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Apr 23, 2016 10:22 AM
#1
I'll start. - Seeing Facebook friends you went to school with getting married and having children - Thinking about how those born in 2000 are already 16 - This whole gender and sexual identification thing teens seem to be into with all those cis- and trans- and pan- prefixes I don't even know... now go and bring me my cane, sonny |
Apr 23, 2016 10:24 AM
#2
Nothing makes me feel ancient because I'm twenty four. |
Apr 23, 2016 10:24 AM
#3
Remembering a time when there were 2 genders, not 56. |
Apr 23, 2016 10:27 AM
#4
Apr 23, 2016 10:28 AM
#5
Basically this omg. r.i.p Ice cube btw qwq |
Apr 23, 2016 10:29 AM
#6
I agree more with older people, than people of my own generation, haha. Some people say that I am like a bitter old man. Well, imagine how I will be once I actually am an old man. It will be bitterness deluxe. |
Apr 23, 2016 10:31 AM
#7
I don't think that I can call myself ancient when I'm only 22 years old. |
Apr 23, 2016 12:33 PM
#8
I'm 20 so I don't feel that ancient. Most teenagers today have probably never used a VCR. |
Apr 23, 2016 12:41 PM
#9
I grew up with stuff like dial up internet, laser disc players, VCR (we still have one) and going to Block Buster on Fridays. |
Apr 23, 2016 12:42 PM
#10
seeing people on MAL who were born in 2000-2003 and thinking "it's weird for someone so young to use MAL" and then realising they're teenagers |
Apr 23, 2016 12:44 PM
#11
- when open drawer and see floppy disks containing my junior high computer class assignments -when surprised i see porn star with birthday of 1997 on their profile, but then realize that they're actually legally adults now -when i view someone's anime list and see their oldest viewed anime are from mid-2000's |
Apr 23, 2016 12:52 PM
#12
Seeing all of these new virtual reality gaming things, and remembering that I started out on a Playstation. |
Apr 23, 2016 1:02 PM
#13
Jayden said: Seeing all of these new virtual reality gaming things, and remembering that I started out on a Playstation. You mean you had 3d games? here's what I started on. |
Apr 23, 2016 1:27 PM
#16
Bobby2Hands said: Jayden said: Seeing all of these new virtual reality gaming things, and remembering that I started out on a Playstation. You mean you had 3d games? here's what I started on. Sorry old man, need a cane? Nah I played Mortal Kombat 2, I don't think that's 3D. |
Apr 23, 2016 2:26 PM
#17
NasalShark said: Did it come with the god cards? If not you need to get those.When I've bought a new tablet but can't figure out how to turn it on. //Can anyone tell me how to switch on this model? |
Apr 23, 2016 2:27 PM
#18
Epistemophilic said: Remembering a time when there were 2 genders, not 56. This. Also, seeing children owning iPhones and the like. I didn't get a mobile phone until I was 14 and it was a brick. |
Apr 23, 2016 2:27 PM
#19
ibear said: NasalShark said: Did it come with the god cards? If not you need to get those.When I've bought a new tablet but can't figure out how to turn it on. //Can anyone tell me how to switch on this model? Ugh, I hate it when they don't come with the necessary extensions. |
Apr 23, 2016 2:33 PM
#20
NasalShark said: When I've bought a new tablet but can't figure out how to turn it on. //Can anyone tell me how to switch on this model? By the looks of it you need to have sex with a dead body ON the tablet. Speak in tongues while doing so and it shall activate. |
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Apr 23, 2016 2:36 PM
#21
Cooking up the ol' Playstation 1 to play Crash Bandicoot... doesn't really make me feel ancient, but meh. |
Apr 23, 2016 2:38 PM
#22
I don't feel ancient, but having my children discover a cassette tape and ask what it is does not make me feel very young. When I start to reflect on the fact that many kids now will never know what it is to have a corded home phone, play games with a joystick, and have to roll up the car window by handle, it is a good reminder that times have changed haha. |
"The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." |
Apr 23, 2016 2:39 PM
#23
Apr 23, 2016 2:43 PM
#24
NasalShark said: the bastards.ibear said: NasalShark said: When I've bought a new tablet but can't figure out how to turn it on. //Can anyone tell me how to switch on this model? Ugh, I hate it when they don't come with the necessary extensions. Speaking of God cards, yugioh is something that makes me feel ancient. In my day the standard card looked something like this Nice and simple, attack something for 1200 defend 800, and the mammoth skeletons defends the grave or some ish. Awesome Nowadays this is a thing Like, the fuck am I even looking at? |
