| Honestly, I think I'm a scumbag for trying to steal a person's girlfriend away, but there are times when I think I'm better suited for them. I mainly do this because the guys I see are idiots and unsupportive. I've successfully done it once before, and I'm somewhat in the middle of doing it to another right now. AM I NTR'ING? I mean, if the person is obviously a terrible match for the girl/guy you're trying to steal, what makes it so wrong to do? Besides the whole fidelity thing, of course. Do these people even get the right to claim something like that? Another reason: some people enter relationships that are pretty bad from the start, but what if they come across their real "soulmate" (in this case, it would be me :D)? Do they still have to commit to a weak relationship, simply out of respect? Of course... more often than not, it makes sense for them to break it off with the person before officially being with you. However, I'm not talking about that. Again, I want to know if it's truly wrong to break the boundary created by relationships and insofar as stealing one of them away when you are highly positive their current relationship is bad. Thoughts? |
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| May the best man win. |
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| Don't do it to your friends OP. Bros before hoes. |
| Aww shit its Mr ImmaStealYoGirl up in da house! |
| NTRRRRRRR |
| Maybe try getting your own girlfriend and stop thinking you deserve everyone's girlfriend? |
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| all is fair in love and war but honestly I wouldn't keep a 2 timing bitch around me so whatever. |
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| If its meant to be, then it will be. The weak shall perish! |
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Rezurrekt said: I've successfully done it once before, and I'm somewhat in the middle of doing it to another right now. what happen to the girl you stole successfully? |
| No, it's never wrong unless your life can be in danger or something. It's fair game always. |
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Immahnoob said: No, it's never wrong unless your life can be in danger or something. It's fair game always. Do you speak from experience? I'm not sure if you should be stealing girls that age. |
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Kagami_Hiiragi said: That's so forced. Immahnoob said: No, it's never wrong unless your life can be in danger or something. It's fair game always. Do you speak from experience? I'm not sure if you should be stealing girls that age.  Here's some recognition though. |
Play League of Legends here! Autocrat said: Hitler was good, objectively. |
Damn you netori guy. |
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| I just find it amusing how, whenever something of the mentioned nature happens, part of the blame falls on the third person, the outsider, as well, when really, the responsibility is solely on the cheater's shoulders. Products resting on shelves are just that. You purchasing them is your choice, and your choice alone. People prefer staying in a damaging relationship simply because it represents what they're used to. Many deny it, but people have a difficult time getting accustomed to the concept of change. |
| You assuming that her relationship is bad and that you're a better match is just you trying to justify your motives and yes that makes you a scumbag. If she is unhappy with her relationship then eventually she will end it herself but if you try and get in between them you'd just be another home-wrecker. Also you mentioned you've done it before and yet you obviously ended it with that girl then yeah... so much for that soul mate bull shit you just brought up. To sum it up you're a scumbag. But I mean it's your life do whatever you want, as long as you don't regret it. |
| I think it's wrong if you try to steal someone's girlfriend if it's in a sleazy manner, like trying to kiss your friend's girlfriend if she doesn't want it or even badmouthing her boyfriend in order to make her contemplate about breaking up with him, but if she genuinely likes you even though she's with someone else I think it's fine. You can't really 'steal' someones girlfriend if she is unhappy anyway, because a break-up is inevitable. |
| Determines how its done like Bambi said. Also wrong if it involves deception. |
| If someone can steal my GF than shes not worth it. I mean if their not loyal, then fuck em. |
| If you actually really like the girl to the point where it hurts not being with her then I say go ahead and try. Although if you successfully steal her then you owe her ex at least one good punch to the face. Stealing someones gf/bf is one of the scummiest moves anyone can do. Taking a punch to the face is the least you can do. |
| Its petty as fuck, find someone single to date instead of trying to cause problems for others Kagami_Hiiragi said: Maybe try getting your own girlfriend and stop thinking you deserve everyone's girlfriend? |
| Mind-Break and NTR? yes please. But yeah, if some girls are willing to let themselves be stolen, they probably were not worth your time in the first place. |
