Would you be attracted or sexually interested in a tsundere type of person?
| The tsundere type seems to be really loved by a big part of the male MAL community. My male friends have told me time and time again that they like the 'bitchy' kinda girl who plays hard to get. Would you ever be interested in that type of person in real life? If yes, why? Is it the 'hunt'? Do you like being treated well.. quite badly? What is attractive about it? Have you ever dated anybody who'd fit the tsundere criteria? Please discuss away. I'm immensely curious because I've always felt quite negatively about the tsundere type myself and would like to see what's attractive about it. And my fellow girls can obviously also answer this. |
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| As long as I don't get killed in the process |
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cupc said: As long as I don't get killed in the process  |
| Yes. I'm a very tolerant guy when it comes to people I like; a tsundere girl would be no different. (although good luck getting me to like a "bitchy" girl instead of just an average tsundere-esq girl.) When a tsundere girl finally opens up to you, it feels like it's really deserved, you're her special guy, like you've won a competition or something. cupc said: That's more yandere than tsundere.As long as I don't get killed in the process |
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| Maybe not I dont think I will have the patience. |
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Korrvo said: Yes. I'm a very tolerant guy when it comes to people I like; a tsundere girl would be no different. (although good luck getting me to like a "bitchy" girl instead of just an average tsundere-esq girl.) When a tsundere girl finally opens up to you, it feels like it's really deserved, you're her special guy, like you've won a competition or something. why would you like her in the first place? don't you think that's something off-putting? what type of girl are you usually interested in? |
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Korrvo said: That's more yandere than tsundere. I know my archetypes, and tsunderes can be quite violent too. |
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| yes but there are many buts if shes just mean and rude and has no interest in me i dont see how am i ever going to reach the dere part. I sort of give up when people give up on me because thats how i am.. but ive had lasting friendships with people only cus they were there and were persistent and came along for the journey, their behavior wasnt always good but it didnt matter cus when theres desire from one side theres desire from my side as well i guess also when you finally unlock the dere part its all worth it big time anyway~ |
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chuuzenjis said: Depends on the girl; there are several potential reasons I could like her. She may have shown interest in me at whatever point, she may have similar tastes or general personality, I may admire her for any specific reason, she may be sexy as fuck, etc etc.why would you like her in the first place? don't you think that's something off-putting? what type of girl are you usually interested in? It may be off-putting, but being a tsundere doesn't mean you're the world's most hostile being ever or a total bitch. There are more mild and subtle ways of showing dislike for someone, and they may not even show dislike at other times, which fits the expectations of a more realistic tsundere. I'm not masochist (despite how many times I jokingly say I am), I don't like people being cold or aggressive to me, but that doesn't mean my dislike of it is that significant of an emotion, depending on the kind or quantity of dislike I'm receiving. When I think "tsundere", I'm more focused on the potential love aspect you would receive. It's like a hard earned prize, and the stuff you work for is the most satisfying. The "tsun" makes the "dere" more satisfying, so it's very easy to look past the "tsun". What type of girl am I usually interested in? Anyone who will express their like for me in a significant way, without taking the "like" part lightly. That's why I like tsunderes, because they aren't* playing whore with their "like" emotion, so the "like" is more meaningful when she finally opens up to you. edit: I mean't aren't*, I fixed |
KorrvoFeb 24, 2015 7:15 AM
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| I don't have the patience for stupid mind games. |
| I'll quote Araragi cause it fits. "Being kind to everyone just means there's nobody special." And I want to be that special person. |
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Korrvo said: I'll quote Araragi cause it fits. "Being kind to everyone just means there's nobody special." And I want to be that special person. Pretty much this, I want to feel deserving of someone's love, like I earned it and broke down said person's walls. I don't treat it like some kind of "prize". I mean, I've had a crush on a girl who once who told me that she "loved" me, only to find out later that she used that word so carelessly without truly knowing the full extent the power that one single word can hold. I'd rather a person who doesn't show her affectionate side as often as other women, because once you finally see that side to her, you know that its truly meaningful. Also, I'm very tolerable of people's personalities, there's nothing a woman could say to me that my best friends already haven't. I don't know man, its just my opinion. |
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| - If you mean the classic tsundere who is shy and will act uninterested towards the person they love and who might say one or two harsh things (within reasonable boundaries) to hide his/her embarrassment... Answer: Maybe. - If you mean the neo tsundere who acts like a total retard, is a violent and sadistic freak, who treats the person they love like a dog... Answer: Try it yourself and see just how (un)successful you'll be. |
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| i'm also not talking about feisty.. i can see how that could be attractive. but i dont get the actual tsundere type... |
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Korrvo said: chuuzenjis said: Depends on the girl; there are several potential reasons I could like her. She may have shown interest in me at whatever point, she may have similar tastes or general personality, I may admire her for any specific reason, she may be sexy as fuck, etc etc.why would you like her in the first place? don't you think that's something off-putting? what type of girl are you usually interested in? It may be off-putting, but being a tsundere doesn't mean you're the world's most hostile being ever or a total bitch. There are more mild and subtle ways of showing dislike for someone, and they may not even show dislike at other times, which fits the expectations of a more realistic tsundere. I'm not masochist (despite how many times I jokingly say I am), I don't like people being cold or aggressive to me, but that doesn't mean my dislike of it is that significant of an emotion, depending on the kind or quantity of dislike I'm receiving. When I think "tsundere", I'm more focused on the potential love aspect you would receive. It's like a hard earned prize, and the stuff you work for is the most satisfying. The "tsun" makes the "dere" more satisfying, so it's very easy to look past the "tsun". What type of girl am I usually interested in? Anyone who will express their like for me in a significant way, without taking the "like" part lightly. That's why I like tsunderes, because they aren't* playing whore with their "like" emotion, so the "like" is more meaningful when she finally opens up to you. edit: I mean't aren't*, I fixed i see ok. i can get that much. i'm just very interested in the whole idea of it because it has never been something i would ever think of as attractive. i think feisty and playful is nice. but like i said before my male friends have told me before they dig the 'bitchy' type. but seeing the way you put it does make sense in a way |