Apr 23, 2016 2:46 PM
#25
Well, i'm only 20 but i'll go for it anyways. - knowing or recalling ps1 games. Ps2 also sometimes. -vhs tapes -childhood movies - the families on facebook like u said, its unbelievable really. Most married right out of high school. -early 2000's trends/memes i remember, for ex. the "don't taze me bro" clip. Also yugioh, was reminded of it by another post |
Apr 23, 2016 3:01 PM
#26
Apr 23, 2016 4:09 PM
#27
kids born after 2000 crazy yung'uns |
removed-userApr 23, 2016 4:40 PM
Apr 23, 2016 4:16 PM
#28
I feel like a spring chicken, so I cant relate. dramamama79 said: I don't feel ancient, but having my children discover a cassette tape and ask what it is does not make me feel very young. When I start to reflect on the fact that many kids now will never know what it is to have a corded home phone, play games with a joystick, and have to roll up the car window by handle, it is a good reminder that times have changed haha. Having kids does make you feel older. Cant relate. |
Apr 23, 2016 4:33 PM
#29
@ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet |
Apr 23, 2016 4:42 PM
#30
Uhio said: @ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet Talk about ruining the mood. Dude, calm down. You could fill an entire ocean with that level of salt because someone got mad about your precious gender fluidity. I mean, this ain't tumblr. And CD is far from the best place to be seeking any kind of acceptance. Everyone is a complete and utter ass. Hell, half the things I say ain't serious either. If looking for some form of regressive progressivism, or way to garner attention and love for your identity, there's always a tumblr to retreat to. This is really not the place to be trying to tote your sense of social justice. It'll just get ya mocked and trolled. I'm left-center and my political viewpoints have still gotten backlash, you're not going to find a lot of people who care, nor who'll give you anything but venomous nastiness. So why try typing out an entire vent? I've been doin that shit lately and it's becoming quite exhausting, after awhile you're truly going to come to realization that no one gives a fuck. |
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Apr 23, 2016 4:44 PM
#31
Not understanding what these hashtag thingies are used for. Having trouble finding my way around on a modern phone. Having grown up in the MS DOS and 16-bit era, and realising how much more computer games can do nowadays. When I realise how kids these days grow up in a world where using the internet is as normal as breathing. |
Apr 23, 2016 4:51 PM
#32
When people ask i have (or) use Skype |
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Apr 23, 2016 5:13 PM
#33
dizzyur said: Uhio said: @ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet Talk about ruining the mood. Dude, calm down. You could fill an entire ocean with that level of salt because someone got mad about your precious gender fluidity. I mean, this ain't tumblr. And CD is far from the best place to be seeking any kind of acceptance. Everyone is a complete and utter ass. Hell, half the things I say ain't serious either. If looking for some form of regressive progressivism, or way to garner attention and love for your identity, there's always a tumblr to retreat to. This is really not the place to be trying to tote your sense of social justice. It'll just get ya mocked and trolled. I'm left-center and my political viewpoints have still gotten backlash, you're not going to find a lot of people who care, nor who'll give you anything but venomous nastiness. So why try typing out an entire vent? I've been doin that shit lately and it's becoming quite exhausting, after awhile you're truly going to come to realization that no one gives a fuck. I'm not that dumb I've been here longer than you have lol. the thing that provoked me to write that rant is that everyone on mal claims to not know what gender identity is and doesn't put forth effort to try to understand, instead shrugs it off as illegitimate and continues to make a mockery of it without any.. real.. basis I don't care if you don't accept it, I'm not looking for love or acceptance, I'm looking for fucking competence. to look at an idea and unquestionably label it as "nope, shouldn't be here" is just playing into willful ignorance and I'd rather just combat THAT, not specifically gender identity. I'd wholly welcome an argument where a person has done the research and is fully aware of what it is, but still disagrees with the idea I don't care for sj bullshit, I'm just not completely obstinate edit- as a response to your edited part, I'm basically looking for discourse. arguing with tumblr usually puts me at risk of getting dox'd or having my account deleted because I'm not a complete tumblrite and I actually disagree with most of the shit they preach. anyways, soon enough I'll get tired of it when no one is up for challenging my ideas |
