mayukachan said: Moniisek said: did you ever have sex and did you dislike it? or you're just not into it and feel no desire to experience it? the latter. i've never wanted to have sex with anyone in my life, including the guy i've been love with for 12+ years lmao see that would be a real example of asexuality. Of course, is mayuka lying is another question. Not that I'm trying to call you dishonest, but rather that people have a persona on the internet. what's the saying? You never actually know anyone? There's the 'you' you are when you're around strangers, then goes to friends, then family and close friends, and then only the you, you know which would mean all of us have to take what you say at face value |
| well we obviously disagree about grey-sexual as a term (and yes obv i've also read scientific works and articles. + i study psychology so please no competition about who read more psychological articles. though to be real studying psychology doesn't do jack shit for knowledge about sexuality, i've learned most of what i know from my own research). this is a completely different thing, but if you can point at at middle-to-upper part of the bipolar spectrum and label it cyclothymia, why wouldn't you be able to have a name for something in the middle of the sexuality spectrum? traed said: omg thank you for that first part, finally someone who understands the most obvious thing ever!Same with the agender. Gender is just a social construct comprised of gender roles. So gender is not a real thing so technically everyone is agender but that becomes a meaningless word to use the term gender to identify genders non existence. as for it being unnecessary - gender is so deeply rooted in our society that absence of it must have a name. i think it will become unnecessary at some point in the future, so i agree with you in a way, just not at this point in time. obviously you can choose to use it or not. ie. my mom is non-binary but she just doesn't give a shit about what the name for her gender identity is. meanwhile i am active in the queer community so for me it feels like i should use the term, not because i particularly care about my gender identity, but mostly to raise awareness and promote criticism of the idea of gender. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Asexual is a politically correct word of betacuck |
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Rat said: So this topic is a listing thread of the worst kind. It's a place for people to say "I" and leave. You can't expect to have no replies or opinions on a topic, and criticize the people who do have an opinion solely for having it. Monii it's not even bashing and it's Very far from being a "war". listing - yeah, probably. I personally came to ask #106 my intention wasn't to criticize you for having an opinion. these: SimplyHuman said: You'll get over it and realize that it's just an illusion of you not accepting your sexual attractions. We have all been there. Wensbane said: Lol, you guys aren't asexual, you just can't get laid. khunter said: why does everyone on the internet like to think of themselves as asexual? they make up less than 1% of the population, you're not all on MAL do not sound like an opinion. they sound like scoffing. it's an opinion if you come and say something like Rarusu_ said: I don't get it how well functioning people could possibly be without sexuality (because that is what it means). Children may be asexuals, that's understandable. But if people, especially young ones don't have any interest in sex, I would firstly be concerned about their health. (btw I'm not ass kissing rarusu, definitely not, ok) |
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MayukaChan said: What are romantic feelings? Would you let someone you have romantic feelings for masturbate for you? Asexuals have romantic feelings. Masturbation isn't for purely sexual reasons. Some ppl do it to relax. Once I said this, cause is gonna come in and attack me. Called it. Tell Dr Phil. MayukaChan said: It's not because there's a reason you won't let someone you're romantically attracted to into your personal space. If sex is creepy then why isn't kissing? Our mouths are more unhygenic then genitals.Everyone says this lol. It's like telling a gay person to try having sex with the opposite gender because they will enjoy it once they try it. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
| Wait, so does asexual mean having no sexual attraction or just not wanting to have sex? |
AltoRoark99 said: no sexual attractionWait, so does asexual mean having no sexual attraction or just not wanting to have sex? |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Rat said: No not you Clebby... They opened a topic for discussion not ass licking. If they wanted no one to care why even post in the 1st place? And get mad for people actually discussing the topic at hand. It's just sad. Don't get all liberal on us because it's sexuality were discussing. Why no one defends homless people, cancer victims, war refugees and others like they defend people with some sort of sexuality other than hetero? I don't know dude, this whole gender/sexuality thing seems so ridiculous on MAL right now. Okay, so maybe "asexual" means something specific and they don't qualify. I told myself that I was too lazy and not horny* enough to look for a partner these days (note that I said that I wasn't "asexual", or whatever we're discussing at this point). If those people don't feel like fucking and want to call themselves "abstinents" or "asexuals" or whatever, who cares? They just don't feel like fucking right now and nitpicking about the real meaning of asexual or whatever won't change the way they feel. It's just a random name that helps them define themselves, I don't see the harm. It's better than being a bigot but somehow MAL instantly feels the need to go apeshit on their butts. I wish the christians and muslims (amongst others) here who preach the death penalty for homosexuals and refuse abortion could get half the backlash the gender/sexuality threads generate. Moniisek said: op was looking for ppl like him. he didn't come here to listen to your "you're confused kid who's sad he can't get laid" reasons. I don't think this topic is supposed to be a war. This is honestly what I think too. Yeah, listing is bad. Who cares again? We had a gore+alts+shit spams fest today, an a couple of incisorr's posts. This thread was better than 90% of the shit I saw today. |
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Dick_Dawkins said: Romantic feelings are feelings where you want to grow old with someone, live with them, care for them, support them - at least that's what i feel.MayukaChan said: What are romantic feelings? Would you let someone you have romantic feelings for masturbate for you? Asexuals have romantic feelings. Masturbation isn't for purely sexual reasons. Some ppl do it to relax. Once I said this, cause is gonna come in and attack me. Called it. And I don't care if the person I love has sexual feelings for me. It's not because there's a reason you won't let someone you're romantically attracted to into your personal space. If sex is creepy then why isn't kissing? Our mouths are more unhygenic then genitals. I don't want someone kissing me unless we're dating. It's not because of hygiene. Sex looks gross because genitals look disgusting. |
Clebardman said: I don't know dude, this whole gender/sexuality thing seems so ridiculous on MAL right now. Okay, so maybe "asexual" means something specific and they don't qualify. I told myself that I was too lazy and not enough enough to look for a partner these days (note that I said that I wasn't "asexual", or whatever we're discussing at this point). If those people don't feel like fucking and want to call themselves "abstinents" or "asexuals" or whatever, who cares? They just don't feel like fucking right now and nitpicking about the real meaning of asexual or whatever won't change the way they feel. It's just a random name that helps them define themselves, I don't see the harm. It's better than being a bigot but somehow MAL instantly feels the need to go apeshit on their butts. I wish the christians and muslims (amongst others) here who preach the death penalty for homosexuals and refuse abortion could get half the backlash the gender/sexuality threads generate. if we lived anywhere near each other i'd take you out for dinner/drinks just for this comment |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: Its not about competition, I just did not like how you worded that before. What is it like to study psychology? I almost was originally going to study psychology but I did not get the right opportunities to so Im keeping it off till im older if I do go for it. well we obviously disagree about grey-sexual as a term (and yes obv i've also read scientific works and articles. + i study psychology so please no competition about who read more psychological articles. though to be real studying psychology doesn't do jack shit for knowledge about sexuality, i've learned most of what i know from my own research). this is a completely different thing, but if you can point at at middle-to-upper part of the bipolar spectrum and label it cyclothymia, why wouldn't you be able to have a name for something in the middle of the sexuality spectrum? Actually terms like cyclothymia have actually damaged the diagnosis of bipolar disorder because people stop taking it as seriously by thinking its a spectrum. So people who are not in the highest range are not taken as seriously and then some people who do not even have bipolar disorder can be diagnosed as having it just for having something mildly resembling symptoms. kawaiiyuris said: I think its more efficient to say you dont believe in concepts of gender than it is to say you are agender. That usually just leads people to be confused because agender is a gender identity with only further affirms the validity of gender.traed said: omg thank you for that first part, finally someone who understands the most obvious thing ever!Same with the agender. Gender is just a social construct comprised of gender roles. So gender is not a real thing so technically everyone is agender but that becomes a meaningless word to use the term gender to identify genders non existence. as for it being unnecessary - gender is so deeply rooted in our society that absence of it must have a name. i think it will become unnecessary at some point in the future, so i agree with you in a way, just not at this point in time. obviously you can choose to use it or not. ie. my mom is non-binary but she just doesn't give a shit about what the name for her gender identity is. meanwhile i am active in the queer community so for me it feels like i should use the term, not because i particularly care about my gender identity, but mostly to raise awareness and promote criticism of the idea of gender. |
Rat said: Btw Monii. Roll over and paw! |
Rarusu_ said: It's a question. I don't care what people do with their lives. me neither. I was just showing appreciation for how a polite presenting of an opinion should look like. |