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| Maybe? I don't know. If I feel she is mean to me for no reason I would most probably try to avoid her. |
chuuzenjis said: There's a difference between a tsundere and a bitch. A bitch is someone I would personally lay flat out on the pavement. i see ok. i can get that much. i'm just very interested in the whole idea of it because it has never been something i would ever think of as attractive. i think feisty and playful is nice. but like i said before my male friends have told me before they dig the 'bitchy' type. but seeing the way you put it does make sense in a way I have no interest in them; they're for masochists, desperate people, and idiots. |
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Korrvo said: chuuzenjis said: There's a difference between a tsundere and a bitch. A bitch is someone I would personally lay flat out on the pavement. i see ok. i can get that much. i'm just very interested in the whole idea of it because it has never been something i would ever think of as attractive. i think feisty and playful is nice. but like i said before my male friends have told me before they dig the 'bitchy' type. but seeing the way you put it does make sense in a way I have no interest in them; they're for masochists, desperate people, and idiots. i think a lot of tsundere characters are quite 'bitchy' that's why i wrote that. i'm not saying bitch=/=tsundere so yeah i got what you were saying. |
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| Agreed. There's a big difference between a flat out bitch and a tsundere. I would make the effort if I think the girl is worth it. It truly depends on how interested you are on the girl though. |
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| don't know any rl tsundere. All girls are nice, without conflicts. |
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| A girl like Kirino? No. Never. Fuck that, please kill me. A girl like Kurisu? Maybe. I prefer my girls cute and fluffy though. |
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| if I know she is interested in me tsundere acts may add a little spice, but only in this case obv: Shiratori-san said: - If you mean the classic tsundere who is shy and will act uninterested towards the person they love and who might say one or two harsh things (within reasonable boundaries) to hide his/her embarrassment... |
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RollTheJoint said: if I know she is interested in me tsundere acts may add a little spice, but only in this case obv: Shiratori-san said: - If you mean the classic tsundere who is shy and will act uninterested towards the person they love and who might say one or two harsh things (within reasonable boundaries) to hide his/her embarrassment... ok this i can fully understand. |
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chuuzenjis said: Have you ever dated anybody who'd fit the tsundere criteria? My class m8 in highschool. We never dated but she totally was tsun. We were both class representatives. Both good at school and always competing with eachother, always arguing about something (ALWAYS). We studied together too and spent a lot of time together or even on the phone in general. We were really cute. Neither of us confessed when it was the time and after a while she started looking at other guys older than me. When I realized I was just being friendzoned I dropped every little bit of relations we had because I was stupid and angry. She cried and I was happy and after a while I wasnt interested anymore. We took separate ways and lost eachother for good. |
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| Not even in the least. Bitchy women are just not attractive to me and if I have to jump through hoops and hurdles to get their affection, then they can shove up their own ass. If there is one thing men all around the world can agree on is that nagging/complaining/bitching is not attractive in the least. |
| One of my best friends is a tsundere. Wouldn't date her though |
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| A tsundere can also change their attitude towards you as you two know more each other and your relationship deepens. As long as they're not so violent that they can cause trauma lol |
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| NOOOOOO!!! until it's Senjougahara of course. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
| well it generally depends but nah that doesn't really sound attractive |
| Hell no, Id bitchslap a twat like that to the moon. Tsundere is the 2nd worst character a girl could have in real life, right after Yandere. |
| If she doesn't physically abuse me I might give it a try... |
| if she's a slight one, like Kurisu, then sure shit like Louise from zeroo no tsukaima, no way in hell |
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| I think I'd like it. But only if it's extreme. |
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| nah |
| I'm pretty sure I know a tsudere-like person in rl, and I would gladly smack her. So no. |
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Borgov said: Not even in the least. Bitchy women are just not attractive to me and if I have to jump through hoops and hurdles to get their affection, then they can shove up their own ass. If there is one thing men all around the world can agree on is that nagging/complaining/bitching is not attractive in the least. you see i agree with that but i've had male friends tell me that they like the bitchy-ness in some girls. so lmao |
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| Lol i dont even like them in anime of course not |
| I can't stand it in anime, let alone real life |
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| No, but it seems China and HK have quite a few women like this as most videos featuring real life tsunderes originated from those places. |
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| I'm not a fan of domestic abuse. |
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| What's up with all these tsundere questions lately o.O They would if she's hot. But no hot girls would ask them out in the first place. |
cupc said: As long as I don't get killed in the process only if i get killed in the process |
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