| It's not really for YOU to determine whether they are a good match or not. That's kind of something people nooormally decide for themselves when they are in a relationship. That being said, it's a good way to make enemies, so I wouldn't do that to any friends you really care about. And I also think it depends how you go about it. I don't think there's anything wrong with simply letting a girl know, even if she's taken, how you feel about her. Let her know, but don't push her to be unfaithful... because then you've definitely overstepped your bounds. It's up to her if she wants to continue her own relationship, or end it to try one with you. I mean, it'd be wrong for her to stay in that relationship when she has feelings for someone else. But like I said, it really depends how you go about things. Trying to have ANY sort of romantic relationship (even if its not physical) while she is still involved with someone else is just wrong. So fess up how you feel, leave it at that and let her decide who she wants to be with. |
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silmaril said: Damn you netori guy. ^^^ This times 100. LOL |
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| It isnt considered stealing if that person really wants to be with you and leave the other one. |
| I think you should just let the other person know and then let them decide for themselves whether they want to go out with you or continue the previous relationship. But if they decide to go out with you, you must make sure they have ended their previous relationship since cheating on someone who trusts you is wrong and can be very painful for the other person. |
| If you're not just imagining that you're better and the girlfriend you like has problems with the dude i think that you're ok. Moreover, why do you ask here on mal? Isn't there a friend of yours irl that knows both you and the other guy? |
| Stay classy, MAL. -sigh- Not a huge fan of those kinds of guys/girls who have to interfere with a happy couple. You make our lives so much harder. |
| Kinda creepy |
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| And these replies here are the actually selfish ones. MAL is as foolish as always. |
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| Honestly. If I stole someones gf I'd just label them as a slut, have my fun then get rid of them. no point of having a girl who isn't loyal. |
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| It's not wrong, but it's dickish. The girl would be at fault for being lose, or that would mean she wasn't content with the relationship to begin with, so it isn't incredibly dickish. There may be variables that make it less/more dickish. Dickish. |
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Rivayne said: Honestly. If I stole someones gf I'd just label them as a slut, have my fun then get rid of them. no point of having a girl who isn't loyal. Why waste your time even? |
mayukachan said: some men just wanna dick around and cause trouble.Rivayne said: Honestly. If I stole someones gf I'd just label them as a slut, have my fun then get rid of them. no point of having a girl who isn't loyal. Why waste your time even? |
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Rezurrekt said: I think your conscience is calling. If you think it's bad, then act like it's bad. If you think it's good, then act like it's good.Honestly, I think I'm a scumbag for trying to steal a person's girlfriend away (snip) I mean, if the person is obviously a terrible match for the girl/guy you're trying to steal, what makes it so wrong to do? (snip) Thoughts? |
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| Its not really your fault as it was the Bf/Gf that dumped the other person to be with you |
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| Yes. If somebody is unhappy in a relationship, they should end it. People who steal or are stolen only know how to half-ass relationships. |
| Well, just to make it clear: I was successful before because the guy was a complete dick - verbally abusive, cheated on her, etc. She was only with him for as long as she was because she was emotionally attached to him partly due to the fact he took her virginity and wasn't the type to break up with someone no matter what. She eventually did when I showed her I could give her much more. Fast-forward, she began to like me whilst in the relationship, but broke it off with him to be with me. It didn't work out in the end because it was emotionally draining to "fix" her. Nonetheless, I am 100% certain I gave her back some light that was taken away from her, and helped her learn to trust another person again. I only feel like I'm a jerk because, more often than not, people who do this ARE jerks who are trying to steal people for sheer entertainment (to realize self-worth, enjoy sexual contact, etc.) but I do it simply because I don't like seeing people who deserve much better with someone that doesn't treat them like it. Obviously, I'm not saying I have some superpower to detect if a person is being a jerk or not, but I do a lot of "relationship counselling" with the person before-hand. I tend to get along with them quite well, I'm emotionally supportive, and I simply like to cheer people up. It just ends up at the point where we both develop feelings for each other and that's how I justify doing something like this. I'm not saying I'm going to forcefully get them to do things behind their back. Emotionally, sure - but shit like that happens all the time. I still believe I'm within reasonable boundaries. I don't try to hold hands, kiss, or have sex with the person when they're still with someone. In many countries, that's wrong. I'm not THAT much of a scumbag, if at all. If a person was abusive to you non-stop and/or you simply don't feel compatible with them and stay in the relationship because you feel like you have no one else to go to, wouldn't it be entirely reasonable to develop feelings for another person who makes you feel happier and desirable? Of course most people would break up with the person they're currently with before they actually pursued anything further than friendship. |
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