in high school) and they aren't some grandpa or granny, then I don't see an issue.

Personally I would prefer someone a few years younger. So at 23, I would say maybe 18-21? But again, that is preference, not a requirement.
Sep 9, 2016 5:33 AM

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i prefer younger than me..

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Sep 9, 2016 8:24 AM

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Cosmos said:
What's your guys' opinions on people dating older or younger than their age? Would you guys' date people younger or older than you?

And if you have dated people who wasn't around your age, post your experiences~

Edit: Well gee golly there was another thread like this.


This things seem more big to teenagers because they go to school and college etc and a few years older is like a different order or something.

When you grow up it's kind of meaningless unless we talk about huge differences where the problems is more like other gossiping about how one of the two is older enough to be a parent of the other etc.

When i was 23 i dated a 41 year old woman. She was awesome actually. Almost 20 years of difference but it was a good fun time with less trouble than dating girls at my age at the time. She knew what she wanted and she wasn't beating around the bush so it was good not to have a person that isn't soul-searching anymore and moody as a person trying to understand it's own self.
Sep 9, 2016 10:20 AM

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i prefer someone who's like 18... turning 19.

cause you know, they're just starting to explore what's really out there...
if you know what i mean
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Sep 9, 2016 10:25 AM
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Not really a huge deal either way tbh. But I guess if I had the option then I'm more into younger girls (shocking, I know). I'm 22 now so maybe someone like 19-20 or so would be nice... but again it doesn't really matter too much either way. I'm totally fine with a 25 yo as well
Sep 9, 2016 10:25 AM
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i prefer someone who's like 18... turning 19.

cause you know, they're just starting to explore what's really out there...
if you know what i mean
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Croissants?

I would date people 2 years younger and maybe 1 year older. I don;t really like big age gaps ;o
Sep 9, 2016 10:31 AM

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Both of my exes were younger than me, but I don't think I have a specific age preference. Hell, my second ex was only about a week younger.

Since I'm nineteen, I find it to be risky to date someone even two years older or younger than me. I'll open up my options more when I'm in my mid twenties or so, but nineteen, to me, is one of those ages where you're at a very particular transition period between adolescence and young adulthood, and people change very rapidly.

There's also the fact that I look really young, so dating someone older than me would make me feel like jailbait. And if I date someone younger than me, I'd feel like I'd be *taking* jailbait.
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RedCloud said:
jammy_toast said:
i prefer someone who's like 18... turning 19.

cause you know, they're just starting to explore what's really out there...
if you know what i mean
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Croissants?

I would date people 2 years younger and maybe 1 year older. I don;t really like big age gaps ;o


i would also date croissants, tbh ;)


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Sep 9, 2016 10:37 AM

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If someone didn't come out of the womb the exact same second as me then it's just disgusting, because muh power differentials.
Sep 9, 2016 10:43 AM

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If you date somebody a second younger than you

You should go to jail
Sep 9, 2016 10:52 AM

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I'd prefer to date someone around my age or 1-2 years older. I'm not prepared for a bigger age gap xD
Sep 9, 2016 11:18 AM

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The odds of you dating someone the exact same age as you is pretty much impossible, when you think about it.

Anyway, to me it's not about age but stage of life, I mostly don't care what a person's exact number is if they are basically around that same stage of life.

I've found people who are like 22 who are ready to have children and are falling apart physically (balding, etc), they feel that they will never be more desirable than then and are desperate to secure a partner, and I've found people who are 26 who have never even considered the idea of a longer term relationship, usually because they are possibly just as attractive/interesting (maybe even moreso) than when they were 22.

I think some particular personalities will go as high as like 31/32 before even feeling the desire to have a partner.

Anyway, my parents have a 5 year gap and it's never mattered, so yeah, that's my summary of feelings.

Because there are such strong differences, I mostly don't really look to age as a number, but I don't ignore where a person is at mentally and where they seem to be wanting to go overall.

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i only date 16 year old girls. you guys should try it


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My current boyfriend is one year younger which doesn't have a real impact. My first boyfriend though was 7years older than me. I was in high school and he was a senior university student. He cared about the sexual aspects of our relationship way more than I did (and probably than I do now), called me immature but had his parents pay for most of his stuff and in the end he cheated on me.

We dated for a year but it was always weird. I don't think it had much to do with our age differences but more to do with what we wanted in life. Even if we were close in age that relationship would never work.
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Sep 9, 2016 12:29 PM

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I've never dated anyone older. You know, because they have kids and stuff...

The last person I dated was 4 years younger than me. She was actually more mature than people much closer to my age. Go figure.



Sep 9, 2016 1:04 PM

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I would date younger and older but not too much so.
Sep 9, 2016 4:06 PM

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Because I am an established refined older gentleman, I believe the rule of thumb is half your age plus seven. So about 30 years old.

I think the rule works very well from 14 years onwards! LOL.
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Sep 9, 2016 7:44 PM

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I've never dated anyone just because I don't have the time for it. BUT, I am attracted to guys older than me. Nothing crazy like 15 years. More like, 2 to 4. I just can't seem to like a guy younger than me romantically. Not sure why...
Sep 9, 2016 7:52 PM

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I only date people born on the exact same day as me.

In all seriousness I'll go either way, it doesn't matter. I don't grill people about their age when I first meet them anyway? Anyway atm I'm probably around 3 years either direction, but it'll probably change as I get older and there is less of a difference per year in people when they are 50 vs 20.
Sep 9, 2016 7:54 PM

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I've done both sides of it. I dated a girl who was a couple years older and couple years younger than me.

I would prob say my dating preference would be somoene younger because I didn't really enjoy my experience of some older than me. That being said, it could've just been my experience.
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Not like it will ever happen but I would rather have an older woman. About 32-35 and asian since they look fantastic older. My dream girl would be hitomi Tanaka. Godess.

I used to want a younger one years ago but I changed for the better.
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