UhioApr 23, 2016 5:19 PM
Apr 23, 2016 5:17 PM
#35
IM fucking 19 YEars old, thats fucking UHUGE, idk bour u but I thinks thats pretty old n anciesnt lmao |
Apr 23, 2016 5:21 PM
#36
Uhio said: dizzyur said: Uhio said: @ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet Talk about ruining the mood. Dude, calm down. You could fill an entire ocean with that level of salt because someone got mad about your precious gender fluidity. I mean, this ain't tumblr. And CD is far from the best place to be seeking any kind of acceptance. Everyone is a complete and utter ass. Hell, half the things I say ain't serious either. If looking for some form of regressive progressivism, or way to garner attention and love for your identity, there's always a tumblr to retreat to. This is really not the place to be trying to tote your sense of social justice. It'll just get ya mocked and trolled. I'm left-center and my political viewpoints have still gotten backlash, you're not going to find a lot of people who care, nor who'll give you anything but venomous nastiness. So why try typing out an entire vent? I've been doin that shit lately and it's becoming quite exhausting, after awhile you're truly going to come to realization that no one gives a fuck. I'm not that dumb I've been here longer than you have lol. the thing that provoked me to write that rant is that everyone on mal claims to not know what gender identity is and doesn't put forth effort to try to understand, instead shrugs it off as illegitimate and continues to make a mockery of it without any.. real.. basis I don't care if you don't accept it, I'm not looking for love or acceptance, I'm looking for fucking competence. to look at an idea and unquestionably label it as "nope, shouldn't be here" is just playing into willful ignorance and I'd rather just combat THAT, not specifically gender identity. I'd wholly welcome an argument where a person has done the research and is fully aware of what it is, but still disagrees with the idea I don't care for sj bullshit, I'm just not completely obstinate Judging from your contribution to the "nonbinary" thread, your idea of gender mixes up defying norms with actual bio sex, mixes up not caring with having actual gender dysphoria, but that's besides the point. I don't even want an argument, I'm sick and tired of talking about why I think fluidity doesn't apply to gender, so I'm really done. I got booed off of tumblr for it and I don't want that to transfer over here. The primary reason I left tumblr was to escape the overspecialization, not to be crippled by it elsewhere. Primarily why I migrated to MAL. Sure, there are some fucking neonazi bitches who i would boot off the site in a heartbeat if I were a mod, but they're easily ignorable if I stick to my guns and spend more time in forum games, like I generally do, and not in CD or CE. I won't deny that there are a lot of ignorant people here, but I'm really one of the more accepting. However, I do cross certain lines that pertain to my old life on tumblr, that I personally don't want to deal with here, one of them pertaining to constant argument about gender this and gender that. Honestly I could care less about gender if people weren't such assholes about trying to reassure that genderfluidity or nonbinary whatever exists all the time. At this point I'm just done. almost every "nonbinary" fuck I friended on tumblr ended up mistreating, abandoning, or mocking me for not being PC enough for them, some of them even went so far as to try and witch hunt me and tell their friends who didn't even know me to send messages telling me to kill myself– I don't want to have to think about that part of my past anymore. |
Apr 23, 2016 5:34 PM
#37
