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Feb 11, 2016 12:10 AM
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Ever feel like no matter where you go you just don't belong? I feel that way. I want to make friends but it seems near impossible being the way I am.
Feb 11, 2016 12:21 AM
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With a name like that I understand why. Na jokes aside, if you're talking about friends online I don't really try to make friends online so I don't really have any, but irl I have no problem fitting in. It's just a matter of talking to people, trying to start conversations is good to try. Rather than just sitting around try and do something about it. Don't worry bro there's always someone willing to be friends no matter what you're like.
when ur about to have a refreshing sip of earl grey tea and someone says "traps are gay"
Feb 11, 2016 12:56 AM
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Yes. That doesn't surprise me. Society exists by casting out its undesirables. No one can fit into society.
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Feb 11, 2016 1:20 AM
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True friends are hard to find. And it depends on people and your personality.
Same interests or outlook on life may be not enough to befriend someone.
Feb 11, 2016 1:23 AM
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No matter where I go?
Hm there have been a few times in my life that I felt like that I suppose.

Feb 11, 2016 1:24 AM
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Have you tried talking with people? that usually helps.


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Feb 11, 2016 1:37 AM
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Nah, I'm too sexy to be an outsider. Be sexy like me.
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Feb 11, 2016 1:57 AM
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Poor OP. Getting all these joke responses from a personal post.

I am an outsider though. I can say that because I live in a trash can.
Feb 11, 2016 2:01 AM
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I'm an outsider but then again, I pretty much hate people so I won't really get involved with them so yup!
Feb 11, 2016 3:38 AM

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No. I have always been able to fit in since I figured out who I am and what I like. The only thing that frustrates me is that while I can find people I can form close friendships with. The sheer amount of people I find stupid and immature overwhelm me and it's something that quite bothers me. I feel surrounded by a cesspool of mediocrity.
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Feb 11, 2016 3:47 AM

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I often feel that way before. Especially with my friends.
Because there were times when they were having fun, going out a lot,talk about their crushes and all, while I stay at home doing nothing but watch anime.
I cannot relate to anything they were talking about. So I often felt like an outsider.
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Feb 11, 2016 3:53 AM

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I have no desire to be accepted by anyone, I walk my own path, doing what I want, when I want. I simply do not care for anyone else's input. I'm not bad at being social, but I'm simply naturally a loner. I'd like to keep it that way.

A pair of eyes appear disguised,
I take flight and stay high in paradise,
With bad luck, snake eyes, a pair of dice.
I'm paralyzed, she speaks twice, a pair of lies,
It's parallel, apparent hell of parasites.
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Feb 11, 2016 4:16 AM
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I love being the outsider. It's fun, and when people finally notice you... holy shit it's a WHOLE new experience.
Feb 11, 2016 4:24 AM

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I do feel like that often, not that I mind though.
Feb 11, 2016 8:24 AM

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Meh, kind of felt that way my whole life. For the most part, it hasn't bothered me too much. Probably the only period it did was when I was between 14-15 and trying to "find my place in the world" or some such shit that teenagers of that age are going through.

But for the most part, I actually kind of like being "on the fence" if you will. I seem to have made more friendships that actually count for something, instead of just several acquaintances that are soon forgotten (though I've had plenty of those as well).
Feb 11, 2016 8:26 AM

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Yes. I'm a racial minority in the city of my birth. I'm an alien on a planet full of stupid apes.
Feb 11, 2016 9:34 AM

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Not always but the feeling sometimes comes back to haunt me. They did start fading away as I made friends I'm actually confidence in trusting and they're all super amazing people. However, I'm almost always the "newcomer" within a particular circle so sometimes, I feel like I'm on the "edge" between inner and outer, if that makes any sense.

Feb 11, 2016 9:41 AM

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Sometimes. I like being alone most of the time and when I end up in a crowd or in the middle of unknown people I feel totally out of breathe. I don't like the city park much either . ( like to go alone but totally hate it when with my family )

But I'm easily comfortable in places like Collage and some cousins house .
Feb 11, 2016 10:07 AM
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Don't worry about it there's a group waiting for you somewhere on this planet
actually with 6000 posts you seem to fit in pretty well on this website o_O

Aurali said:
I often feel like an outsider, but I don't blame society. It's my pessimistic and cautious attitude that's the problem.

