Do you think people who look for/watch harems/roms overall feel unloved so they watch it to somehow fill his/her heart?
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| You clipped my wings and blamed me when i couldn't reach the stars. |
Mr7Beans said: No. |
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kami_desu said: Mr7Beans said: No. |
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Hitlariousnazi said: kami_desu said: No. |
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| Watching harem anime imo was because I've been turned down alot, to the point it makes me feel better about myself to be shown a story of me being the main guy and having chicks chase you for a change. But most others may just watch it for the boobs/girls/panty shots. |
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This thread... @ Topic - Who knows, trying to answer for anyone other than myself is retarded. I just watch them because they tend to be mindless fun. Not everything has to be wish fulfillment or Freudian pseudo-psychoanalysis. |
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| Definitely not... |
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| Wouldn't that be the other way round? I don't know about you, but if I felt unloved, I think I'd avoid romance at all costs so as not to feel envious or anything. |
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| I think it would be the other way around actually. |
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| yes |
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JumpinJackFlash said: Brynhildr said: |
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rothrock said: JumpinJackFlash said:  |
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| No. I watch them either for comedy purposes, the cute girls or whatever else catches my fancy. |
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| where do you draw the line between a loved person and an unloved one? |
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romagia said: where do you draw the line between a loved person and an unloved one? In your own mind. |
| You clipped my wings and blamed me when i couldn't reach the stars. |
| Has anyone ever wondered why the kool-aid guy is always with a pitcher of kool-aid? Is he a cannibal? Seriously, what the hell? |
| nope. i'm sure every man wants to be their own king |
| I think it can be a factor, similar to how some women in America flock to books like Twilight and Fifty Shades of Gray to indulge their fantasies. For me personally, I often times enjoy the romance in anime/manga more than most American representations of romance, because of the focus on the core of romance itself rather than the sexual aspects. It's also nice to see the genuinely nice guy play the lead instead of the doormat. |
| Some do, some don't. Seriously, this isn't a debatable matter, it's just more about throwing your prejudgement knowing that it is a prejudgement. |
| I just like when one guy gets more than 1-2 girls |
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| I think any man would love to have a harem regardless of how popular he happens to be IRL |
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HaXXspetten said: I think any man would love to have a harem regardless of how popular he happens to be IRL O hell no, one GF already puts enough of a strain on ones budget, imagine 10 girlfriends! |
| I watched a lot of comedy because I feel lonely in my entire life! I watched a lot of ecchi because im still virgin, sh1t how pathetic I am!! |
| Nein, I watch them mainly because of...Why do people watch animes again? |
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HaXXspetten said: I think any man would love to have a harem regardless of how popular he happens to be IRL Only those with a huge narcisistic level would want a harem in real life. Obsessed with woman , he breaths woman and eats woman xD. Imagine 10 GFs'.......no time for yourself , no time to do anything else but run from a place to place and eventually bang eachother. |
| "Love is a drug to our brain , it stops the thinking function and when you realize it wether you acomplish it or not you'll enter in one of the 3 withdrawal states : happy , sad or anger. Once this drug gets hold of you you'd better be prepaired beforehand." - Me |
| i was about to say straight no.... but then I realized I was unloved and watch rom (not harem) all the time, and I was like O.O woa what if that's why. |
| I know I don't personally. I watch romance anime to see the progression of the relationship of the characters so it's basically entertainment to me. |
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| No people watch them because they want to see a nice animated set of tits or they find them funny. |
| "Laws exist only for those who cannot live without clinging onto them." -Souske Aizen "Bleach"  |
JeanQuebecois said: HaXXspetten said: I think any man would love to have a harem regardless of how popular he happens to be IRL O hell no, one GF already puts enough of a strain on ones budget, imagine 10 girlfriends! Your doing it wrong. In no harem I watched did any girl put a financial burden on OP. |
| Do we assume that everyone who watches Hollywood chick flicks and romantic comedies is a desperate single woman hoping to "meet cute" a rich handsome man who'll solve all her problems? I would say not -- the "ecchi/harem anime fans are all loser virgins" is just vacuous fanbase-bashing criticism from the haters who can't string together enough valid criticism about the merits of the shows themselves. |
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| People who watch a lot of Slice of Life anime where all the characters just eat food and drink tea have no friends so they need social life simulators. |
ShrabsterJul 29, 2014 12:55 AM
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| a bit off topic, but I just realized I actually had a 4-girl harem back in middle school haha. unfortunately, I was only attracted to one of them..... wait.... that's like how it is in anime, isn't it.... wow. and I was too damn shy to capitalize on it ;_; |
| Perhaps they are. |
| Reverse harem yes. Romance depending what it is. |
| nope i watch it because i enjoy it and i feel unloved all the time anyway so it wouldnt change my situation :L |
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