dizzyur said: Uhio said: dizzyur said: Uhio said: @ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet Talk about ruining the mood. Dude, calm down. You could fill an entire ocean with that level of salt because someone got mad about your precious gender fluidity. I mean, this ain't tumblr. And CD is far from the best place to be seeking any kind of acceptance. Everyone is a complete and utter ass. Hell, half the things I say ain't serious either. If looking for some form of regressive progressivism, or way to garner attention and love for your identity, there's always a tumblr to retreat to. This is really not the place to be trying to tote your sense of social justice. It'll just get ya mocked and trolled. I'm left-center and my political viewpoints have still gotten backlash, you're not going to find a lot of people who care, nor who'll give you anything but venomous nastiness. So why try typing out an entire vent? I've been doin that shit lately and it's becoming quite exhausting, after awhile you're truly going to come to realization that no one gives a fuck. I'm not that dumb I've been here longer than you have lol. the thing that provoked me to write that rant is that everyone on mal claims to not know what gender identity is and doesn't put forth effort to try to understand, instead shrugs it off as illegitimate and continues to make a mockery of it without any.. real.. basis I don't care if you don't accept it, I'm not looking for love or acceptance, I'm looking for fucking competence. to look at an idea and unquestionably label it as "nope, shouldn't be here" is just playing into willful ignorance and I'd rather just combat THAT, not specifically gender identity. I'd wholly welcome an argument where a person has done the research and is fully aware of what it is, but still disagrees with the idea I don't care for sj bullshit, I'm just not completely obstinate Judging from your contribution to the "nonbinary" thread, your idea of gender mixes up defying norms with actual bio sex, mixes up not caring with having actual gender dysphoria, but that's besides the point. I don't even want an argument, I'm sick and tired of talking about why I think fluidity doesn't apply to gender, so I'm really done. I got booed off of tumblr for it and I don't want that to transfer over here. The primary reason I left tumblr was to escape the overspecialization, not to be crippled by it elsewhere. Primarily why I migrated to MAL. Sure, there are some fucking neonazi bitches who i would boot off the site in a heartbeat if I were a mod, but they're easily ignorable if I stick to my guns and spend more time in forum games, like I generally do, and not in CD or CE. I won't deny that there are a lot of ignorant people here, but I'm really one of the more accepting. However, I do cross certain lines that pertain to my old life on tumblr, that I personally don't want to deal with here, one of them pertaining to constant argument about gender this and gender that. Honestly I could care less about gender if people weren't such assholes about trying to reassure that genderfluidity or nonbinary whatever exists all the time. At this point I'm just done. almost every "nonbinary" fuck I friended on tumblr ended up mistreating, abandoning, or mocking me for not being PC enough for them, some of them even went so far as to try and witch hunt me and tell their friends who didn't even know me to send messages telling me to kill myself– I don't want to have to think about that part of my past anymore. err, yeah that's what I mean about tumblr I mean, like, I may contribute to gender discourse or just general social justice topics but I don't identify with anything tumblr stands for because I think their level of thinking is no different than the idiots here on mal but the difference between arguing on mal and tumblr is that I won't get harassed out of the internet for disagreeing |
Apr 23, 2016 5:51 PM
#38
back pain/physical ailments in general. |
Apr 23, 2016 5:55 PM
#39
Basically anything that comes from tumblr makes me feel like I'm 70, not 30. |
Apr 23, 2016 6:08 PM
#40
Having dignity. |
Apr 23, 2016 6:15 PM
#41
Jamming to *NSYNC and spontaneously recalling their rivalry with the Backstreet Boys and being like holy crap that was over a decade ago. |
Apr 23, 2016 6:26 PM
#42
My little sister graduating high school AAAAAAAAAAAAAH when do I get my gray hairs |
☕ Truth be told, I'm quite proud of my house blend. To attain my flavor and fragrance, I use five different types of coffee beans. ☕ |
Apr 23, 2016 8:19 PM
#43
I feel uneasy when i have to wait for on going anime, i cant be calm when waiting for the new episode. Hihi |
Apr 23, 2016 8:21 PM
#44