I could argue that my behavior is a product of negative experiences with people. However, doing so would be akin to neglecting all the opportunities I have now to get over the past and improve myself. An obnoxious victim mentality would only serve to make me unadaptable and unproductive, after all.

Blaming yourself won't get you anywhere either, just sayin'
Feb 11, 2016 10:28 AM

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More often than not, definitely. I don't mind most of the time, but sometimes it can be depressing.
Feb 11, 2016 10:29 AM

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Naaah. I feel at home whenever I'm with the right people. I feel good at home, school and with my friends. That's what matters I guess
Feb 11, 2016 10:29 AM
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Used too . Not Now .

I have evolved into a different being from what I was say 6 years ago .
Feb 11, 2016 10:41 AM

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Well I'm at school sitting in the hallway charging my phone and drinking brisk all alone lmao
Feb 11, 2016 10:58 AM

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DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE BREAKING DOWN?
DO YOU EVER FEEL OUT OF PLACE?
Feb 11, 2016 12:15 PM

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huh? never, no matter where i am. if any, people can feel out of place near me.
Feb 11, 2016 12:21 PM

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FahtahSensei said:
Yes. I'm a racial minority in the city of my birth. I'm an alien on a planet full of stupid apes.


yeah lol dem fucking pavement monkeys :P hey dude, from what anime is that second pic from top to bottom in your profile? sorry for the off-topic guys.
Feb 11, 2016 12:25 PM

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people are strange, when you're a stranger, faces seem ugly when you're alone
i make terrible youtube videos, dont click the link unless you have literally seen everything else in existence
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH8qW8C2w0PNpTGlA-0r_HA
Feb 11, 2016 1:03 PM

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55Snakes said:
Don't worry about it there's a group waiting for you somewhere on this planet
actually with 6000 posts you seem to fit in pretty well on this website o_O

Aurali said:
I often feel like an outsider, but I don't blame society. It's my pessimistic and cautious attitude that's the problem.

I could argue that my behavior is a product of negative experiences with people. However, doing so would be akin to neglecting all the opportunities I have now to get over the past and improve myself. An obnoxious victim mentality would only serve to make me unadaptable and unproductive, after all.

Blaming yourself won't get you anywhere either, just sayin'


I post a lot on this website but I don't think I'm a particularly well liked user tbh.
Feb 11, 2016 10:27 PM

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Sakuraoka said:


yeah lol dem fucking pavement monkeys :P hey dude, from what anime is that second pic from top to bottom in your profile? .



http://myanimelist.net/anime/6594/Katanagatari?q=Katanagatari

It's on your list ffs
FahtahSenseiFeb 11, 2016 10:38 PM
Feb 11, 2016 10:29 PM
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... I don't just feel like one, I am one.
Feb 11, 2016 10:38 PM

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No i dont really feel like an outsider, i can adapt and make friends quite easily
to my surprise, i am quite introverted so sometimes i feel kinda
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Feb 12, 2016 3:47 AM

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Yes, it's hard being an introvert

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Feb 12, 2016 3:49 AM
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There have been more than a handful of times when I felt like that. Got used to it pretty quickly though.
Feb 12, 2016 3:53 AM

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Yes, in this forum.

I used to post a bit in during 2013 when I registered, then hiatus for 2 years.
Came back, even posting in discussion and giving recommendation, it feel like talking to a brick than a person.

Atm, Im probably gonna hiatus again.
Dont see point to post anymore.

*Just want to be helpful in recommendation thread, but doesnt feel worth efforts when people cant even say thanks.
Nah, i dont think sharing anime ratings in signature is cool thing.

Here, stare at this pointless signature instead.
Feb 12, 2016 4:10 AM

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I always feel like an outsider in social occasions unless I'm with at least one person I know.
Feb 12, 2016 4:20 AM

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Waifu_Strangler said:
I want to make friends but it seems near impossible being the way I am.

Same. It'd be nice if people actually asked me how I was doing.
Feb 12, 2016 4:44 AM
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i used to feel like that all the time but not anymore
Feb 12, 2016 11:17 AM

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haha thats why it looked familiar, yes i know, this is what happens when you watch too much anime :P. thanks anyway ;)
Feb 12, 2016 11:25 AM
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Oh, I feel like this when I'm at college.
Sadly, the amount of immaturity in my class disgusts me to the point of not wanting to make friends.
I'm better than those fools anyways.

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