| What are your guys' opinions on how to reject someone asking you out as smooth as possible? It could be a confession, or someone asking you to a dance (the high school kind where they make a scene and have 8+ friends hold a poster in the background while main guy buys a shit load of flowers). What could possibly be the most painless way to do it? Or, if you're a sadist, what's the best way to do it to hurt their feelings? |
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| I'm just honest and say when I'm not interested. Many people have it in their heads that you have to spare someone's feelings through evasive bullshitting or come off as rude as possible when showing disinterest. There are tactful, sensitive ways to speak your mind while getting the point across. A simple "sorry I can't return your feelings" or "Sorry I'm not interested, nothing personal" will do more good in the long run than "It's not you, it's me." |
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| See, I used to think the nicest way was saying some shit like "I'm not interested in dating anyone right now" but that just gives them hope and they end up liking you for a longer time. Just tell them you don't like them in that way. |
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mayukachan said: That actually reminds me of a play I read for one of my classes. It's about a guy who gets rejected just like that and he turns into a batshit insane stalker who won't take no for an answer. It's called Boy gets Girl.See, I used to think the nicest way was saying some shit like "I'm not interested in dating anyone right now" but that just gives them hope and they end up liking you for a longer time. |
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| Just say no and walk away or stomp on his flowers |
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| I generally don't say no to dates, I mean what's the worst thing at could happen? Then again I am a male. If I had to reject somebody I'd probably just be as blunt as possible. |
Objective said: I generally don't say no to dates, I mean what's the worst thing at could happen? Wasted time, I guess. And giving them more hope. |
mayukachan said: I reckon the only way to really prove incompatibility is to give it a shot. Objective said: I generally don't say no to dates, I mean what's the worst thing at could happen? Wasted time, I guess. And giving them more hope. Holding onto ideals of a perfect partner is unrealistic, you've really gotta sacrifice in order to find true happiness, and who knows? You might actually fall for that said person, anything is possible in this big crazy world of ours. |
| I say I am not interested if they are ugly or too ratchet. Simple, I don't dance around the shit. This girl in high school who was known as promiscuous asked me on a date once, I said HELL NAH. Dry ass fingers.... |
| I am not even lucky enough to have a date... |
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| I'm bad at rejecting people. I would tell them I'm not allowed to, which isn't entirely wrong. :/ |
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Drakehawk said: I am not even lucky enough to have a date... If it makes you feel better, my experience with being asked out was because he's a loser and was just thirsty for a female. |
mayukachan said: Drakehawk said: I am not even lucky enough to have a date... If it makes you feel better, my experience with being asked out was because he's a loser and was just thirsty for a female. Hey, you gotta look at it positively. Don't be such a debbie downer. |
| Laughing at them would probably hurt. |
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mayukachan said: Damn, that's what I said. "I'm not interested in dating right now. I'd rather just be friends."See, I used to think the nicest way was saying some shit like "I'm not interested in dating anyone right now" but that just gives them hope and they end up liking you for a longer time. |
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| "Sorry, i'm not interested." with a very serious and determined face/tone usually works for me. I don't like hurting other people but I don't like giving them hopes either. |
Nanet said: act interested but don't ever let them go farther than being a friend.Or, if you're a sadist, what's the best way to do it to hurt their feelings? |
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| "I'm not interested in dating you." is what I usually use. If I want to be mean well... It depends on who this person is. |
Play League of Legends here! Autocrat said: Hitler was good, objectively. |
| What's a date ?! |
| It depends on the person, but I'm usually pretty blunt about it. Some of the guys I've dealt with simply don't get the damn message. I had to change my number once because of a persistent jerk who wouldn't give up. |
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| If they were to ask me to meet me, I would simply ignore it since I've got no Obligation to turn up. If they were to ask me on the Spot, I would either make it completely short like "no thanks. Bye." or just walk away; I mean: why should I waste any Time to reject someone I don't even care about? But I guess that Girls/Woman have it much harder in that Regard than Boys/Men, so maybe calling the Police might be an Option for persistent Stalkers. |
If I don't like the person asking, = |
pseudoenigma said: Thats pure evil. Who would do such a thing?Nanet said: act interested but don't ever let them go farther than being a friend.Or, if you're a sadist, what's the best way to do it to hurt their feelings? |
| Well one time I went on a blind date, I looked at her once and puked in my mouth. Then throughout the whole date I just looked at my phone under the table the whole time, the second after I ate my food I told her I had to go to the bathroom. Never came back, atleast I got 'free' food :D |
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| I just say I'll pass. |
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| "I'm taken" but now that I think about it that is probably one of the worst ways you can do it, easy for me, but I imagine would be pretty hard for them. |
| I'm interested in someone else would be my choice. Never thought how other person would feel about it. |
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| Just say that you are not interested. |
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Sol_Ou said: pseudoenigma said: Thats pure evil. Who would do such a thing?act interested but don't ever let them go farther than being a friend. Lmfao I remember i did that one time xD |
| Since you are a girl, you may have that problem in the future. Whatever the case, rejecting him nicely is the best way except from jerks and guys that are head over heels for you. How to reject him depends clearly on the individual that you are facing. |
| 'I'm sorry, but I don't like you that way.' |
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| I just change the subject to Ultraman it works all the time. |
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pseudoenigma said: Nanet said: act interested but don't ever let them go farther than being a friend.Or, if you're a sadist, what's the best way to do it to hurt their feelings? That's pretty low. Even sadists have morals. |
| > ( someone who i don't know. ) "will you go on a date with me?" > "eh.. erm.. ah.. YES. um.." super long stuff |
| my kuroocanda don't want none unless you got tsukibuns hun. |
Nanet said: What could possibly be the most painless way to do it? lie and say there is som1 else you like or you are very busy and not interested in dating |
| One girl had a friend of hers ask if i liked her I said no, yet she still tried to ask me out in person later :| I was like "im sorry I dont feel that way" and she like started crying. Another girl wrote on paper "will you go with me (yes) (no)" i couldnt get myself to say no so since its so insentitive that way so i pretended like i never saw it and didnt respond to it which maybe wasnt the best idea. One guy asked me out and I wasnt sure if he was joking because i didnt hear anything about him being bi or gay or anything. He kept acting serious so even though i was laughing a bit I still said "no, im sorry". I hope he was joking since he made me feel bad since he kept trying to act all sensitive which is way out of his normal personality >_> |
| Tell them you're attracted 2D. Awkward silence may or may not follow though. |
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| The one I've used the most is "Oh um.. idk I just got out of a long relationship and I don't want you to be my rebound cause you're so awesome" But the best one I used 4 months ago and it was "OMG I wish but my parents wont let me date until Im 30" her face was like O__O and I walked away |
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| Say "I'm sorry, but I already have a waifu". Works every time trust me 100% I promise. |
[/quote] [quote=billyboyforever]How dare you make your "about me" so amazing?! Are you insane?!! |
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