manic93 said: more twentysomethings are doing this than teens ever haveI'll start. - Seeing Facebook friends you went to school with getting married and having children - Thinking about how those born in 2000 are already 16 - This whole gender and sexual identification thing teens seem to be into with all those cis- and trans- and pan- prefixes I don't even know... now go and bring me my cane, sonny |
Freddy Nicholas said: have control, be yourself, god is dead |
Apr 23, 2016 9:28 PM
#46
when a lot of celebrities i know are dying or getting old but there are exceptions though like Jennifer Aniston still looks hot even though she is near 50 years old already |
Apr 23, 2016 9:31 PM
#47
These forums. I'm not joking, they really do. |
Apr 23, 2016 10:04 PM
#48
Well, I can't actually say that I feel ancient yet. I'm only 21......I'm not ready......................... |
Apr 23, 2016 10:49 PM
#49
Remember AOL, AIM, Xanga, and the world before eBay and Amazon? I feel you. |
Apr 23, 2016 10:50 PM
#50
Uhio said: dizzyur said: Uhio said: dizzyur said: Uhio said: @ people mocking gender identity let's take a moment and think about how nothing in our human society has ever, ever, EVER stayed the same not the way we talk, the way we eat, the way we socialize, the clothes we wear, the government, the infrastructure. hell, even earth itself is physically not the same as it was yesterday, the day before that, the decade before that, or the century before that. the only thing that has remained consistent is the way we shit and piss so what exactly makes you think it is so odd that there are now more than two ways to identify yourself? is it fear? is it blatant bitterness? snobbery? ignorance? how about we stop trying to make fun and instead try to thoroughly understand, because it's obvious that gender identity is a serious thing to some people (actually, quite a lot of people), and calling it illegitimate doesn't say anything about you other than the fact that you don't have the ability to comprehend ideas that you weren't already taught or internalized and by the way, this whole "gender dysphoria" thing has existed before your great grandmother was even born. this isn't the first generation to experience "hey, I don't feel like what my genitals and society says I am" anyways, now that that rant is over with driving past my high school and realizing that every freshman when I was a senior with has already graduated saving up for retirement realizing that I can buy lighters and cigarettes legally when in high school I spent all my time and effort trying to find connections for it family asking if I've found a husband yet Talk about ruining the mood. Dude, calm down. You could fill an entire ocean with that level of salt because someone got mad about your precious gender fluidity. I mean, this ain't tumblr. And CD is far from the best place to be seeking any kind of acceptance. Everyone is a complete and utter ass. Hell, half the things I say ain't serious either. If looking for some form of regressive progressivism, or way to garner attention and love for your identity, there's always a tumblr to retreat to. This is really not the place to be trying to tote your sense of social justice. It'll just get ya mocked and trolled. I'm left-center and my political viewpoints have still gotten backlash, you're not going to find a lot of people who care, nor who'll give you anything but venomous nastiness. So why try typing out an entire vent? I've been doin that shit lately and it's becoming quite exhausting, after awhile you're truly going to come to realization that no one gives a fuck. I'm not that dumb I've been here longer than you have lol. the thing that provoked me to write that rant is that everyone on mal claims to not know what gender identity is and doesn't put forth effort to try to understand, instead shrugs it off as illegitimate and continues to make a mockery of it without any.. real.. basis I don't care if you don't accept it, I'm not looking for love or acceptance, I'm looking for fucking competence. to look at an idea and unquestionably label it as "nope, shouldn't be here" is just playing into willful ignorance and I'd rather just combat THAT, not specifically gender identity. I'd wholly welcome an argument where a person has done the research and is fully aware of what it is, but still disagrees with the idea I don't care for sj bullshit, I'm just not completely obstinate Judging from your contribution to the "nonbinary" thread, your idea of gender mixes up