| It's only as complicated as you make it. And yes you can just stay in your relationship for other benefits than love, or with your new potentional partner. That's up to you, it's pretty common in our shitty culture of just pure greed and egocentric behavior. But the ideal thing would be you loving your partner and your partner loving you. It's pretty basic and simple. It's what you should go for to find true happiness. Decieving your partner into thinking you still like him or her is just mean and wrong. It won't last and is a waste of fucking time. Your in this together, it's not just you. |
| Everyone is forgetting what a threesome is these days |
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Jenguin said: Jaguer91 said: Honestly I can't break up with someone for another person, I'd be a really shitty person if I do that, as long as I'm doing ok with my current partner, there is no way I would break up with her, no matter how great the other person is, those are my self-imposed morals. That's one of the most retarded things I've ever heard. Why would you deny yourself happiness and true love, just for the sake of being "ok" with your current partner? It's also not fair to your current partner, as he/she deserves someone who loves them 100% and passionately, not someone who is in an "ok," stale relationship. You're being retarded by misunderstanding what I said. First off I wouldn't be denying myself happiness and true love because Idk if I can get that with that other person, that's uncertain, she could seem better than my current partner at first, but that doesn't necessarily mean I will be happier with her for long. Also by doing ok I mean I'm happy with that person, if I was suffering with that person then yeah, I would think about breaking up, but if she loves me and tries to make me happy, I could never break up with her for another person, no matter how great that person is. Hurting someone who loves me is the last thing I could do, even if my feelings aren't as strong as hers, that's why I say those are my self-imposed morals. |
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| Break up, I'm not going to cheat. I mean if I like the other person and stay with my current girl, I would just be lying to her. I rather be honest, even if she end up hating me. |
 THE RED KING |
Supercolin said: Date them both? In reality, no girl wants to be number 2. Too much drama anyways. I mean would you want to share a girl with another dude? |
THE RED KING |
Lice said: Supercolin said: Date them both? In reality, no girl wants to be number 2. Too much drama anyways. I mean would you want to share a girl with another dude? Who are you talking, really? At least I know directly one who would do it (being number 2 and such). And bunch more from indirectly (acquaintance of acquaintance story about their acquaintance), news and public figure. So, harem choice might sounds ridiculous (and everyone seems to joke about it) but actually pretty doable. Hard but still doable. << words of encouragement for whoever want to seriously follow this route. |
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| If you're good enough with the current one why go through so much trouble ? But if you don't have anymore attachment.. be a man and raise a new flag. Assuming you're that gutsy just bag them all and make a harem. |
| Stay with my current partner, the one at work is probably just a temporary crush anyway. Nobody is perfect, I wouldn't throw away someone who was important to me just like that, that's what kids do. |
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| let your partner know and be completely honest about every detail. they can either dump you, try to make you not see them or yall will become poly. either way, it isnt a pretty situation to be in. |
| I'd say "I found a better girl, you dirty old slut, I don't wanna see your ugly face again, understood ?!". No no no, I'm not horrible, I don't wanna give the poor girl any hope that we may back together, I don't want her to feel pain. *tears* |
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| The whole point of marriage is that it's supposed to be for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do you part. If you can't commit to that, don't get married. Then you won't have to worry about it. Just tell them you wanna break up. It will be devastating for them, to be sure, and they won't be so willing to let go. If you can't deal with that, then it's probably not worth it, right? |
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