kawaiiyuris said: if we lived anywhere near each other i'd take you out for dinner/drinks just for this comment <3 :3 Damn that was too much for my stoner brain. I'll stick to shitposting for at least a month. |
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mayukachan said: genitals look disgusting. I thought you liked yaoi? I watched a yaoi porn once solely because I saw a gif on tumblr with a really nice looking dick. with a combination of a nice looking face. |
Moniisek said: exactly, manga makes everything beautiful and artsymayukachan said: genitals look disgusting. I thought you liked yaoi? I watched a yaoi porn once solely because I saw a gif on tumblr with a really nice looking dick. with a combination of a nice looking face. i like BL, not specifically yaoi. i dont mind sexual scenes because they're drawn well |
Rat said: Moniisek said: This is not how you do any of these. You know I'll have to punish you for that... sir? I think we're not on the national highway any more? where are we going? |
mayukachan said: Moniisek said: exactly, manga makes everything beautiful and artsyI thought you liked yaoi? I watched a yaoi porn once solely because I saw a gif on tumblr with a really nice looking dick. with a combination of a nice looking face. i like BL, not specifically yaoi. i dont mind sexual scenes because they're drawn well oh I was talking about porn with actual people. |
Moniisek said: oh...............mayukachan said: exactly, manga makes everything beautiful and artsy i like BL, not specifically yaoi. i dont mind sexual scenes because they're drawn well oh I was talking about porn with actual people yeah nah im not into that i've tried but nah |
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Rat said: 90% of those who claim they're asexual just can't get someone to fuck. That's not really true Rat mate. Asexual persons can still have sex. |
MayukaChan said: See maybe this is the root of it. Many guys won't do certain sex acts because of what they think genitals look or taste like. It's mostly girls who are asexual so it's likely to be a reason you can overcome and discover. I don't want someone kissing me unless we're dating. It's not because of hygiene. Sex looks gross because genitals look disgusting. As you said you can masturbate to relax, but when having sex you don't see the genitals anyway. You just see that person in all their sexiness looking at you as they're pleasuring you. Plus if you'd let them touch your genitals then you get the feeling of masturbation which you like while looking at their face down there. Logically asexuality makes no sense at all, I'm certain it's just a fear of trying or rushing into things, but it's no reason to not be happy. Give him.... ,,,The clit. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Wensbane said: kawaiiyuris said: no sexual attraction And apparently, if you rarely experience sexual attraction, you are gray-asexual. Learn something new everyday. glad i could help :thumbsup: traed said: Its not about competition, I just did not like how you worded that before. What is it like to study psychology? I almost was originally going to study psychology but I did not get the right opportunities to so Im keeping it off till im older if I do go for it. Actually terms like cyclothymia have actually damaged the diagnosis of bipolar disorder because people stop taking it as seriously by thinking its a spectrum. So people who are not in the highest range are not taken as seriously and then some people who do not even have bipolar disorder can be diagnosed as having it just for having something mildly resembling symptoms. If you do it at a good university and with good literature, it's great. As a study itself. As for psychology students... prepare for an avalanche of stupidity, ignorance, and lack of empathy from about 95% of them. It really makes you wonder why they're even there. And it is a spectrum. The dimensional approach is becoming more and more popular in psychology/psychiatry. One of the main points of criticism that DSM receives is that it's categorical and doesn't take dimensionality into account. That's why Autism Spectrum Disorder was introduced as a term instead of separating it like in DSM-IV. Cyclothymia is serious disorder btw. Hypomania can be very damaging to one's life, and the depressive episodes, even though milder, are more persistent and shouldn't be dismissed. It's like when people say Bipolar I is more severe than Bipolar II because they don't experience full blown mania. For the agender thing - idk, i feel "dont believe in concepts of gender" sounds pretty pretentious + people may complain about new labels all they want, but things are clearer when they have a name (again, totally different example, but saying 'alogia' is much easier than saying 'poverty of speech' or using a more descriptive explanation). Also, what I already said - I think it still needs a name as gender is too integrated into society. |
kawaiiyurisNov 25, 2015 3:50 PM
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
