| I've met many people in school, where they always change themselves completely after summer vacation fx. Do you ever change yourself like that (maybe your image or style)? and what do you think about those who are doing it? I recently met someone in the train from my old school. Back then she was the sports freak, and she was always wearing t-shirt and jeans, but now she wears leather clothes and began listening to BvB and got a piercing and a tattoo etc. I know that she's just growing up and all, but i never expected it to be this much. I didn't even recognize her. Sorry, if this is a stupid thread, or if someone already made this. But i was actually curious about this. So i hoped to hear others opinion on this. |
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| What;s BvB? And to answer your question, I think it's age related. Once people pass the highschool drama and puberty it's all over. But up till then, appearances matter a lot to most kids. Though a complete makeover after 3 months is kind of harsh. |
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| Nah, I don't do it myself and I can't remeber seeing anyone else (friends, classmates etc.) doing this |
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| I'm usually the same after summer. Some people go through change or try to fit in I guess. |
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| That's just really what kids do, it's part of the "trying on identities" stage of life before adulthood when you give up on having one. If you read about the psychological/social development around that age you'll gain a great understanding of what you and others around you are experiencing. |
| Back in the day I changed my looks to fit into the whole emo stuff. I'm still embarassed by that. But I never really changed my personality. |
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| Everyone remembers that one first day of school when all the girls magically grew boobs. |
| Hmm This is quite interesting... |
| I've been here way too long... |
| I think its pretty normal for people to grow and develop new hobbies/style/interests, that said I have never change myself in a big way, only noticable different is I've gotten confidence and care less about stuff. |
Imstayingano said: I've met many people in school, where they always change themselves completely after summer vacation fx. Do you ever change yourself like that (maybe your image or style)? and what do you think about those who are doing it? I recently met someone in the train from my old school. Back then she was the sports freak, and she was always wearing t-shirt and jeans, but now she wears leather clothes and began listening to BvB and got a piercing and a tattoo etc. I know that she's just growing up and all, but i never expected it to be this much. I didn't even recognize her. Sorry, if this is a stupid thread, or if someone already made this. But i was actually curious about this. So i hoped to hear others opinion on this. Yeah I did the same thing a couple times, went through like two or three different phases (goth/scene emo etc) change is fun, attention is fun, dressing up is fun, makeup is fun BvB blows hard though... so I see your point there, tell her to pm me for some better music^^ OP don't worry about it, play dressup with her and join in on her hobbies - or forget and move on |
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| Personally, I never made any drastic changes to myself. Obviously I'm changing but that's just because I'm getting older. |
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| I've never bothered to change myself really. |
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| It's a youth thing where they experiment with different personalities. No, I don't do hat. |
| I did things like that when I was a kid, but I'm pretty much happy as I am now and I've been the same for a while. |
bloodlover said: What;s BvB? Black veil Brides, which is a rock band. |
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apachelsalvador said: Nope, I've always been the same throughout the years, if not better. Also, I've always been myself and haven't changed much. I have some people try to change, but people rarely really "change". |
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| I'm a little bit more tanned after summer. Does that count? |
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| I once had a period of half a year during puberty where I wanted to be part of the cool kids and wanted brand clothes, Billabong, Burton, DC and whatever else. Then I realised that its a waste of money and Ive been pretty much the same ever since, except for gradually becoming more and more perver... erm sexually open minded. |
| I'm only aware of people getting tans due to going off of vacations or spending way too much time on the beach. I don't recall people changing their personality (then again I didn't really know or cared about many people when I was a teen, lol). Hairstyles usually get changed too. |
| Wait people change over time? no way, mind blown. |
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| Sometimes I get a different colored glasses that's about it. |
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Imstayingano said: I've met many people in school, where they always change themselves completely after summer vacation fx. Do you ever change yourself like that (maybe your image or style)? and what do you think about those who are doing it? Depends on the individual's intention with many aspects influencing their decision to make a change. For me, id struggle to see myself turning into a genuine extrovert as it exhausts me mentally. Whilst i do not mind catching up/or going out with friends, doing it a number of times within a short-time period will burn me out. As for changing my image, the last time i recall making a drastic change was toward my sense of fashion. Went from wearing nike/factorie branded clothes to a much more formal style. Looking back now, I was a stuck up individual, who had a sense of superiority. Lots of regrets to how i treated some people because of the clothes they wore to dinner/nightclubs. Have a few friends whose personality took a 180 degree turn after being associated with their colleagues (in which case i dont blame them here, sometime its necessary to keep their jobs somewhat entertaining). In saying that, sometime people change for the better, and others for the worst but i believe it generally all come down to the individual's reason |
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| I'm slowly going through a transition phase right now. I'm beginning to prefer more classy/preppy and formal clothing where as in the past I liked to wear very casual stuff like Nike t-shirts and shorts (I was very into basketball back then). It's also been over a year since I started working out and lifting regularly so my physique has changed a bit as well. Personality wise, I'm having to slowly become more social and outspoken. I'll be starting college and studying business in the fall so I'm going to have to get used to it. I've been really shy in the past so this is definitely a challenge that's going to take some time to overcome. |
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