defying norms with actual bio sex, mixes up not caring with having actual gender dysphoria, but that's besides the point. I don't even want an argument, I'm sick and tired of talking about why I think fluidity doesn't apply to gender, so I'm really done. I got booed off of tumblr for it and I don't want that to transfer over here. The primary reason I left tumblr was to escape the overspecialization, not to be crippled by it elsewhere. Primarily why I migrated to MAL. Sure, there are some fucking neonazi bitches who i would boot off the site in a heartbeat if I were a mod, but they're easily ignorable if I stick to my guns and spend more time in forum games, like I generally do, and not in CD or CE. I won't deny that there are a lot of ignorant people here, but I'm really one of the more accepting. However, I do cross certain lines that pertain to my old life on tumblr, that I personally don't want to deal with here, one of them pertaining to constant argument about gender this and gender that. Honestly I could care less about gender if people weren't such assholes about trying to reassure that genderfluidity or nonbinary whatever exists all the time. At this point I'm just done. almost every "nonbinary" fuck I friended on tumblr ended up mistreating, abandoning, or mocking me for not being PC enough for them, some of them even went so far as to try and witch hunt me and tell their friends who didn't even know me to send messages telling me to kill myself– I don't want to have to think about that part of my past anymore. err, yeah that's what I mean about tumblr I mean, like, I may contribute to gender discourse or just general social justice topics but I don't identify with anything tumblr stands for because I think their level of thinking is no different than the idiots here on mal but the difference between arguing on mal and tumblr is that I won't get harassed out of the internet for disagreeing one of the reasons why I like MAL better is at least people know when to stop, there's some levelheadedness here when pitting it against tumblr, people are often purposeful assholes or dumb, rather than intentionally harmful. i feel like i can express myself here a bit more comfortably without having suicide baits cramming my inbox, there's a fairly active mod team that do a good job with monitoring relative to actual abusive behavior, and overall it's a better experience. every day on tumblr in my latter time spent there felt like standing in a line awaiting execution lmao, which sucks. the site harbored some good graphic editors and artists, which i still bookmark and visit from time to time, it's sad that theyre overshadowed by the user bullying to the point where it completely disrupts the experience, and the tumblr staff.... oh god, talk about a group of incompetent nincompoops, they're the most inept modding staff i've ever seen online lol tumblr is content with spewing hate in someones face until they're forced off for having a differing opinion, in what i basically refer to as a 'callout culture' / 'witch hunt' / 'burn the witch' mentality. in other words, if a single person, and occasionally a group of people find themselves involved in a disagreement or drama with another user or users, they'll legitimately weaponize their followers and use them to demean the person they're arguing with into oblivion. and that is just disgusting and incredibly one sided, it basically is the height of the worst kind of self victimization. i have unfortunately been on the receiving of this multiple times for having a controversial/contradicting opinion compared to the majority of tumblr discourse, which is one of the primary reasons why i hardly visit the damn site anymore, and my old blogs are almost entirely defunct. it's too much of a hassle to say anything without fearing backlash, so i don't even bother these days. even so, people here do occasionally grate on my nerves, especially the people who are conspiracist far rights, they're just fucking kooks. yet, they're still less of a harm to deal with than tumblr ever was comparatively, because they show up more rarely or keep mum most of the time, or are at least a little more subtle in flaunting their opinions. to be honest, i don't like either the left or right pole of extremism. they equally piss me off, they have similar goals, to silence those who oppose them in the nastiest manner possible, yet they claim to despise one another- it's hilarity to me. |
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