Dick_Dawkins said: okMayukaChan said: See maybe this is the root of it. Many guys won't do certain sex acts because of what they think genitals look or taste like. It's mostly girls who are asexual so it's likely to be a reason you can overcome and discover. I don't want someone kissing me unless we're dating. It's not because of hygiene. Sex looks gross because genitals look disgusting. As you said you can masturbate to relax, but when having sex you don't see the genitals anyway. You just see that person in all their sexiness looking at you as they're pleasuring you. Plus if you'd let them touch your genitals then you get the feeling of masturbation which you like while looking at their face down there. Logically asexuality makes no sense at all, I'm certain it's just a fear of trying or rushing into things, but it's no reason to not be happy. Give him.... ,,,The clit. but that still doesn't explain why i have no sexual attraction towards someone |
Clebardman said: I told myself that I was too lazy and not horny* enough to look for a partner these days (note that I said that I wasn't "asexual", or whatever we're discussing at this point). If those people don't feel like fucking and want to call themselves "abstinents" or "asexuals" or whatever, who cares? They just don't feel like fucking right now and nitpicking about the real meaning of asexual or whatever won't change the way they feel. We had a gore+alts+shit spams fest today, an a couple of incisorr's posts. This thread was better than 90% of the shit I saw today. I agree. I wish I wasn't so emotional about sex. I have a friend who can (well, could, she grew out of it) sleep literally with anyone who's at least decent looking and not a complete asshole. but I'm just so emotionally drained after any sort of social activity lately. I don't want to see myself after I actually get a job tbh. |
mayukachan said: the latter. i've never wanted to have sex with anyone in my life, including the guy i've been love with for 12+ years lmao fucking bless you mayuka even in the face of everyone derailing this into an asexual hate-fest questioning things they can't comprehend you still stand strong with how you live your life without letting these people get the better of you. ^-^ |
Rat said: EminemVEVO said: That's not really true Rat mate. Asexual persons can still have sex. I never said they're not able to. Anyway for get it. I'm busy thinking where I'm taking Monii to... Im not a redhead btw |
DejWo said: Moniisek said: I agree. I wish I wasn't so emotional about sex. I have a friend who can (well, could, she grew out of it) sleep literally with anyone who's at least decent looking and not a complete asshole. but I'm just so emotionally drained after any sort of social activity lately. I don't want to see myself after I actually get a job tbh. Even though I can enjoys conversations a lot,I have it similar. I guess my social circles could use some fresh air. Though I'd like to see myself graduate first. wtf am I doing it's almost 1 am |
Moniisek said: DejWo said: Even though I can enjoys conversations a lot,I have it similar. I guess my social circles could use some fresh air. Though I'd like to see myself graduate first. wtf am I doing it's almost 1 am Wait, I thought you were in Prague? Are you studying in Prague,but your hometown is Olomouc or vice-versa? |
DejWo said: Moniisek said: wtf am I doing it's almost 1 am Wait, I thought you were in Prague? I'm from prague college in olomouc though |
mayukachan said: Another thread saved by our favourite user. Fixed* Love you SimplyHuman |
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Noxious_ said: mayukachan said: Another thread saved by our favourite user. Fixed* Love you SimplyHuman  |
mayukachan said: Asexuality from pretty much everyone who explains it is a lack of sexual attraction, not urges. That means many things turn you on with this person you love, but there's something about full sex that alienates you. Maybe it's the pregnancy risk or fear of pain.Dick_Dawkins said: okSee maybe this is the root of it. Many guys won't do certain sex acts because of what they think genitals look or taste like. It's mostly girls who are asexual so it's likely to be a reason you can overcome and discover. As you said you can masturbate to relax, but when having sex you don't see the genitals anyway. You just see that person in all their sexiness looking at you as they're pleasuring you. Plus if you'd let them touch your genitals then you get the feeling of masturbation which you like while looking at their face down there. Logically asexuality makes no sense at all, I'm certain it's just a fear of trying or rushing into things, but it's no reason to not be happy. Give him.... ,,,The clit. but that still doesn't explain why i have no sexual attraction towards someone |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
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| I'm 40 years old, asexual and heteromatic. While I may find some actors really hot and sexy in some movies and tv shows, and male characters really hot in some arts, like mangas and animes, real life guys leave me cold. Unlike some asexuals out there, I don't find sex gross, but I personally rarely think about sex. I did have crushes but I never wanted to have sex with them. khunter said: why does everyone on the internet like to think of themselves as asexual? they make up less than 1% of the population, you're not all on MAL I'm also a female INTJ which is even more rare. Yet here I am. Introverts spend time on the internet, like my mother, another INTJ, while extraverts are busy doing sports and other activities. |
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| I would describe myself as perhaps "sexually nihilistic". I'm generally more attracted to women, but I'll basically do whatever entity seems appealing at any given moment, which can vary widely. |
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